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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why was he giving me so much attention and then suddenly changed when he seen my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there was this small bonfire at my cousins house and we all went. Well, my cousin's step-brother had a friend there, we'll call him Dalton, and he was SO cute. He was really country and very sweet. Everytime I looked at him, he was already looking at me. We all played ... (328 words)

My boyfriend's brother hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years our relationship is great, however there is one problem... His older brother. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 25 and his brother is 27. They still both live at home, so whenever I'm around his brother is too. For the first year and a half of ... (427 words)

Will my friends punish me for talking to this guy none of them like? I am worried they will exclude me from the group.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've got an issue here more with friends but it's still relevant. One of my friend (friend a) has a boyfriend but my other two friends (friend b and c) really don't like him. I know it's not unusual but it gets to the point where they are really unsympathetic with her and ... (220 words)

Am I losing feelings for my ldr boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating someone who lives two hours away. We've only been dating for about six months, and we've known each other for a year. When we first began talking, I was SO into him and when we had little arguments I would go over the top about apologizing. He treats me very well and ... (512 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to have orgasm through penetration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright:L So, I'm currently in the midst of my 2nd long-relationship. I'm not particularly experienced, having only been with 3 girls including my present girlfriend and was inquiring as to which positions/rhythms and how much staying power would be required to induce an org... (250 words)

Am I wrong because I don't want to buy fast food for my bratty disrespectful brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I have a question ... Am I wrong for not wanting to buy my little brother food? I know it sounds wrong but here's my problem. My little brother is 12 years old. And he is very rude! He will curse you out!!!!! He doesn't listen and he slams doors, he also w... (300 words)

Do dads and stepdads deserve to have access to their daughter's information?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I found out my mom decided to tell my stepdad all my secrets, including the fact that I want to go on birth control, and the fact that my last shampoo gave me dandruff, and I didn't know until the lady cutting my hair said I need a different shampoo! I spec... (175 words)

He said we may or may not get married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 2yrs now. Im ready to get married but hes not. he said he will know when hes ready. hE SAID WE MAY OR WE MAY NOT...Is he ever going to matty me or should I just let go and move on? I know I will never be happy if I am no... (94 words)

Could the pressure of trying to have a child make his lose his erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a problem maintaining an erection after he has a bath. He reasures me that he finds me attative and says that I am not doing anything wrong. I am not to bothered by this but he is and it really gets him down. As we are trying for a child. I was just wondering ... (113 words)

How do I help my boyfriend with his erection troubles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am writing because I am desperate. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He's 29 and I am 31. I love him very much but we're having issues in the bedroom department. The first time we had sex failed because he couldn't get it hard. I wasn't worried because ... (434 words)

Meeting an old flame after 21 years and still miss her as much....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I am 43 yrs old married happily with kids, recently due to face book i met my very old flame and we spoke a few time and decided to catch up in another country where i was traveling for work. We met up there and spent three beautiful days together, just friends no intim... (236 words)

Complete blackout on communication and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl soon after starting university who I got on extremely well with. We had similar political views, an identical sense of humor and world outlook as well as comparable tastes in art and music. For the first few months of our relationship started out very well; going ... (259 words)

I'm tired of being the one who always tries to make the relationship work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for nearly 2 years.Only during the start he used to call me, nowadays im the one who is always calling/trying to meet him. He never even tries. If i stop calling even for a week, he wont bother much. I dont want to do this anymore even though i lo... (94 words)

Our first time, losing our virginity together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am planning to lose my virginity in a few weeks :) My boyfriend is also a virgin, therefore I want it to be a special, loving and satisfying time for both of us :) But especially him! Any tips ? Lingerie? Positions? etc :) Thank you!! ... (56 words)

How do I pick myself back up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am struggling with my past at the moment, there has been a lot of abuse, since a very young age, both physical and mental, and I am struggling to pick myself up all the time. Every single day is a struggle, and I have no idea what I have done in my past to deserve it all. ... (151 words)

How do you satisfy an older woman sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am close to an attractive older woman who is 12 years older than me. I would like to consider sex with her. I am a bit concerned about satisfying her sexually if we do it.What are some ways to sexually satisfy an older woman? How can I make the experience of sex good for ... (94 words)

I don't want to tell my boyfriend about a drunken kiss, it meant nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (?) - Hi, I've been seeing my boyfriend a couple of months now. I went on a girls night out and got really drunk. My single friend really liked this guy so when she was chatting to him I chatted to his friend. His friend tried to kiss me so I told him I had a boyfriend but th... (164 words)

Should I tell this man how I feel? I dreamed he passed away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does this dream mean ?. I know a man who is a lot older than me, and i think he is attracted to me. He has said that if was my age, he would go after me, and said i am special, and he winks at me a lot, and his friend told me that he told him that he loves me. In the ... (188 words)

How do I show him that I have changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. Okay well I really need help, I am Inlove with this guy, and have been for a while now, we dated before, but we broke up because I keep making these stupid mistakes, I thought he didnt care about me, I always called myself fat and ugly, and he hated that, He also thought ... (222 words)

Why does my ex post a photo of his ex from 2 years ago on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

- I split up with my LDR boyfriend because he wouldn't commit to me and he was messing me around. I told him he had to let me move on if he wasnt prepared to commit, but we could remain friends. He was horrible back to me so I deleted his number and deleted him off my facebook. ... (193 words)

How do I fill the void in my life without her/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, We fell in love almost 2 years back. but, now her family is not allowing her relation with me and even she has decided to do what her family wants her to do. I have accepted her decision. What should i do, so that atleast i wont feel the void in my life?... (61 words)

Do you know anyone who has many college degrees, but is working in a job far below his potential???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, This is a question on career options. I know...I know...this site is mainly dedicated to relationships/love/sex questions. But I am posting a career question here as my experience with this site has been good so far and I get the most sensible answers here. ... (450 words)

Is my best friend after my boyfriend? Or is she just jealous of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best mate been friends for just over three years now, we first met in our year eleven maths class. From the moment we met people started calling us twins as we were so much alike, we even caught ourselves saying the same thing at the same time at points. Whenev... (722 words)

Why am I making all the efforts when he should be begging for my forgiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, straight to the point. I've been with my bf for nearly three years now. The relationship in whole has been a pretty good one, no real complaints. Then about 2 months ago a new girl started with him in work, he said he didnt really speak to her but for about a week he ... (491 words)

Is it reasonable to think that after 3 months, he would have let me know if he was interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in college. Back at the beginning of the semester I met a guy and ended up really liking him. We have a lot of things in common and I think he's pretty great. For a while, I thought he might have been interested in me too, but now I'm starting to doubt that. ... (491 words)

He wants to meet me in person, but I am afraid he would not still like me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been communicating with this guy online for about two months, and he has expressed that he wants to meet me in person over the Christmas holiday. I REALLY like him; he seems like a great guy. –But I have two concerns; 1) I am very comfortable by emails, I... (267 words)

He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

4 December 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this miserable basketcase. I know its ... (154 words)

Urgent help needed!! I am meeting the creepy pervert who has my papers, in an hour and a half. How do I handle him and get my papers back? What can I tell him to offend him the way he deserves to be offended?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Little urgent help please!!! I am a student and my financial situation is pretty bad at the moment. Things begun to look up when I landed a pretty decent part time job. The catch is I need to be a member of an association in roder to be able to begin. That means some documents ... (284 words)

Why is my friend being so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (?) age 51-59 - So I am separated and during my separation one friend has been there for me through all my hard times..she was also separated...but for the past year ..she has taken a bit of a personality that ..she is constantly belittling me...I thought it was my imagination..and honestly ... (175 words)

The girl I love doesn't want to date me because she says her parents wont approve of it, and wont even let me talk to them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I. Love this girl sooo much and she says she loves. Me too. But like. She says she can't date me because her family wouldn't approve.so now I'm sitting here in tears I'm asking her to let me talk to her parents about it and she says she's 100% sure about the answer... What do I ... (62 words)

How do I tell my ex in a nice way I don't want her keeping in touch with my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I tell her not to keep in touch with my parents. Basically i was with my ex for about two years and it developed into a long distance relationship through no fault of hers and she could only come over to mine on a weekend which ment she couldn't spend the time with her ... (248 words)

Should I forgive my friend for the insulting things he said while drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If you went out of your way to make an effort with a guy and you made him feel involved, after nobody else would. But then one evening he was a jerk and treated you without any ounce of respect! Said somethings that were insulting/inappropriate to you, things a guy should never ... (229 words)

Does she want to date him? How do I deal with her? Or what can I do to stop her being so mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I really dont know how to start this off, so I'll start from the very beginning. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. Back when we were dating for about a three months he had to move to a different city. We decided that we werent going to be together, but we stil... (609 words)

How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I find out if this guy is cheating on me? Lately this guy im seein does not want to spend time with me and does not return my txts most of the time, so one night I had a feeling he was with someone else and I had to go past his place to the store and I seen another car ... (78 words)

What do you think about when you're masturbating and/or having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a question for guys and gals. me and my boyfriend got into a conversation about sex and masturbation. he told me that when he masturbates he fantasizes about things, and when we have sex and i close my eyes, he thinks that im fantasizing about someone else. i, on the... (176 words)

I feel awkward as hell. If I hurt my friend's feelings, it was COMPLETELY unintentional. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have an awkward little situation... A friend of mine was going through a breakup and to make her feel better I asked her if she'd like to come with me to a ballet show on a specific date. She said "you just have to remind me"...and that was it. This was a month ago. Since th... (223 words)

I don't know what to think, should I bother with my long distance boyfriend or not? Is he just playing games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am a bit confused. My long-distance guy was being distant, and sometimes I wouldn't hear from him for weeks. I took the hint that he just wasn't that interested, and even though I love him with all my heart, I distanced myself and didn't email or call as often, and ... (164 words)

He takes lots of time out with his friends. How can I stop being jealous, before I ruin the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help with this one. My boyfriend and I, together for 13 months, we have a daughter together. When he hangs out with friends that are guys i get jealous. When he drinks or gets drunk with his friends i get jealous because while he is doing that I'm taking care of the ... (84 words)

Does the ex ever wonder, 'what if?' 'How can some ex's finish the relationship so easily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I still don't understand how someone who was supposed to love you, can just up and leave you and never look back. I'm talking about relationships where everything's fine, but then one person does a 180 degree turn and leaves for no apparent reason.... (45 words)

Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do married men lie and tell you there are separated, when they not? ... (14 words)

My Gf got pissed that I dropped some rice in her bowl of soup, that I was angry at her and that I didn't call her, and now we shouldn't see each other till the end of the year! How trivial is that!!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I are mad at each other. We’ve dated for about 16 months. I’m 27 and she’s 26. We’re each other's first gf/bf. We were eating at a buffet along with her sister. My gf returned to the table with a small bowl of soup and placed it on the table. I tried to take a ... (644 words)

Should I tell my husband that I was raped when I was 16 years old or bury the secret?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need someone's advice. I'm 26 yo and just recently I got married, me and my husband have together 10 years he's the only guy in my life and love him more anything and I never lie to him no matter what. but during this time I had a secret that I never told him, I haven't ... (155 words)

Unaware of feelings and career/girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have two questions and I will try to keep them brief: 1. Most people who fall in love seem to be unaware they have feelings for the other person. However, with me, I over analyze things to death. Is there a way to stop thinking all the time? (I know this may sound l... (175 words)

The big question ... What do girls think when ....

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What do girls think when they see a decent-looking guy with a fat, ugly girlfriend? What do they assume about him? I'm pretty sure that if a guy is seen with a hot girl, people think he must be something special. So is it the opposite if he's with an ugly girl?... (55 words)

Drifting apart while in college. How can we work on the long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now. We are both now in college and are drifting apart. It has gotten to the point where she has told me that I annoy her all the time. We are both busy and when I try to talk to her she will ignore me instead of letting me ... (190 words)

Is it normal for a guy to have flings after a 2 year relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, my name is Jess and I'm having a bit of trouble with a friend of mine. Well, I have a crush on my friend, and I need an answer: Is it normal for a guy to have flings after a 2 year relationship? Here's the issue. I asked him to go to the city to see a light show... (225 words)

I accused him of cheating, then found out it was a misunderstanding

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago my this guy and I (who I am in a complicated relationship with) got really distant. I thought it was because he was cheating with this girl who lived in New York. Last week I texted asking if he goes out with this girl named "Jalen". Jalen made a bunch of ... (194 words)

My husband is a true conflict phobic, is never assertive and its causing a lot of problems for us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age - My husband is a very gentle guy, and does not like to argue with anybody. He hates conflicts, and whenever he can ,he trying to avoid them. He is a true conflict phobic. I love him, and it makes him a very kind father, and husband. But sadly it was causing a lots of trouble ... (222 words)

What can a person do when they love someone who doesn't love them back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

4 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What can a person do when they love someone who doesn't love them back? Specially when the one they love is just perfect. When they have tried for more than 3 years to get over it, to find one flaw in the one they love, to find anyone who would have the potential to be even ... (129 words)