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I never enjoy sex....am I doing something wrong??

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Question - (27 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2011)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *sholofelo writes:

Dear All,

Since i started having sex, i never enjoyed it,i thought maybe i was doing it with wrong people but only to find out that is the same, i started having sex by the age of 19 and now im 21,i dont know wheather im doing it in a right way or what?

please help.

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A female reader, tiffanylovepandas United States +, writes (28 July 2011):

tiffanylovepandas agony auntIt is probably because you're not doing it with the right person. Sex is special and it's also probably because you're not ready. Start off with meeting someone you have a physical attraction to and build up that relationship and then try it again and see if there's a difference.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (27 July 2011):

chigirl agony auntWho are you doing it with? And what about sex do you do/what have you tried?

Yes, something is wrong, and my guess is that you haven't been in a loving relationship with these men you have had sex with, or that you aren't physically attracted to them.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 July 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntAssuming you're a female, I'd say you're about normal.

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