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writes:A really popular guy is always saying hi to me and asking me how I am and he asked me if I wanted to do something with him when my friend left. He's got some friends who are super-popular and i'm a nerd. Is it possible he likes a nerd or is he tricking me? I've fell for a tricker before and it broke my heart. Reply to this Question
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reader, misselliejelly +, writes (28 July 2011):
misselliejelly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat I've seen is there's another girl he's flirting around with. And one minute is chatting with me, next he's ignoring me. I'm getting a bit distracted and I have a big project due tomorrow. I just came out of a really bad relationship and now I don't want to be hurt when i'm just getting back up. and with that other guy we just fooled around for a bit and he went for another girl. Thanks for the advice. xxx ellie
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reader, tiffanylovepandas  +, writes (28 July 2011):
 One of the problems with this is that the guy might be playing you to mess with your emotions and possibly try to have sex with you. This situation happens to a lot of girls your age like myself when I was younger. What you can do is think about it and try not to fall for any of his tricks. Try to get to know him better before jumping a big step. You gotta think about it if you really want to avoid being hurt and tricked again. Once he's with you, it's a whole different story. Best of luck to you!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (28 July 2011):
 This guy that "tricked" you before... did you fool around with or have sex with..? I only ask because in high school (mine at least) whenever a girl had sex with someone from the school- the news spread fast and to every guy! Once guys know a girl has put out, she can become a pretty big target for any guy who wants some... which at that age, is the majority.He may like you, he may want sex... only way to find out is to not give it up and see if he still hangs around.
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (27 July 2011):
 Do you really like him, anyway? Don't just go out with him because he's popular. And people playing tricks don't usually let it play out for that long... they won't want to spend a lot of time hanging out just to play a trick. See if he wants to be friends first. That's if you honestly want to be friends with him.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (27 July 2011):
 Hey. Well first of all i hate it in school/college or wherever you are is just because you might not have all the friends and be in the "popular" crowd people think it is okay to take the piss and treat you like you are "lower" than them.
First id like to say that you aint lower than them or anything so don't feel like that. I know you might be kinda happy cause someone popular has come along and you might think now you could make some friends in the popular crowd, But REALLY the popular crowd aint that great.
People are always competeing with eachother to be prettier,fitter,funnier, and in general more popular soon you will come to learn that most of these people (not all of them) are FAKE.
So don't be fooled being popular isnt all that great there are more backstabbers than there are general friends.
This guy migth be okay it doesnt matter if you think your a nerd he might just see your just a nice person and anyway being a nerd really doesnt matter. Speak to him a bit more and just kinda hang around with him abit maybe meet up and go out with him to the park or something. Don't trust him straight away tho and kinda just be causious and watch out to see if he might be backstabbing you. Don't tell him anything that might be spread around the and cause rumuors or anything.
Get good friends with him first before you even consider going out with him so you can be sure he is generally just trying to be your friend so don't rush things.
Hope this helps x
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