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writes:How's everyone doing. I'm 18 yrs old and live in the US. For about 4-6wks I've been/ met this girl who at first I wasn't much attracted to both physically and personality wise. And in the first week or so of meeting her my feelings for her started developing, and I actually got her a job at the place I work. For the early weeks we were in contact through txts, calls and metting up and what not. Maybe every other day and stuff but now recently its an everyday thing were both txting eachother just to talk and stuff. Within this past week we've gone out casually about twice and last night I was actually at a local mall/plaza where I metup with a friend and he left later on. And the girl and me wete txting since 12. So I decided to ask her to come out to the plaza with me since my friend lefy and I'd like some company. And it was like 11pm and she actually came. We sat on a bench for an hour talking, then got some food and everything was just so social and fluent. She was laughing, actually giggling, when she giggles I swear to god that good stop a war in its tracks. It just makes you forget about everything bad. So then it was time for her to go home. I paid for our food and drinks and as she was ready to go I casually asked hey you want to go to the zoo while she was already walking, and she stopped turned around and came back to me and said yes, and she threw in that she'd love to bring her 2 little sisters. To me for how we've been communicating lately this seems like a possible date? Possinly a moment to while we're somewhere nice in the zoo to get personal and get to know her better as a person? And from there a relationship may sprout? What do you guys think? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, kairi3811 +, writes (29 July 2011):
 That sounds like a good idea. (: Go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2011): Thx for the reply. Do you think while at the zoo, when we have some personal time I should ask her if she'd like to go to a restaurant or something another day telling her that I'd like to get to know her more as a person? Thanks
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reader, kairi3811 +, writes (27 July 2011):
It sounds like you really have a thing for thing for this girl. The only bad thing with that is, you are going to over analyze what she says and what she does. I agree with the previous answer, it can't be a date with her if she brings her siblings. I would start out just getting to know her. I have learned, also, if you show interest in her siblings, she will notice that. I know I love it when my fiance' wants to spend time with my family. I would hang out with her in just a friendly manner 2 more times, then ask her to go on an actual date with you. Sounds to me this could be a potential relationship, but you gotta play your cards right and take your time. (: Hope this helped at least a tad and I wish you the best of luck!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (27 July 2011):
 A date with two little sisters tagging along? Um, no thats not a date. That is a get together with a friend.
You had a nice time. Develop a friendship first and do not think what it is becoming.
If you want a date, which is really touchy with someone you work with, then ask her out later after the "rush" of new interest has calmed down a bit.
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