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*iebler33
writes: Hello there! Ok I seem to be so confused! Im in highschool and in the words of other people im ''a trip, funny, popular, cute, pretty, fine ,curvy, athletic, confident, independent, smart, loyal'' i was even nominated most outgoing and most outspoken and id like to say im a good kid. I dont give out my number to just anybody, I dont go club hopping like everyother girl in highschool im a VIRGIN and i dont deny it. but since all my bestfriends are popular and slutty i picked up a reputation. i could live with it cause i know im gonna do better than what everyone projects but anyhow im crazy about this kid. hes cute, athletic, funny, were from the same country, we have alot of interest and weve been on and off for about a year (weve known each other for 4 years and ive always had him in the back of my mind) weve been thru so much bs. im ''the perfect girl'' (guys say) but not in his world? he fools around with me and i dont get why im always stuck sleeping with a broken heart. whats wrong with me????? HELP! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (27 July 2011):
If he's a 13-15 year old guy, he's probably too immature to be in a realtionship. If that's the case, give him a couple years to grow up.
Another possiblility is that he likes playing with girls, in which case, don't give him the time of day unless you want to be used in the worst ways.
It seems to me that you're doing a lot of sitting around thinking you're perfect. Confidence is awesome, never lose that! However, if you're being arrogant, that might be another reason you can't get this guy. Humility is just as important as confidence is.
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