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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It always ends with me asking him to come back even though he treats me really badly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my babyfather just broke up with me over the phone a lil while ago.. but he does this every day! then after i cry and he yells calls me names and sometimes hits me in person he will get back with me. im really stupid cause i just cant get over the fact that i love him but he ... (130 words)

B/f embarrassed me in front of his friends. Should we talk about it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know whether this is a dumpable offence or not.... I was invited to my boyfriends house christmas dinner, and i was meeting some friends i had not yet met before, so i was trying hard to make an effort for him as you do, and during dinner he blurted out something di... (445 words)

Is this a normal relationship for a teacher and a former student, or could there possibly be something more at play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a small crush on this teacher I had back in high school. It's not too big of an issue-- I'm two years into college and in a long-term relationship and he's been married since I've known him. I'm certainly not expecting anything to come of it. But since I'm continuing on ... (282 words)

Would he cheat if he had a chance to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend are having some problems at the moment. he has been messahing other girls asking for nacked pics and chatting other girls up he says it werent him but i dont thinl i believe him. we have a lil girl together and thought we were happy. is he happy? would he ... (72 words)

Boyfreind went soft did I do anything to make that happen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm twenty three and in my First sexual relaltionship with my bf :) we had more sex than we normally have one off the times my bf went soft. I know he went soft and he was embassied I hugged him after he went ans took the condom off x and told him I love him x I then said it ... (177 words)

Is there a meaning to wet dreams when you have a partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am puzzled by my boyfriend's sex drive. We're still in a fairly new relationship (just 5 months) and we're both in our early 30s. I can't say that we have a ton of sex, at least not as much as I'd like to. We see each other on weekends and usually we'll have sex once during ... (246 words)

How do you give up on someone that you promised you would always love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you let everything go when you have become so comfortable with being in the situation? You cant sleep without the person by your side, cant remember doing anything without the person for so long that the littlest thought of leaving and walking away makes you freak out.. ... (533 words)

I messed around with my best friend's boyfriend when drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my bestfriends boyfriend and she knew we were together to go the mall and get her christmas present but i got drunk and his friends were with us and i messed with him in the backseat of his car, i cant tell my bestfriend and i dont know what to do. i haven't talked ... (88 words)

I'm bi and attracted to my boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop fanticising about my boss who is a women. I am a women to, I'm bisexual and I feel that seening as she is a women I shouldn't be so open about displaying my crush on her, I have a fiance who is a man. and she has a boyfriend and I'm pretty sure she is completey ... (137 words)

B/f is terrible at communication and its making me feel unloved!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Bascially... I have a boyfriend of around 2 months, we met at university, but we've bascially liked eachother from the start. We saw eachother practically every single day and i'm really in love! When we're together its perfect, we get along so well, have lots of fun and ... (183 words)

I don't want my one night stand to be a one night stand!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A year ago at Christmas time I met an interesting man at a party, there as an instant click, spent the evening chatting and flirting and got a cab home together (along with my sister) but he never asked for my number before hopping out at his place. I was disappointed but ... (576 words)

B/f wants to move in together in a year, how do I know if its what I really want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Just curious: my boyfriend and I made "plans" to move to another city together to attend the same college. Lately he's been hinting more and more that he really wants to go through with it. He says things like "i am gonna need a roommate you know (hinting and smiling at me)" ... (129 words)

How do I lose the fat from my butt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi how can i lose weight of my butt? or build more muscle on it?? and how can i tell if my butt is mostly muscle or fat? im skinny (10stone) but i have a huge ass.. i think its genetic cos my dad has a ass (my mum said thats what she was attracted to) and my younger ... (269 words)

he chose that girl over me so why is he coming to me for things when he need to be going to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a guy talked for almost a year. Let's call this guy S. Well at the beginning of me and S "relationship" he had just gotten out of a 6 month relationship. At this time me and S (very flirtatious, always touching on someone type guy) were close friends and whenever we'd ... (1551 words)

Is he too dependent on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for a 1 year and 4 months. At first everything was alright but I began to notice he was too clingy on me, but at that time I didn't mind. He called me every day, even if we took classes together and in a week I saw him more than 10 hrs per day. I ... (414 words)

I'm worried about dating my friend because he's of a different race

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years in September, I was in a really bad state, and then he got with someone else 2 weeks later, my biggest rival, who is very much similar to me, just more clever and nicer. I know it's cliché, but I genuinely didn't believe he'd do such ... (319 words)

Should I Do as my heart tells me and marry him then start this long distance thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone and happy Xmas in advance :) So, my bf proposed to me and asked me to marry him in Sept. Which qould be wow! if he hadn't just moved abroad for work (2hr plane ride). I cannot leave my job over here at all. All I can do is go be with him from March to Sept, t... (271 words)

Girlfriend says that she loves me but that we will be happy with others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend says that she loves me but she just thinks that we will both be happy with different people and that we just dont realize this yet!! whats that supposed to mean ! i love her like crazy!! ... (40 words)

Should I find new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm currently having trouble with one of my closest friends. We've been best friends ever since nursery and primary school. However ever since we went to secondary school things changed. On the first day she made a new friend, who is in our form. And now I'm being left out... (168 words)

My friend agreed to a threesome with her husband but now we are sneaking around behind her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 32 female.quite often i had threesome with my friend and her husband.problem is now that her husband and me are doing sex without her knowledge and quite enjoy it.i have no partner after divorced.and my friend invited for threesome when i was lonely.i agreed as i was ... (107 words)

I was interested in her but she liked showing me that other men are interested in her too. Why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I arrange to go out with a woman who i know from our karate club, she helps out. We meet then several times during the night she says men are staring at her, i naturally look but cant see, i think no more of it. She seems interested in me we hav been texting constantly for ... (243 words)

I want to ask what he thinks of me but when I tried he just laughed it off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm just going to have to give some details and then explain myself. I met this guy "matt" a little over 2 weeks ago when my friend "Ann" invited me to matt's house. She was casually dating matt's roommate "tom". I wasn't even looking to meet someone, but as soon as m... (308 words)

How do I get a girlfriend? Advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i get a girlfriend? I am in all boys junior collage and i hardly get to meet girls. And i don't know how to chat with girls. What can i do to get a girlfriend?... (37 words)

She's on birth control, but the condom slipped... Should we be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I were having sex yesterday. We used a condom, but when I came, it started to slide off. It had slid almost halfway off by the time I pulled out. We're worried that some may have come out of the top and gotten inside her. She takes birth control regularly (because ... (104 words)

I'm afraid my ex's gay relationship will confuse our 6 year old!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - long made short, wife cheated with a women, thinks she's gay and we have two kids. (update) she has a friend a women that visits her a lot around the kids. my oldest like the women a lot. the women gives my oldest child little gifts question: am concerned that this could... (130 words)

I feel so alone... Any ideas on how to make my life more meaningful and happy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I hope you can help me please. I feel so alone and I don't want to feel this way anymore. I'm a 33 year old guy, I got into a relationship when I was 21 and that lasted until just 2 years ago. I have never been the social type and quite often I'm unable t... (447 words)

MY LDR of 9 months has just cut contact and won't answer my calls... Help me please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

- My LDR boyfriend of 9 months has just suddenly stopped taking my calls and answering my texts. I know hes ok and still alive because there is recent activity on his facebook page. We last spoke on the phone last week and everything was fine. Now he is just completely ignoring ... (160 words)

Guy is drunk texting me at 3am... I like him...Should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a crush on this guy who also happens to be my coworker and its apparent he likes me back. And recently he started drunk texting me to come over at 3am so I can keep him company. We've only been talking a few weeks, so I ended up telling him that I don't think it'd be ... (103 words)

Online date turned out to be internet scammer! Any advice on how to deal with this pls??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age - Hi. This is a question for Military wives and women who have met men clainming to be US Army personnel. A few months ago I met a lovely man on a dating site. We got talking and he told me he was on his third tour of Afghanistan and his MOS was Engineer and other informatio... (940 words)

How can I stop my Bfs Mom making life difficult?. He feels she sees me as competition, but not in a sexual way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I've wrote about this situation before, but this has taken another twist, which is awfully strange. After a very stressful week with his mother, my boyfriend has admitted that he sees his mom is "jealous" of me and "feels as if she has competition, but not in a ... (1498 words)

I need answers please! We're friends after his rebound. How to win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex of 5 months broke up in August. He rebounded and contacted me immediately after. We hadn't talked during that time. We went to a movie and we acted the same as before. We hung out a few times since then but not as often as when we were dating (aka everyday). The ... (279 words)

How do I get the Spring back in my step? Feel positive? Could I be depressed? What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have some life problems that I need sorting out. I think I have low self esteem as I am constantly comparing myself to others. I'm 31 female, attractive and have a degree. But I am a complete failure in life. Everyone of my relationships has failed and I am single and ... (461 words)

I would prefer to see him on Sunday. Am I being mean by telling my boyfriend to get over not feeling well?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! Do I have the right to be miffed or am I in the wrong?! Any help is much appreciated!!! I'm going away on vacation Wednesday for two weeks and, thus, won't be here for the holidays. For the past two weeks, my boyfriend and I have planned to exchange our gif... (673 words)

How do I learn to connect with people and turn it into a friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Something I've really been trying to get my head around. I have probably not had the courage and the confidence to put myself out there socially, and this is something that is really starting to do my head in and something that I am desperate to get past. I understand that one ... (265 words)

How to improve intimacy between us? Help! there is no sex in our relationship...or very little

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am in a quandry at the moment about my sexual relationship. I have been together with my partner for almost 2 years - we started off on a long distance relationship, I then fell pregnant to him and we now have a gorgeous 7 month old baby. During my pregnancy, h... (383 words)

My ex an I broke up but she still flirts with me and I think she is confused. How else do I keep rebuilding a connection? I love her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I broke up almost 2 months ago, and we still live together. A week ago before bed she asked me for a hug so I gave her a hug and she ended up holding me for a long time and cried a little saying she was confused and wasnt sure what to do. The next day s... (468 words)

How do I break away from my abusive ex and stay away from him? He confuses me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with this man for five years, this is our second break up. what led to our break up was he started doing more drinking and smoking weed. he has never done this before. it seems like when we got back together for the second time is when i noticed he has picked up t... (450 words)

Why do my parents never want me to leave home? How to become more independant and not alienate them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My family thinks we have to be married just to leave home. I don't know why, as we aren't remotely religious and not an ethnic minority. NONE of my extended family is like this at all. So why are my parents? Even the movie Failure to Launch made fun if this. If I never ge... (82 words)

I like women and want to connect with a girl. So why am I only a shoulder to cry on? And not taken seriously as a love interest connection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I seem to have problem, a problem I want to try and fix desparately. why don't women like me or at least why don't the girls who I like like me back? I'm pretty normal, I'm good looking I'm not nerdy or anything, I'm relatively sociable, I'm know, so what's wrong... (460 words)

Do we have to endure this? His family treat us like kids and are often rude to us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This might sound really silly but i sometimes worry about what my fiances family think of us we didnt have a very good week with them, we attended a large family meal last week and were told where we were sitting (which i was fine with, its their house) but they put us on the ... (557 words)

Is my wife embarassed by me? She told me "not be obnoxious" when I meet her friends.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 13 years and have been together as a couple for over 18, over half of our lives, and have multiple children together. Tomorrow, we are supposed to meet with my wife's friends, maybe some of their husbands, and one friend has a boyfriend whom I have ... (302 words)

I don't feel like I'm part of his future plans. Are we meant to be together? Who knows what he's thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So the other night my boyfriend went out with 2 mutual friends. We'd had a spat-things I'm just trying to sort through to see where we are in this relationship. They asked him point blank, "Do you want to end the relationship?" He emphatically said "No! I want to be with her!... (193 words)

I've left him several times. He doesn't buy me presents? what are my options? and how can I make a new life without him?

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18 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of 14 years doesn't buy me gifts and all he wants to do is sit at home... if i mention getting a job, we argue..i have no income and little work experience.... I don't know what to do. i have lefthim several times, but I always come back..am I crazy??... (53 words)

I have feelings for my personal trainer and I am a married woman. My marriage is dead. How can I tell if my trainer is serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been training with my personal trainer for a year. At first I looked at him as only a trainer but recently I have been feeling differently about him. We have become good friends and there is a chemistry that has developed between us. We share many personal conv... (236 words)

She tried to break us up. At the first chance he slept with her. How do I get over him cheating and betraying me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of desperate help! My husband and I got into a huge fight 3 nights ago because I found out he was still talking to a woman whom had admitted she had feelings for him. She even tried to get us to break up and he promised after that time she did that he said he woul... (436 words)

I talked to him for 3 months. Then we met. How do I deal with him now that I know he has Anger and emotional issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bad story... I met a guy and we've been talking for 3 months and I realized he has emotional problems as well as anger problems. Aside from that, I care very much about him. We aren't dating because I needed some time to myself because I had recently broken up with ... (263 words)

Was this coincidence? Or did my ex really put a curse on me? She said she did and then after I had a vehicle accident. Is she that powerful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just involved in a vehicle collision tonight. I'm okay but my car had to be towed away for repairs. The other driver was okay and only had a few scratches to the car. Last night my lesbian girlfriend wished evil on me after we broke up. She didn't wish me harm but she ... (179 words)

Too scared to see a doctor. No male/female connection. no chance of being pregnant. But why no period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some peace of mind in this and I have been worrying about this for too long. Basically, I've not been on me period for almost 3 months now yet there is no way I can be pregnant as I'm in a relationship with a woman. Its really bothering me and yet I'm too scar... (122 words)

How soon is right to date after my break-up? I'm torn about what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I posted last week about a relationship problem that ended in a break up. We dated for almost 2 years. I was just wondering when you think is the appropriate time to start dating again would be. I don't want to jump into anything too soon, but someone did ask me out on a... (165 words)

My husband tried cheating and there are still issues of trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Married n confused.Husband has tried cheating online as well as done other things that are wrong.Says he's no longer talking to or doing anything with other females but he wont be open with me on anything.Made clear to me he's not doing anything so no reason U should have any ... (70 words)

Have I ruined my chances with my Ex Boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, Recently I've been talking to an ex from a long time ago and he admitted to me after a year of being apart that he still had feelings for me. I'll admit that I've always had feelings for him and have wanted to get back together with him for a long time. We had a g... (328 words)