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writes: I have been in college since September. When I started I use to notice a guy in my class always looking at me and we never really spoke to each other until about 3 weeks into the course.He's very flirtatious to me. He is with some of the other girls but he is mostly with me. He told me out straight in the class, in front of everyone that he likes me. As I get to know this guy on his own when he is not looking for attention or having a laugh, I think he is really friendly, kinda and so on.He talks dirty a lot to me and likes to make me cringe in disgust. He isn't shy about any of this and talks dirty in front of the class mates to me. I'm easy going and the rest of the class know it's all for a laugh so It doesn't bother me or them. I moan about it, but I laugh at it too.The thing is that I am starting to like him a lot. This guy is a nice guy. I can see it. I went out on a date last week with someone else and I told him (the guy in my class) how it went. I told him how the guy I went out with wanted to have sex with me but I wanted to wait. I thought the guy in my class would leave me alone because I often thought that maybe he wanted me for sex also with all his talk. However....He stills keeps up the flirting. He asks me how I feel about him too. I don't want to answers. I just laugh.He's the only guy that has ever made me laugh so much!I think about him all the time.We are all going out next friday and he said "I don't care who is coming just as long as _________(me) is coming"!I'm falling for this guy! What can I do!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 I don't know I don't talk dirty to someone I'm trying to impress...But that's just me I knew a guy once that could not finish a sentence without dropping the "F bomb" somewhere in in and he didn't care who he was around.Just a dumb habit?(maybe) I say a cool sign once."Profanifty is the ultimate refuge of the desperatly inarticulate motherf___ker" kinda funny in a way and sad in another.
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 go on the night out
Enjoy the attention
and if a relationship happens - FANTASTIC! If not, wow what an ego massage he has been! Perfect boost for your confidence.
I would say that he sounds like a bit of a flirt anyway, so if you two do get together, remember he is probably going to continue to flirt. That doesnt mean he will cheat, but he is probably going to flirt.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 Enjoy it.... see where it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): That he already established he gets to talk dirty to you and joke about his feelings- he is not a sincere young man. A man who adores a woman does not make her a sexual joke. Let alone does not talk dirty to her. That's reserved for a more trusting, loving relationship where it is set out as something you and your love one do to spice things up.I would just be upfront about it all. He seems to think he can be so, just tell him.I know you say you like me and well I like the attention you give me. It makes me have a crush for you.However, I am not wanting a sexual relationship with anyone at the moment.Just thought about it- What do you want and expect in dating at this point in your life?Because knowing that for certain -means you can stand firm and DONT put yourself into a situation where you will go against your previous stance.Never be seen alone with some young man after 9PM and dont dally for too long in a parked car. Failsafes.ITs always best to have standards and do your best to keep them.
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