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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am still sleeping with my Ex but he's grown too friendly with my friend! Shall I tell her the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my good friend and my ex are getting friendly..... and hiding it, i know about and confronted them and they say they are just mates at the moment. my friends tell me that if our friendship is going to get awkward then mates is all they will stay. trouble is, im still sle... (153 words)

Flirting? Just fun? Or he's just being mischievous? What's he up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey okay, theres this kid who's been my friend since the begining of last year. Lately anytime he sees me in the hallway he always runs up behinds me and pokes my sides, like, right above my hips. And then I'll squeal and turn around and he'll smile and run away. And be does ... (140 words)

Why are some girls like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - not realy a relationship question as such, but why are some people just 'slags' or 'sluts' i know this girl shes 14 im 18 i dont have a crush on her or out, just started talking and i suppose you cud say we are freinds and thers 'rumours' about her that when she was 12 she ... (318 words)

My boyfriend is being difficult! please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for well over 2 years, all of which have been long distance. Right now, I'm in college and he's living back at home in NY, about 4 hours away from my parents' house. I was planning to go visit him by train on the 26th, but realized today that the ... (364 words)

My father does not like the older man I am dating!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this wonderful man for the 10 months, I'm 23 and he's 38, at first I was sceptical about the whole age thing but I couldn't help myself so we'd sneak away and meet each other at the local park or go a drive.. Anywhere as long as we got to spend time together. ... (328 words)

My marriage is in trouble, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in dire need of immediate help. I'm a 30year old mother of a 6month old daughter, and a wife to a 66year old man. We met and dated online for 3years in which a we got married a year ago. We never lived together, but visited one another for 4months condensed, until 2months ... (900 words)

My ex didn't wish me a happy birthday and it really hurts me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel so upset about this? am I overreacting? So is my birthday today and my ex boyfriend didn't even wish me a happy birthday. He dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship. But I found out he lied and cheated on me. On his birthday I rang him to wish h... (141 words)

I fell asleep while talking to the guy, do I contact him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm terrible at this dating thing. So I gave this guy my number and we spent all last night talking, before I so nicely fell asleep on him (i felt really bad after that.) So this is my stupid question..Do I text him first or wait till he get's in touch with me?... (54 words)

What are opinions about male menopause?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age - I was wondering about your opinion, about male menopause . Some doctors believe it, when man has problems with libido,or getting an erection, it is explained, with this new term. But I have an extreme case of this, if it is true, and my girlfriend left me as she thought it ... (118 words)

Sex with a new person felt like the first time? WHY?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity in june and was sleeping with the same person until october; so i am used to sex by now. so why when i slept with someone else a few days ago did it still not go smoothly? The other person has also lost their virignity so why did it seem like we had neve... (69 words)

How do I take control in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was recently asked to 'take control in the bedroom' and i would love to but i don't get how i can do this. any ideas? and how can i get over my embarrassment as i lack confidence?... (41 words)

I know I am using her, how do I get out of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a very difficult situation right now. I've been dating a girl now for 3 months, she's more of a rebound gf since I just got out of a long term relationship prior to meeting my new gf. The problem is I don't love her at all. I think she's a good person but I know we're ... (329 words)

BF broke up blaming his job and family stress. Can or should I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were doing well for about a year (anniversary would have been Thurs). We had made plans that he intiated for the holidays, had talked about the future, etc. frequently. Last Saturday, after a Christmas party he said he didn't think he saw us together, that we ... (438 words)

He has chewed me up and spat me back out... again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last friday my ex mm broke nc again I was firm and told him where to go - even rejecting his calls after which he texted me "ouch no need for that" I was v proud of myself I had NEVER rejected a call from him before after this he bega bombarding me with texts telling me how ... (300 words)

My family are pushing me to leave my bf of 2 years, should I just move out?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years but we've been best friends ever since we were 2 years old. so i need help....i cant stand living here with my family anymore. it seems like they care about my brother more...i can never trust them about anything anymore...i ... (236 words)

I met a guy while I was out with a guy friend, does the new guy still like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this man still likes me ?. I saw him when i was out with another guy. I'm not dating the guy that i was out with. We have only just met, so we are friends, but i don't know if anything else will happen. This man asked if the guy i was out with was my boyfriend. He ... (227 words)

Is he still interested? Or should I back off and see if it makes contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've been seeing this guy,our first date was about a month ago. Everything is GREAT when we are together. He opens doors,always pays,and we get along very well with each other. Always good conversation and we can joke around with each other and have a good laugh. I feel ... (362 words)

How do I learn to smile and laugh again after calling it a day on my 3 year relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have finally plucked up the courage to leave my 3 year old relationship due to his dating site obsession. I have had lies,been blamed,had it turned round on me,been called neurotic and been made to feel bad for not trusting him. Albeit,he still carried on. It has been a full ... (142 words)

Boyfriend checking in Facebook even when we are together. Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, all. I like my privacy, and so I don’t put all my info on FB and other social networks. However, I’m having an issue with my boyfriend: every time he goes somewhere, he ‘checks in’ on Facebook. Now, this is his own business in my view if he does it on his own, but he has ... (111 words)

Like a guy but he has a girlfriend, should I accept his offer to hang out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, and I've been texting this guy that I have romantic feelings for. Let's call him J. Problem is, J has a girlfriend, specifically someone I know and who is nice to me. I may sound cruel, but they are in no way compatible, and I've continued flirting with J throughout the ... (115 words)

Can't get him out of my head, he's not coming back but no one compares to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago. We had an amazing long and healthy relationship. He was my first real love and my best friend. The only reason I broke up with him is because my family didn't like him and didn't want me to be with him, and that caused a ... (488 words)

Confront or not? Evidence of girl in my new BF's apt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok: confront or not? Just had the "are we sleeping with other people? Are we dating other people conversation" with the guy I've been dating for 2 months. He has been flaky in the beginnig and said he was but is no longer because he likes me and wants a girlfriend and something ... (240 words)

In love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - HI, I'm in love with my sister. Not my own sister, but she's is grandmom's sister's granddaughter. And our grandmom's had broken their relation long time back before we were born. I first meet her when I was 16 years old, and she is half year younger than me.. It was the ... (326 words)

I thought I was a lesbian so why am I attracted to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically before my boyfriend, I had not looked at a man in a sexual/romantic way for years. I am just not attracted to males, I am borderline repulsed by them really. I am extremely attracted to females, though. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, ... (133 words)

We want to have sex. How do we stay safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i'm sixteen and ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half months, we both want to have sex, and neither of us never have. I dont know how to know if im ready, and i dont know if its to early in the relationship, should we wait longer? I would make sure we ... (118 words)

He thinks I want a boyfriend, but I just want a FWB!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I really need blunt advise on this, the last thing I want is to appear as an idiot. This year has been very difficult for me and after breaking up with my ex-bf three months ago, i do not feel like dating for a while. He broke my heart and hurt me more than i th... (432 words)

I'm Jealous of his new Girlfriend, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Skipping all the details, there is basically this guy that I've had a huge massive insane crush on for pretty much most of this year. For one reason or another it didnt work out, and I thought I'd got over him, but now he's got a new girlfriend, and it turns out im reeeaaally ... (115 words)

After an act of kindness, do you think my friend finally realizes what he lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - was at a works xmas do last night and a guy i was brilliant friends with came along our friendship ended because i discovered he had lied to me a lot and i was such a decent friend to him helping him whenever he was in need ranging from work help to money and when i confronted ... (160 words)

I cant handle rude customers where I work! Any Advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

17 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I just got my first retail position at a clothing store. I work in the kids dept. I know this isn't a r'ship question, but I was hoping for some help from people who have been in my shoes. I'm a very hard worker but the one thing I can't handle is rude customers. I work as a ... (119 words)

She loves me but should I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ahh good ol Cupid, have not been here in many months or years to be exact! Well its that time again where i am falling in love and iv hit a BRICK WALL, to say the least. Iv been seeing this girl for about 6/7 months now, we are not officially in a proper relations... (525 words)

My boyfriend is not ready to get engaged, I feel I've ruined it! Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I would ask that you view this with an open mind. After a string of very bad relationships and heartbreaks on both sides of the relationship, my partner T and I truly believe we have found the person we want to be with for the rest of our lives in each other. We ... (386 words)

I would make the first move, but I'm worried I've misread his signals and I'll just end up embarrassing myself. What do I do?

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17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. There is this guy that I work with and we get on really well. He's always really flirty with me, but I don't know if he's just that sort of guy or if its because he's generally interested in me. I flirt back, and it feels like something is deffinetly going on, but ... (93 words)

I need advice from women, what does this girl really think of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I usually talk with a girl about three years older than i am she is 25 and am 22.she is so reserved that some of friends but could'nt succeed. She likes sitting with me and alongside chatting with me and we do play during chatting just like folding my hands,tapping me on my ch... (143 words)

How do I reject an unavailable guy and stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - So, I just moved to a big city and I don't have a lot of friends, although I am working on it; at the moment I am not interested in other kinds of relationships, because I have some issues to solve, but I don't sleep around either, just focusing on friendships - one of the few ... (260 words)

Boyfriend's kiss no longer turns me on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend was out of country and we met recently after 6 months. I was really excited to meet him. When I saw him, his appearance put me off a bit. My boyfriend is not the best looking but still I love him for what he is and how he treats me. But when we meet a part of me ... (238 words)

Can emergency contraception cause pregnancy-like symptoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay... On Dec 6, I posted a question asking about emergency contraception. (I'll include it at the end of my question) I now have a follow up of sorts (if you can call it that) and additional questions. (in a nutshell, my guy and I were messing around (no actual sex thoug... (1151 words)

We broke up, he rebounded, and now we're friends. How to get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My ex of 5 months and I broke up in August. We had a really cute, unexpected relationship. I didn't plan on dating him but it just sort of happened. He had great chemistry and talked to eachother about life, etc. He said I was the only that has a "soul" to him and ... (271 words)

Should I ask him out for drinks? I don't live here so it can't turn into anything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved to Florida for work. But next fall, I will be moving back to my hometown in New Jersey. I like this guy who went to my old college and I'm visiting my family for christmas. I was wondering, should I ask him out for drinks? What if it turned into something? I ... (67 words)

She's been acting distant since I showed up late for a date. Should I just call it quits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have recently noticed the girl I've been seeing has distanced herself from me. She hasn't really talked to me properly since I was late for our last date. She offered to meet again the next day to make up for the time we lost. She didn't call that next day so we didn't ... (312 words)

How high are the chances that he likes me and we might meet again? Please help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fancied this guy in university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago. We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we kissed and cuddled all night. He kept kissing me on my... (286 words)

She wouldn't give me her phone number but someone else gave it to me. Should I call her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl at school,she is 16,while I'm 19,i asked her to be my friend,which she agreed to,but,she have refused giving me her phone number,although, i got the number from a guy she gave it,please,help me,should i call her,since she wasn't the one that gave me the ... (54 words)

He cheated, I forgave him, but I don't think he'll do the same!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i can't live with myself right now. im not suicidal or anything like that, i have a lot to live for. i did something HORRIBLE and i thought i could deal with keeping it as a secret but its eating at me more and more each day. Well, my boyfriend and i broke up a month ago and i ... (367 words)

Can I ruin his porn videos without visible proof?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so, my boyfriend has recently stopped watching porn out of respect for me. I just recently found his old porn stash of dvds and he doesn't know that I know about them. I know I'm going to get a lot of responses about how I should talk to him about it and what not, but I ... (96 words)

He's the strong silent type. But talks to me. Is he showing signs of liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys....well basically I just want to know if you guys thinks this college friend likes me, as I am not too good at this kind of thing. I've just moved up to college and I've known the guy since high school but we never talked...at all. In college not many people from my h... (327 words)

My Bf had a message in the drafts folder of his phone saying, "I don't even know why I'm with (my name), she's f**king gross bro, like who hasn't f***ed her."!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so basically the other day my boyfriend and I of 4 months got in a fight because he found out that I had dated this guy he knows that he thinks is DISGUSTING. It doesn't make sense also because this happened like 6 years ago, it's not fair that he's gunna get me at me over ... (249 words)

What's so cool about taking a shower with someone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate to sound crude/blunt, but, well, I dont get it. Showering is for cleaning the gross stuff off your body...Why would someone want to be in there with you? Feel free to explain this to me, haha. Because I'm honestly clueless. ... (50 words)

Will my Bf perfect the act of performing oral sex on me with time, or do I need to tell him how it should be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is an animal in bed...I love what we do. When we started getting intimate he told me he have never performed oral on any woman. I truly did not complain but it was kinda funny because my ex-boyfriend was an expert in oral down south pleasuring. I still did try not ... (307 words)

Ladies, how do you react when your man is attending a bachelor's party which you know its going to be wild?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Three of my boyfriend's close friends are getting married, two of which he is the best man. His boys have been raving about this bachelors eve parties for the past couple of months. I don't know how to behave or act. SHould I act cool about it or say something? I know what go... (181 words)

I'm having a hard time moving forward. Do I wait to see if she comes around?

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17 December 2011 (F)

age - Hi There,I'm very down,and I messed up in a huge way but I felt as I was being thrown away from my girlfriend. I love this girl and she has my heart and soul. I thought we had a relationship and believed in her words only to find she reached out to another gal so this killed my ... (172 words)

Do I pick the good guy or the bad guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help me!!!! I love two men and have no idea what to do.... one is a good guy ones a bad guy but I just dont know who to choose!... (30 words)