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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know if being friends with him is worth it anymore. Should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm sorry this is long. I am still in love with my best friend. We have been friends since 8th grade. I'm 19 and he is now 20. I have always had feelings for him and I eventually had to move away to another country. If I wouldn't have moved away, we would have been ... (263 words)

What does "seeing someone" mean to you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for around a month now and still in the seeing each other stage though not sure exactly what this means are we exclusive or not, does it mean we one step away from bf and gf? What does seeing someone mean to you?... (49 words)

Friends with potential?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This week a friend Ive known for years made a move on me and we made out a bit. I was really suprised by his behavior though because years ago I tried to take the initive but he told me "we were just friends" Weve always hung out in groups and he would help me out with rides ... (132 words)

There's this guy in my classes, and he's always flirting with me and stuff.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy in my classes, and he's always flirting with me and stuff. Sometimes I catch him staring at me. When I look back at him, he either keeps looking at me or turns away. He always starts conversations with me. I'm kinda shy, so he always wants me to talk. He b... (281 words)

Does he want me to move on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age - i don't know how to take this. recently the man i've been involved with for a better part of 5 yrs responded to an email i sent him wishing him and his family a Happy Thanksgiving. Mind you this was the first time i attempted to write to him in the 5 months he has been ... (288 words)

Told his wife he's cheating.....was I wrong for telling?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I Recently slept with a married man after talking to him daily for two months and him promising that he would leave his wife within the next 5 months and there is no love between them or sex..just friendship....I believed him and after a dinner date we had sex.....He was ... (221 words)

Should I just do what I want and not care what this guy thinks of me afterwards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online about three months ago. We've been talking since but have never met. He's tried to a couple times but I laughed it off because I had a boyfriend and didn't want to. Well, my boyfriend broke up with me about three weeks ago, so I talked to him a lot mor... (361 words)

2 hours going at it and still no magical finish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys. im 16 and so yesterday i was with this girl, weve known each other for a while know, and its not the first time weve gotten sexual... so anyway she invited me over to her house since her parents were out and we could do it again, btw she is 16 aswell so its perfectly ... (186 words)

My period was missed, should I worry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This question may well sound abit dumb, but i am young and have no idea about female anatomany, not to mention i worry far to much so if you could tell me if this is normal or not it would be great. I have basically missed my monthly ... (287 words)

What are views on large labia minora?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and I know I have big, above average, labia minora. I know there are operations like labiaplasty, but I don't find item uncomfortable. It's a major body image issue for me. I just want to know, what are men/women opinions on large labia? I think I'm bi, so I'm intereste... (61 words)

I feel heavy because of my height and want to be an model

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have serious body image issues. I'm 5'11, and I think I'm attractive. Because of my height I constantly feel heavy - I'm 64kgs. Im very uncomfortable round boys because of it and don't act confidently- sometimes I just feel like crying and others I try toe but end up feeli... (147 words)

My girlfriend doesn't even want to hug me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi thank you for taking the time to read this. Ive been going out with my girlfreind for 10 months now and im having real doubts if she still loves me. Im absolutley in love with her, devoted and i would do anything for her. Yet i get no affection no love sometimes not ev... (444 words)

My partner wont let me meet his new friend saying "it is MY friend, not yours". Reason to be suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Relationship dilemma. I have been in a 19 month relationship and things were excellent until a month ago. My partner decided to make friends with a bloke in his class and since this has occurred he has been very distant to me and weird acting. I have a good reason to b... (183 words)

Boyfriend's love for anal sex is ruining our relationship

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My man loves Anal sex, but I couldn't be more turned off by it. We are engaged to be married, and have been dating for three years. We have amazing sex, on the daily, but when it comes to anal, I'm just not in to it. This is creating some problems between us that makes me ... (616 words)

Should I talk to him about his friend?

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3 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - should i try to talk to my boyfriend about his girl thats a friend that i get jeaulous of because thats how we started out as being friends too and im just scared shes going to take him away from me and i think he tell her everything that we do and all about his life and if we ... (89 words)

He's cheated once before, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I has been on and off for two years. He cheated on me once and I forgave him and now I noticed him telling other girls that he is single and he is flirting with them. Also he is telling some other girls that he love them. Yes, I admit I went through his message ... (83 words)

Am I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like just because I don't act like a slut, I'll never get a guy to notice me in my school. I really like this one guy ,but everyonce in awhile I see him with some random girl hanging all over him. Now its a common sight in my school to see girls hanging all over guys it ... (77 words)

I believed what this other girl was saying. We broke up. Do I wait for him because I love him or do I give up on the relationship and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend has been dating over a year. but we broke up on monday. caue this girl that is real obsessed with him was always causing drama, she told him that she wished i was not with him, so she could be with him and that she was going to do anything she could to be wi... (606 words)

What can I do to help my sister, who's a ballerina and has serious body image issues? Is she seeking constant affirmation that she's thin? Is she seeking attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My sister has serious body image issues. Let me explain : She's a ballerina and , at 14 years old, in the pre-professional division. She's a very brilliant dancer with a beautiful physique. But her instructor constantly calls her "heavy" or tells her to lose five pounds b... (307 words)

Am I wrong to want her to wear a different dress? The one she chose for New Year's Eve looks like Lingerie.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have a somewhat delicate issue here. First of all my girlfriend and two mutual friends of ours (a boy and a girl) decided that we are going to celebrate new years eve together in a club in town, so far so good. Today she was showing me a dress that she has ... (161 words)

What's with all the mean texts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So I really like this guy (too much!) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. But sometimes he'll say things (in a text) that maybe I take too seriously an overreact because I'm just a girl? Or is it because he doesn't know what to say and it comes across as mean? There's two ... (105 words)

I simply don't know how to move on from what I did and no-one is giving me any opportunity to do so because they blank me or look at me with loathing

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in an eighteen year relationship with someone who was a binge drinker and I finally plucked up the courage to leave him some months ago. I need help with some of the leftover crap from that please. My background: I got married at 18, pregnant at 20 and then divorce... (1544 words)

Should I cool it off? He says he likes spending time with me but is not sure if he sees a future with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing this guy for about 3/ 4 months now and I wanted to know what we were, just to make things clear for us both, and his reply was that he doesnt really know. He likes spending time with me but not sure if he sees a future with me. i asked him if it was anything... (216 words)

Should I leave my current boyfriend to find someone more suitable for me? And what should I do about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - During my freshman year of college, a student from Japan studied abroad at my school. We both like one another, but didn't develop a relationship until the end of the semester when he had to leave. Over the summer, we kept in touch by video chat and had a decent relationship. ... (933 words)

I never want to cheat on my Bf. So how can I stop lusting after this boy I see at night school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and I do love him loads, but have recently starting feeling lust for a boy who is goes to my night school. I would never cheat on my bf but I can't stop thinking about this boy in a sexual way. I don't know what this means, or what... (69 words)

Is it just that time has changed my attitude? Or could it be the promotion is affecting things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2 years moved to another town a year ago for a job. We were living together and everything was great. The plan was that I follow him there once I get a job. It's been a year now and initially I missed him like crazy and I thought I would do anything to be ... (169 words)

Do you prefer sex with the lights on, off or dimmed?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just out of curiosity, I'm interested to find out, and would like to know: Sex with the lights on, off or dimmed? What do you prefer? What do you typically do? And why? Thanks! ... (39 words)

How do I remedy this situation? My family treat my 35 year old divorced friend (and his children) with a sort of tolerant disdain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 35, and I am dating a divorced father of two. My family make me feel really bad because, as they have put it, this is the "best I can do" at my age because I waited too long to get into a serious relationship, and it would difficult for me to find anyone anyway. They tr... (115 words)

How can I bear this relationship when my boyfriend cheated on me 7 months ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. During our 5 years, he has kissed another girl while drinking. This happened a few months ago in May. The girl he kissed was his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin was very mean to her, and she always came to him crying because o... (408 words)

Are these positive indications of romantic interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just met a guy at work yesterday. He works there too, but I just started a week ago. I work in a bookstore, and we passed each other in an aisle, and I smiled at him and he smiled at me, and then he stopped and said "hey, I don't think I've seen you around before", and I told ... (606 words)

Should I wait for the right one to lose my virginity or find a complete stranger on Craigslist?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 yr old male and I am a virgin. I am thinking about using Craigslist and having sex with a complete stranger to lose it. I know craigslist isn't the best place to go. . . My question is should I have sex with a stranger or wait until I find the one that I love and ... (82 words)

Why is my old emotional affair now mean then nice to me after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - A few years back I had an emotional affair with this guy at work, needless to say he flip flops back and forth, nice to me, them rude, stand offish, then nice. WELL, i tried real hard for peace before my transfer request, but I did not get transferred, so I tried over time for... (227 words)

How can I confront my boyfriend of lying about porn?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a great relationship for the past 2 years and haven't had any big fights... except about one topic: porn. I absolutely hate it. I see it as a form of cheating. He knows I would never allow him to look another woman's naked body in person, ... (339 words)

Did I do everything right on this casual date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've hardly been out on casual meetings with guys. So ive got a couple of questions.. There's this guy i've been texting for a month now. We live in the same area. Both of us are shy and don't talk too much. Oh and we both have been in previous relationships in which we... (213 words)

Boyfriend and facebook issues. Could it be true that it's her fault he dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago. I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl that I wrote about in last post, an... (143 words)

Should I remain optimistic and wait 2 years for my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex of 7 years and I broke up about a week ago. I am going through emotionally tolling ups and downs about the situation as of right now and don't know how to deal. She has become bored and claims "nothing excites me" as to my we have broken up. She is a year or so older than ... (324 words)

How do I handle my slutty, model roommate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend looks like a model and is SUPER pretty and I am just somewhat pretty. At the start of college, she started to party and now she has a reputation of a slut. Some guys, because we are friends, thought I was the party type too. I'm not. I don't like to drink nor anythi... (300 words)

Should I dump my girlfriend because she accepted a date with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this girl for 6 months now though it has been a long distance relationship. My problem is she rarely calls or text to atleast make me feel special too but she replies to my texts or missed calls and she says she loves me. I recently tried asking a friend ... (119 words)

He's a nice guy but I feel like I could do better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have doubts about my boyfriend daily. It started about half a year ago, when he really hurt me by ignoring me and wanting to break up with me for no reason. I guess that really turned me off from him. Now we have a better relationship than ever, there is a lot of trust and ... (229 words)

I was just wondering what I could do to spice up our relationship without actually going to the private zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. This is not really a dilemma but just some suggestions. I've been with my girlfriend for 20 months and the most we have ever done is making out. There has been no like touching of boobs or anything private due to her morals which i respect. I was just wondering ... (83 words)

Does his silence mean he is over me? Should I try to contact him again next week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, After 3 weeks of no contact with my ex boyfriend, I texted him this afternoon: Me: Hey how are you? Ex: Im chill and u? Me: Im good, long time no speak! It's now 2 AM over here and he still hasn't replied to my last txt message. It's driving me crazy. I ... (172 words)

I'm living with a guy who I'm madly in love with, and he's going out with one of my friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm going through quite a conflicted phase at the moment, and was wondering if you could help. I'm living with a guy who I'm madly in love with, and he's going out with one of my friends. I've loved him for almost a year now - we were staying in the same unviersity h... (454 words)