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How can I get to talk to him more?

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Question - (5 December 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey there :)

The guy i like is in the year above me in school (Which is the same year as my sister)Anyway we had been talking for a little while and when we saw eachother we always stopped to chat or atleast say hi to eachother.

However over the next few weeks we began to get really busy as he had rugby tournaments and I had GCSE's and Judo competitions etc. anyway we haven't been able to talk or see eachother since we dont have eachothers phone numbers or anything. But now he has become quite distant. When I say hi all he does is smile. He doesnt talk to me anymore and if I smile he would just do a quick one but just walk off. We used to have an after school club (Army cadets) During it we couldn't talk as we have been split into different sections, but after he used to wait around and talk to me as we wait for our lifts, but now he just leaves without saying anything.

I would try and start a conversation with him but I'm quite shy when it comes to him. I'm not quite sure why though, because I'm confident with all my friends. I dont know if I'm worried he'll think I'm weird or what.

He also goes into my sisters class alot (not to see her but some of his mates) Anyway I took this as an opportunity and i told her I liked him but not to tell him. She started teasing me, but who's sister wouldn't? anyway She said that she see's him in her class quite alot. So i started hinting for her to say 'hey why dont you come in every now and then and pretend to see me, but use this as a chance to talk to him' but she didnt. So in the end i just asked and she said no. I dont know anyone in her class well enough just to go in.

So basically I dont know what to do, so any ideas??

thankyou :) xx

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