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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really like my boyfriend. Physically, we have good chemistry. But conversation wise, I cannot get him to talk extensively. He is so quiet, I have to drag conversations out of him everytime I feel like discussing something.And the problem is, Im very interested in what he has to say. It is really exhausting, and leaves me feeling very unsatisfied and sort of alone. I have mentioned this to him before, and he got offended because he thought everything was fine between us. He said forcing conversation made it seem like work.I have tried asking him about things he's passionate about, and he does talk then. But he doesnt return those questions to me. And then the conversations stops again. Please help. I am so frustrated with this. I know he's a smart guy, I've read his school work, I wish I could really talk with him. I'm quiet too, but I do need a good dose of social interaction to feel content.It seems like such a fixable thing, and not something worth breaking up over. But he still doesnt understand. Reply to this Question
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