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writes:I am a working happy young at heart 59 years old woman-kinda short and 'cute'm I am currently living with my 46yr oldboyfriend. We have been in a monagamous relationship for about 3-4yrs. His family loves me-as does my family love him. Do you think marriage should stay in my 'dreams' only? Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 Do the two of you ever talk about getting married? How does he feel about the subject? I think you are from the generation that feels less complete if you are just living with someone and not married. That's okay. There's nothing wrong with having those values. Just make sure he feels the same way. If he doesn't it could be that he just needs more time. My b/f and I lived together for 5 years before we got married. I think we always knew we would at some point, we just had to wait until we both felt ready. If he's open tot he idea then it might be time to take the next step. We never get too old to want to feel like we "belong" to someone, and sometimes a marriage certificate is the best way to feel "whole". Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): Look, I really want to help, but could you give us a little more information please? It would give us insight and enable us to give better advice. Thanks :)
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 why should marriage stay in your dreams?
Is he against marriage?
have you discussed marriage?
not alot to go on from your post
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2011):
 do you want to get married? have you asked him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): What?
Listen. If its something you want and can uphold and your BF supports this life decision. What has been holding you back?
You know the answers far more than we do and this post, not a lot to go on.
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