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30-35,
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writes:right i work at a big supermarket and the checkouts are in front of the store and my department is right at the end next to the checkouts and there is this girl that works on the checkouts every sunday. i think that she is beautiful. i just want to look at her all day and yesturday i found myself doing unecessary jobs just so i could look at her. she has a boyfriend and i could have asked her about ages ago as she "checked" me out once but i didn't do anything we haven't spoke a word to each other closest we've got is smiling at each other.i found her on facebook and i would like to get to know her. should i send her a message with a friend request just saying hi i notice you work at same store as me and i would like to get to know you etc. i want it to sound like i don't know she already has a boyfriend but i don't want her to make her feel uncomfortable.please what should i do/say?p.s. i only see her on a sunday and we don't work close either so we don't have a time to chatthanks
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 What do you think will come of this? The girl has a boyfriend. Are you expecting her to cheat? Leave him?
In my experience, this never ends well. If you're really that into her and you just can't help yourself, have you tried talking to her in person? I wouldn't do the Facebook thing, it's a bit too creepy. A guy who works at a carpark where I park my car requested me on FB...it was just too creepy and I blocked him, so don't do that.
Anyway, so you want to get to know her. Do you honestly think it will work considering she has a boyfriend.
I have a boyfriend and if a guy was to approach me and ask me out, I would just say no, no matter how attractive/funny/nice he was. I respect my boyfriend too much to go around hanging out with other men.
And if this girl is willing to see you behind her boyfriend's back, then she's not good news. What she doesn to her BF with you, she will do to you with someone else.
Best to let it go. It's just bad timing.
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