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Why do men focus so much on female orgasm?

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Why do men focus so much on female orgasm? My bf is insecure because he's only been able to make me orgasm twice orally in the 4 months we've been together and if I don't orgasm, he sees it as failure and it prevents him from being hard again to have sex. I'm not good at faki... (108 words

I need a song to sing someone to sleep to!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm sure that this might be the first time anyone on Dear Cupid has asked this question (with all the questions lurking in the archives, who knows?), but it means a lot to me, so thank you if you can answer. My romantic dream has always been to sing someone to sleep. I am ... (138 words

What should I do about this teacher, that I think has a crush on me?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am 16 and in grade 11. My school is a small school with 7 grades in it. I had this teacher in my grade 8-9 years. I still see him a lot because I help him with 2 of the activities at my school. Lately I have been getting these mixed signals from him. I think of this man like ... (311 words

I told my b/f I only slept with someone once while we were broken up but that's not true. what if he finds out?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf of 2 years broke up earlier this year and were apart fir a few months. during that time i was sleeping with someone, it was a rebound he was gorgeous and he made me feel good but there was nothing more to it. as soon as we got talking again, i cut off this guy and ... (318 words

Ladies: If your husband doesn't fulfill you sexually will you get tired of it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

5 December 2011 (M age 41-50 - I wanted to ask this question mostly to married women and particularly to the ones that may relate to what I'm saying. I'm dating this girl for 3 years and I got the feeling she was ready to settle down. So, a couple of weeks ago I got the courage to propose to her and to my ... (302 words

How do I give him a night to remember?

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey aunts.. Sum advice pls. My man of 6 months works away, I am going near to where he is on sum business so I'm staying the night in a hotel and he's coming to stay the night. We've only slept together a handful of times.. And it's been quite boring if I'm honest lol I am so ... (135 words

To contact or not? How long to wait? Guys are confusing!

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Friday night (about midnight) I met up with a female friend from out of town who was out on an internet date with a guy at a bar. There was another guy hanging out with them when I arrived. He was nice, quiet, a little more reserved (much like my personality) and completely ... (487 words

None of my friends like me anymore?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Thank you so much for reading/helping me, to start off! In 9th grade, I transfered to a new schol, and I made a bunch of friends. Over the past few years (I'm now in 11th grade), these friends have started to not talk to me, barely talk to me, or be straight out rude to me. ... (263 words

Is it normal to have quirks about your body regarding sex?

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Well, I'm a bit embarrassed to be writing this but I would be extremely grateful for some advice. I'm really confused about my body and what could be wrong with me, because of weird ability or inability to orgasm (please read on). well, believe it or not, I've never had i... (568 words

FWB troubles..he doesn't want me seeing other guys but he doesn't want a girlfriend. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, well the thing is typical friends with benefits story... i was seeing a guy for sex and we have both fallen for each other. Well at least I think. I've known this guy for 6 months we slept together for the first time 3 months ago and since then we have been together... (240 words

Why do guys never have feelings for me?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - I just don't understand what is going on. There's a bunch of guys that I'm ALWAYS talking to, and some that I flirt with constantly, with them flirting back. Yet, they never ask me out. I don't mean to brag, but to me, I think I'm sweet, smart, funny, and pretty. I get along ... (99 words

How much do your breasts grow when you are pregnant?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am trying to concive a child and I am just wondering what is the average size your breasts grow? AsI already have rather large breasts (36G) and I am just worried that they might get to big. ... (38 words

I like this girl -asked her on a date - said yes - got busy - now seems distant.

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5 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - Ok, here goes nothing! I am a confident 23 year old male. I met this girl (19) about 2 months ago and we hit it off. We spent many late night chatting/texting each other. Mostly learning about each other through those chats. I found out that she has never had a boyfriend, is ... (330 words

She takes so long to respond, is she just not interested in me?

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - I was texting a girl one evening, and she had to go and I wished her luck on her presentation and for her to tell me how it goes. She responded short and blunt "thanks and will do". But she hasn't responded, she had done something similar, I had asked her to hang around and ... (160 words

Is my boyfriend all about money?

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5 December 2011 (? age 30-35 - I may be completely overreacting but out of curiosity.. Yesterday I helped my boyfriend out with his Biology final exam (online)...When we were done, he scored a good grade and said "you've earned yourself a fancy dinner for helping me." He always incorporates that phrase w... (190 words

I'm inexperienced--should I wear a condom during anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - hello everyone. I have a question to ask. me and my GF are a very sexual couple and she has asked me to do something a few times. I come here to ask all of you. I'm not sure how to do it because well before he I was a virgin so i need some help.She asked me to have anal sex ... (140 words

Should I sent my ex a card with a necklace in it that I had given to her before?

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5 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have a question about sending an ex girlfriend a christmas card/gift. I broke up with her in july and havent seen her since. She contacts me once every few weeks just to talk. I regret leaving her and i wish i never did. Whenever i dont talk to her she will be the one to ... (147 words

Do men get aroused because of dirty thoughts or romance during sex?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - alright this question goes out to the men out there! do men get aroused or to he more specific get an erection during sex with their girlfriend/wives because of dirty thoughts like "oh i'm doing something so dirty"or because of the romance,lovey-dovey feel and an exciteme... (220 words

What is the right way to handle this situation with my cousin?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - First i would like to say 'hai'. I have this male cousin of mine, he s 2 years older than me. He lives far away but he sometimes visit during the holidays. So today he visited and he will be here for the coming two weeks. What worries me s that, he s been acting strange latly. ... (373 words

Are musicians better in bed?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Does anyone else think musicians are better in bed than the average guy/girl? My bf plays the piano and OH. MY. GOODNESS..... !! seriously. what he does is insane. Never had a guy so brilliant when he ventures down there... *sighs* my 21st birthday soon..buzzing for birthday... (57 words

How do I know if this online guy is real or fake?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I live in scotland and have been talking to this guy now, my boyfriend apparently but we've been talking for 7 months and he doesn't like phoning plus we haven't met. Im serious about him but have my doubts that he is a fake. He lives in wales so to me I don't know whether he ... (63 words

Is there anything I can say to get us back together without sounding desperate?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so I am a teenager. About a month ago I got my very first boyfriend. It was wonderful; I really like him. He's a teenager too, he's just a few years older than I am. He is very kind and very sweet. About a week ago, he broke up with me. He said that he was very depress... (232 words

If he's with me then why doesn't he remove his status as being single?

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5 December 2011 (F - Ive been seeing this guy for a year now, on and off. When we are together its great and I love him to bits. But one thing is bugging me. He has his relationship status as single on his facebook and when I ask him why he just shrugs it off and says he will change it later. He ... (191 words

How do I leave this relationship

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I first met my boyfriend at a party some time last year. I went outside to get some fresh air and he followed me and stayed with me the entire night. We were working together at the same place at the time, but in different departments so we never really encountered one another. ... (1389 words

I know she has a boyfriend, I want to get to know her, should I send a message on facebook?

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - right i work at a big supermarket and the checkouts are in front of the store and my department is right at the end next to the checkouts and there is this girl that works on the checkouts every sunday. i think that she is beautiful. i just want to look at her all day and ... (228 words

Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i feel that way whether it's a ... (208 words

I'm falling for this guy! Is he just being dirty or does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 December 2011 (? age 36-40 - I have been in college since September. When I started I use to notice a guy in my class always looking at me and we never really spoke to each other until about 3 weeks into the course. He's very flirtatious to me. He is with some of the other girls but he is mostly with me.... (358 words

How many dates before a kiss or to be official?

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Very quick question: How many dates would you like a man to take you on before he tried to kiss you/asked you out etc? I know it probably depends on different attitudes and opinions of different women but still, just want to know what you think.... (46 words

How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many weeks/months should you be dating ... (69 words

How can I get to talk to him more?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey there :) The guy i like is in the year above me in school (Which is the same year as my sister)Anyway we had been talking for a little while and when we saw eachother we always stopped to chat or atleast say hi to eachother. However over the next few weeks we began t... (357 words

What should I do about my ex? Should I just get over her?

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, basically i'm in desperate need for some impartial advice as i am literally going out of my mind here. it's hard to take your own advice, so i need someone else to give me some, please. Me and my ex were together for over a year and a half, we'd been on/off a fe... (529 words

Why does he say and do the things he does?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone,I love my boyfriend very much and i believe he loves me too. I fight fair i don't say hurtful things,if i am the one at fault i apologize but i have never not even one said anything disrespectful to my boyfriend.Because i believe in respecting others and let them... (605 words

How do I shake the lust I feel for a coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - I cannot shake the lust I feel for a coworker. He is married and so am I. It's definitely reciprocated - we flirt all the time and have almost let things get out of control while away on business. I love my husband (of 20 years) and a big part of me wants this to stop but there ... (174 words

Did he originally have any intention of texting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - A few months back I gave this guy my number on the Tuesday evening saying it would be nice to hear from him he replied that he would text later but was then off out to a barbeque. Whether he meant later that night literally who knows. I guess if you were into someone you would ... (287 words

We haven't even dated and she came on kind of strong and clingy. Should I even bother?

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Met this girl during orientation at work. All I know is I couldn't keep my eyes of of her, only problem is that she live an hour and a half away. I left my number on her car on the last day of orientation, because I knew I wouldn't see her again. To my surprise she texted me! ... (375 words

Struggling to cope after miscarriage and now I am insecure he has cheated! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi long story now but here goes. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and I had to have an CRPC to remove what was left. After that I came home. Me and bf were both very upset about it but he has also been quite insensitive at times, i.e. on the evening I got back from hospital he ... (606 words

Should marriage be in my dreams only?

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5 December 2011 (F age - I am a working happy young at heart 59 years old woman-kinda short and 'cute'm I am currently living with my 46yr oldboyfriend. We have been in a monagamous relationship for about 3-4yrs. His family loves me-as does my family love him. Do you think marriage should stay in my ... (52 words

Ladies: What sexual positions do you like that don't impact your self image?

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5 December 2011 (M age 41-50 - hello all. really need some advise on sex positions for women with body confidance issues. Over the time of our relation ship my fiance has put on abit of wait. Witch i dont mind. In fact she was abit to thin for my taste when we started dating. What my partner doesnt ... (116 words

How can I show him I am not joking?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi there's this guy he says that I am one of those many girls that can turn him on,I love his conversations their always interesting , He Respects me but loves to tease me and make funny jokes about me He says he loves it when I am angry because I look cute,He likes it to feel ... (129 words

His ex is hovering around him and its driving me crazy!

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok, so I don't usually visit these sites, but I'm really In need of some honest advice, I am 34, and and engaged to be married next year, my fiance is 33,we got together about 3 years ago, I knew he had a past and a rep for being a bad boy, but it was just fun to start with, ... (336 words

I get bored very quickly in relationships

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Just a quick opinions post. I get bored in a relationship very quickly. I hate the texting part, hate facebook chat, all that. It annoys me that technology has to be used so much to keep a relationship! So, i find that i get bored and end relationships ve... (125 words

Wait 6 yrs or call it quits now?

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5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - What would you do if you were me? 48 yr old in a 1 yr relationship. He wants to date for 6 yrs then marry, due to him recently buying and renovating his house. I'd like to get married now. I can't see the back and forth for that long. I take this to mean he's just not that ... (175 words

Is this love? Why is he closing himself off after being so close?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear all, I have been with my BF for around 9 months. it has not been an easy relastionship - so recently I started detaching myself. Anyway, since I have been doing this, he has been declaring his love and the sex seems to be differnet. It seems he is more emotinally charged, ... (211 words

Why do we want people who hurt us back in our lives?

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5 December 2011 (M age 41-50 - Here's something Ive always wondered, when we love somebody, and let's say they take off with someone else, cheat, etc. outside of feeling the anger, how come so many people are inclined to take the person back so quickly? and overlook the fact that they cared so little about ... (94 words

What am I doing wrong? Girls always just want to be "friends" with me.

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok simple problem....what am i doing wrongly with girls? At the moment i must have about 15 girls i have flirted with in the past and they have now decided that i'm "like a brother", "best friend" or like their gay best friend. Its pretty obvious girls like my company an... (257 words

Am I justified or being selfish by telling my bf that his sexual persistance annoyed me?

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He's my first sexual partner and we've been together for 2.5 years. I've always felt bad that we have sex as I wanted to save it for marriage. We're going through a difficult patch at the moment. I haven't taken my pill in a few ... (200 words

Silent Treatment from an Ex lover, now platonic friend. What Happened?

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - I was seeing someone for 5 months, a beautiful short romance. I ended it because he did not want it to b anymore than a casual relationship. It was also a long distance affair. It ended on a very calm note of agreement. I also mentioned that there was no pressure to be f... (387 words

Should I sell her engagement ring?

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - Me ard my partner were Engaged to get married next year last week she told me she does not love me and has not loved me for a long time. She doesn't want to make things work as she has feelings for someone else. Question is do I sell her engagment ring now or is it too soon? ... (64 words

I had an abortion and having a tough time dealing with it. Does anyone have experience with this?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello all. I've been going through a hard time and i just need advice from people out there that have gone through the same thing i have. I don't want to hear how much of a bad person i am and how i'm worthless ect. thanks. but anyway, about three weeks ago i went and had an ... (195 words

My parents negative comments make me feel worthless. What can I do?

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - I will try to be brief. I am a high school student who is hated by her parents. now I KNOW people say that all the time and people reply "that's impossible, you're just being a teenager" but I am telling you I'm not a normal teenager, nor is this a normal situation. I've been ... (452 words

He is not comfortable with me coz I dated his bestfriend before. I like him alot!

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have recently started to really like this one guy, and he likes me back. We've been friends for a while but never hung out too much until this past weekend. We hung out both nights this weekend, and it was awesome. We started off just watching youtube videos in my room and ... (284 words

Is he just being polite? Or do you think these are positive indications of romantic interest?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just met a guy at work a few days ago. He works there too, but I just started a week ago. I work in a bookstore, and we passed each other in an aisle, and I smiled at him and he smiled at me, and then he stopped and said "hey, I don't think I've seen you around before", and I ... (626 words

How can I get a sense of closure. My teacher is moving away.

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a little confused. What is supposed to be my reaction to a teacher saying that there "wont be anyone like you where I'll be going" and "I wish you could come with me to _____" or "I wish I didnt have to leave you" ???? I mean, this teacher is the one person who is my... (269 words

Having an affair and thinking of leaving my husband. Thoughts?

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5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - i have been married over twenty years and have cheated on my husband with another man that i have also known for over twenty years. during the course of my marriage i have been in and out of relationship with other man four different times. each time i would end things because ... (139 words

Help me to chose a tattoo for my best friend that has just died.

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay...well my best friend just died and I've been handling it quite strangely...but anyways I've decided that I wanted to get a tattoo for him...nothing like rip or stuff like that...I searched and searched for quotes and I couldnt find one that I just loved...so I went on my ... (137 words

My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.

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5 December 2011 (M age 51-59 - My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confronted her and she said he found he... (202 words

My fiancee does not want her parents told we are engaged. How do I build a better relationship with her parents? Kind answers only please!

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5 December 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months and are now happily engaged. Seems simple enough, right? Well we are both 17 and out parents don't exactly approve. My father says that he is happy that I have found someone I would like to marry, but he thinks that I a... (236 words

Am I wrong to be so upset? Why did my husband have to snap back and say such a harsh thing to me in front of company?

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I was out to dinner with my husband 31 and I'm 23, we were with his best friend and girl friend of that bestfriend. we were about to make an order and my husband goes "umm do you have meat here?" He was asking for somthing specific but I'm like "duh honey of course they... (245 words

I have developed feelings for a mentor who is married!

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5 December 2011 (F age 36-40 - ive developed feelings for a mentor, whose married, and i need advice on how to get rid of my feelings for him? i think about him all the time and wish i was were he was. is there a way to stop or block the strong connection. ... (50 words

Painful sex. Advice?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have been dating over a year. We have sex often, but lately it feels rough going in. I thought I was lubricated enough without any lubricant or anything but it feels like something is scratching me and when he pulls out and try to go for roun... (122 words

Why would a man appear jealous if you are with someone else, even though he himself does not want to be with you?

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I just need opinions on this subject. Let me give a little info on my situation. I am seeing a man, and we have decided to just be friends with benefits. We have dated in the beginning and when a relationship was brought up he stated that he was not ready for one, and ... (227 words

He says he likes me but respects me too much to have sex with me!

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have a friend with whom we began to send nude photos to each other ending out masturbating one another. We did it several times and he started saying he wanted sex, then it was me who wanted sex and now he has backed off saying he can not treat me like the whores he usually ... (229 words

Past sexual abuse has made me dependent on men. Please help?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - When I was younger,I went through sexual abuse and was raped by my cousin. We are both girls, but today as a young adult that I am, I been noticing that the only way I feel loved is when I have a guy/s. Yes I purposely put / cause I am talking about more then one guy. Now I ... (261 words

We have not consumated this relationship. He is married. But can I get over him while I have to see him twice a week?

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5 December 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have a major problem here and need help. I am in love with someone who is married. He is in love with me but we have not had an affair. We acknowledged that this was the case but that we would do nothing about this. The problem is is that I see him twice a week for ... (272 words

Too many quarrels, Could she change for the better? And can we still get married to each other in the future while she fights like this?,

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5 December 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have been in this relationship for 3 years. My girlfriend has some behaviours that i don't like. she hardly apologises to me every time she does something horrible, whenever we quarel, she abuses me with all kind of different insults which i never reply her back with any, an... (112 words

I just really can't stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do. Would it be wrong to date her ex?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Last friday night I went to a bar to celebrate my cousin's birthday. She's not my blood cousin but I've known her since she was born. Her sister was there and although we aren't very close I still consider her family. A few years ago the cousin (the one I'm not close with) and ... (220 words

I'm in junior high. He's a freshmen here in my state. Why is it be bad for us to go out??

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im a junior in high school...and well im talking with this guy at school. Hes cute, funny, respectful, and just cool to hang out with and the same age as me. The only thing is...that since he's from a state in the west, his whole grade thing is messed up, so he's a fres... (83 words

In person he has a great personality. But am I wasting my time? Because texting or by phone he can be boring.

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5 December 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm dating this guy who goes to a different school then me. I really like him when we are together in person. Yet, we we can't see each other and are just texting or on the phone when he is the most boring person in the world. This frustrates me so much. His person... (75 words

My boyfriend's father, who just got out of jail a few months ago, is driving me crazy!!

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I have a problem with my boyfriends dad. He just got out of jail a couple months ago. At first I liked him because I never met him till he got out of jail but now...2 months later...the man drives me crazy. If me or my boyfriend dont pick up the phone when he calls, he'll ... (179 words

Missing my LDR. Am I pushing him away? Am I starting to lose feelings for him, because I'm doubting myself?

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5 December 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is away on placement for 5 weeks and its only been two weeks without him. He's in Africa and im in the UK. We have been together for 8 months which for me is a long time as im not one for relationships. i feel like I'm pushing him away and not talking to him as m... (194 words

For some reason, my friendships with women never work out. What is wrong with me? What can I do?

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5 December 2011 (? age 30-35 - My friendships never work out. Particularly with women. One minute I think I have a good friend, I invest time into being with her, but she turns out to be a horrible person and somehow hurts me. For some reason, I attract bad seeds. My last friend was a drug addict who cheated ... (357 words

Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??

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5 December 2011 (F age 41-50 - Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said no we cant do this and then ... (175 words

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