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writes:I'm not emo and find some emo boys attractive. Do you think straight emo guys would go for a non-emo girl? Reply to this Question
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (27 July 2011):
 It doesnt matter weather your an emo, goth, geek, chav, gangster, girlie girl, jock, scean, nerd, skank, metal head, social outcast, popular person or if you belong to any other sort of group. When it comes down to relotionship people go for other people who have a the personailty there looking for it really doesnt matter what social group you do or don't belong to, when your looking for a partner you just kinda instantly click with them.
To prove it know a couple at my old school one of them is a goth who loves screamo his really loud in a big rockband loves stuff to do with the devil and stuff. While as his girlfriend is a christain, who is very shy and sensitive and is one of the kindest sweetest people i ever met. So i suppose with everyone its different you can fall in love with anybody really its just important to be your self and like lifeinsonnetform said just be you and ignore any social groups that may defey you.
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reader, Ronnie70 +, writes (27 July 2011):
 I'd say it would be doomed to failure if you're an upfront kinda gal.
Emo's are an entire subculture of people (usually angsty teens) with a fake personality. The concept of Emo is actually a vicious cycle that never ends, to the utter failing of humanity, and it goes something like this:
1. Girls say they like "sensitive guys" (lie)
2. Guy finds out, so he listens to faggy emo music and dresses like a dork so chicks will see that he is sensitive and not afraid to express himself (lie). He dyes his hair black, wraps himself in a stupid looking scarf, develops an eating disorder, and rants about how "nobody understands".
3. Now an emo guy, he meets Emo chick and they start dating, talking about how their well-off suburban lifestyles are terrible and depressing (lie)
4. Emo guy is just too much of a pussy. His penis is too small, he's too depressed to bathe, and has more mood swings than emo chick, and he doesn't even have a menstrual cycle. Emo chick dumps him, saying "It's not you, it's me." (lie) as she drives off with Wayne, the school jock and captain of the football team.
5. Emo guy goes home and cries, proceeds to write a weak song and strum a single string on his acoustic guitar. Another emo chick sees how he is so in touch with his feelings, and the cycle continues.
This is the sad truth of the emo lifestyle/music, and now that I look at how pathetic it really is, maybe the emos DO have something to cry about!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): I guess it comes down to the individual; you can never speak for everyone. When becoming acquainted with one of these guys, forget about the fact that he's emo and you aren't, just let your personality shine through: who *you* are is far more important than any social group you identify yourself with! If the guy is worth it I think he'd take the chance of dating outside his subculture. So go ahead, get to know them and have fun - and remember to never change for anyone :) Good luck and take care x
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