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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can somebody help to organize my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everybody? I need some tips to keep my life organized for example the truth is I stink,im too lazy to take showers,im too lazy to exercise,poor diet I eat nothing but junk food,im too lazy to look pretty,i have a mess in my room!i have goals that I want to complete any tip ... (62 words)

I am almost a beautiful 22 year old and never had a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Where will I find him? The right guy for me? I tried online dating, the only messages I get are from guys that I am not attracted to. They write me nice messages saying how I have beautiful eyes and smile. Its very nice of them to write me nice messages. But I am not interest... (197 words)

My guy used to treat me like a princess but now I feel like he doesn't care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance had a troubling childhood. His dad didn't take good care of him, his mom was never around and he dealt with A LOT of bullying and being made fun of relentlessly. He married his ex-wife in 1997. Not because he loved her, but because he just wanted "somebody." They... (803 words)

Deep throating without gagging?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Looking to hear from fellow females on the subject of deep throating. I have been trying to do it for my man but end up gagging within seconds. Is there a good way to do it without gagging? I heard if you lay on a bed with your head hanging over the side that it opens your ... (83 words)

What really hurts a guy aside from breakups?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is mainly directed to Men but feel free anyone to answer every little helps :) After a friend got dumped we went to her house to comfort her. She said she wanted to hurt her ex emotionally. I told her not to stoop to his level but my friends were having a de... (112 words)

I'm worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side. We've been dating for 4 months now, and sometimes he really snaps at me, and is rude/intolerant about other people. I just worry that he may become violent at some point. For instance, he says things like - he would l... (502 words)

Are all FWB relationships like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I am in a fwb arrangement with a man of 10 months we didn't arrange it it just happened anyway I was just wondering are all fwbs like this one I see him once a month maybe twice if I'm lucky lol we live very close to one another I text him he ignores me he accuses ... (239 words)

I have fallen for my boss's best mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen for my boss's best mate! I have known this guy now for 10yrs and when we 1st met I knew there was a connection, however I am 6 years younger so didn't make a move. He since moved away from the area and we only saw each other about once a year at a concert or ... (328 words)

I'm so confused by my friends' actions

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28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this problem and i don't know what to do... There is this guy and he usto be my friend when we were little and then he started being a jerk a couple years ago and then he slowely made his way into our friends group. Before he started hanging out, We always planned to ... (222 words)

I'm feeling uncomfortable and doubtful after meeting my bf's daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this post is a little long, but I need help! :( I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating on and off for about a year and six months now. After the first six months of dating, he broke-down and admitted to me that he has a kid from a past relationshi... (830 words)

Four years of being with a guy who is going nowhere, what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a question for women...but guys can comment to...if you a single mother of twin boys (7yrs old), go to college to get your associates degree, okay you still live at home but that's why you going to school, to get your life together and have a secure future for you and ... (243 words)

My girlfriend's going to China, what does her insurance cover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend's going to China to teach for a year. I've been told she gets insurance from the school but I don't know how extensive it is and I want her to be covered properly. In anyone's experience, does this usually cover most things needed including possessions (eg. ... (69 words)

He hasn't texted me at all today! Is he losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So this will be super long, but I don't really have anyone to vent to. Here goes: I've started talking to this guy, (we'll call him Steve) who is a co-worker of mine and a friend of my good friend John. My friend John says Steve has confidence issues and is really sensitive... (568 words)

I find it hard to be close especially in public

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my boyfriend liked me a couple of months before we went out and before we went out we found flirt and would do little sweet things like hold hands and cuddle up together when we did go out I suddenly didn't feel like I wanted to do all those things again and ... (123 words)

She wants to wait until we're married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend wants to wait to have sex when were married, how can I control my sexual desire to her and release sexual tension without masturbating... (26 words)

We kissed but have ignored talking about it since it happened

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I recently invited my lesbian coworker to my house to drink some wine. She knows that I am bisexual. Anyways, we started listning to music and we ended up kissing. Ever since our kiss that night we have ignored the kiss. We dont talk about it. Its like it never happened ... (85 words)

How do you know if you love someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you love someone?... (8 words)

Why do perfectly decent guys have one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Two questions: 1) why do I feel like my brother is betraying me by dating the girl my ex cheated on me with? 2) why do perfectly decent guys choose to have one night stands? I turned 18 on boxing day but a month before I found out my bf cheated on me with a girl called *Sie... (309 words)

Why does my b/f have pornographic photos of himself on his phone? Is he planning on sending them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Need help! I posted this question before but nobody replied after my update. Okay so I've been a worrier. And I worry not that my boyfriend will cheat but that he'll do something like send pics to other women. Especially since he's not that open with his phone He says... (325 words)

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board and think about this. I ha... (305 words)

My friend warned me my b/f was cheating and going to dump me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has warned me two days ago that my boyfriend is to dump me for another girl. It hurt because I found out of her but its worse that he still hasn't said anything yet. It's breaking my heart that I'm waiting like this because my friend said wait till 3days after ... (139 words)

Do guys dump shy girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - guys!is it true that a guy would dump a girl is she's shy to make the first move or anything?but some girls can be like that because all they wanna do is talk or go out not make out at his house everytime they're alone?... (45 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend? If yes, then how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunt's, I need an advice about my relationship... its a little long but please every one i need help... :( currently i do not know what am i suppose to do at the moment... I am with my boyfriend it's being 2 years now, at starting it was all so good... but now ... (371 words)

Could the steroids numb him emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please can you give some advice, i have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have some tough times over the last few months, he has admitted to me he is taking anobolic steriods, I think he has only told me as over the last few weeks he has changed from a very loving ... (192 words)

I want my son to call me 'Daddy' and not his step-dad.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in and out of my sons life now for two years now, not by my choice but by the choice of his mother. She recently let me start seeing him again which I am truely grateful for. But she has a live in boyfriend who my son calls daddy, which is understandable since he ... (158 words)

We haven't had sex for 4 months, but b/f watches porn 4 times a week

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age - ok you all saay don't worry about the porn, it took a while and l have excepted that this man of mine will watch porn till he die, ok what do l do about he can watch pron all day or about 3 to 4 times a week, but l have not had sex for about 4 months, what's the deal with that?... (63 words)

Do guys find black hair attractive in girls?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i know this is a random question but i just want to see what everyones opinion was, mostly from a guys perspective. Of course a lot of guys like or "love" blondes then theres the burnettes and red heads. what about the girls with black hair? in my case my hair is jet black, ... (74 words)

Should a FWB be persistent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to be persistent ?. He says he thinks i am really good looking, but i don't think i am that attractive, to be honest. I'm also a shy person, so i don't understand why he doesn't want an fwb who is more outgoing. We haven't had sex with each ... (162 words)

Another girl calls my b/f babe and he doesn't do anything about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, well this isn't going to be long, but theres this girl who always calls my boyfriend babe, through messages, and it annoys me, i asked him why dont you do something about it, and he said theres no point. I dont do that tho only person i call babe is him and some of my ... (81 words)

After 1.5 years boyfriend wants sex but I want to wait till I'm married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half now and he told me that he wants to have sex now, but i feel like i want to wait until im married how can i still make him feel loved without going on to have sex... (51 words)

B/f angry because I wouldn't give him money. He makes 4X what I do~

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A bf got angry for me and stoped talking to me and even texted me to get out of his life forever because I did nt gave him money he asked for to buy himself groceries and I'm I understand the reason of being angry do you think m selfish or I must jst do away with ds kinda of ... (86 words)

How do I prove to this man that the baby I'm carrying is his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34yrs old lady I've been seeing ds man for a year now earlier I found out he was cheating on me we talked abt it and I was wrong cause i snooped on his fon while he was sasleep.well we continued visiting each other until now when I find out that m pregnant with his ... (103 words)

How do I not look like a fool in front of new co-wokers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Just a question regarding work-related relationships (sort of?). Anyways, I recently started working at a prestigious investment firm in an entry-level position (before this, I've never worked in an office, just mostly blue-collar jobs). Given that it... (395 words)

.He loves me, but now wants kids that I cannot give.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 46, seperated for 1.5 years, I have been dating someone of 45 years of age for 6 months, he's never been married. I have 2 children, he knows that I cannot have anymore. We are serious about our feelings of caring for each other, wanting to be with each other, he said he ... (648 words)

I love my b/f but sometimes my sarcastic sense of humor hurts him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend loves me alot, more than anyone ive even been with and i love him so much too. Hes very thoughtful and affectionate and is always showing his love for me in many ways, sounds perfect right? wrong, i love him just as much, but im not the most affectionate, lovey ... (189 words)

I want ex back she said she loved me but 5 days later she's with another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my ex to the core...thing is for the past 6 months i have been pestering her to get back to me....she says she cares about me but doesnt want to get back because she thinks i will lie again or hurt her again...she says she feels there is no change in me....5 days later ... (65 words)

I don't want to spend new year's eve with my boyfriend, am I wrong to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Hope you all had a good Xmas. I have a problem; I don’t want to spend NYE with my partner. I love him but we have almost split up recently and a lot of it is because he becomes a different person when he is drinking; he becomes jealous, irrational and verbally ... (237 words)

He wants to stop chasing women. So he dropped me. What can I do to encourage him to not just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been really foolish and now I'm stuck in a love relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I'm 31 and female and met this amazing guy last year in a bar with friends, he's 3 years younger then me, funny, intelligent, gorgeous, successful and caring a... (489 words)

I don't want to be clingy and needy. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this boy used to talk all the time, texting facebooking, meeting up.. but we had a bit of an argument. i really really really liked him, and i miss talking to him but i dont want to seem all needy and clingly. how do i move on???? thanksss!... (51 words)

What to do with a lying spouse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 10 years had some problems with stealing and lying in the early years of our marriage. For the past several years there have been times I've suspected the behavior again, but lacked proof to confirm, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I just caught her in a ... (108 words)

We don't talk anymore but I still love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Complicated love affair with a man I no longer have contact. I knew him for a good five years and became one of his tenants. Our relationship was purely professional, yet there was an unspoken attraction on both sides (unless) I read him all wrong?. He is with another wom... (526 words)

How do you french kiss without biting someone's tongue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... I have problem... I cant french kiss to save my life... I jus cnt i end up biting mens toungue. Ths has been a c0nstant problem in all of my rlti0nships. Plz help... (34 words)

My friend is interfering in everyone's love life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello well one of my friend seem to be interfering everyone loves life like i use to like her one of her relatives and she didnt something for him to lye about your romance ..anyway so i like a new boy that so happpens to like her he flirts with her and things but he told her ... (195 words)

All communication stopped after I said "when can I see you again?"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I hooked up with a girl after a night out, she came back to my house, self explanatory what happened next, she took my number and she left the following morning. We had texted a little the next day and I think I made a big mistake by slipping 'so when am I seeing you again... (102 words)

I don't know how to get the trust back into our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

- I don't know how to get the trust back in my marriage! Not long after we made a committment to each other he rec'd an email from a woman he didn't know, who started flirting with him and making sexual offers; one thing led to another and he told her when he was going to be in ... (975 words)

He's in a relationship and I still like him! please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay (the story is going to be long sorry), but I really have a lot of feelings for this old friend and we tried to go out over the summer, but in that time, I got a lot of mixed signals from a friend we had shared and I was told lies.(like the guy i liked just wanted to have ... (177 words)

Is masturbation okay if you're saving your virginity for marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am certain on not having sex before marriage as I am a christian, but I masturbate... I know its dirty and i shouldn't do it but I just love it and I can't stop, I maybe do it at least once a week. Will god forgive for masturbating since I am saving actual sex for marriage?... (57 words)

Should I follow my religion or just enjoy being young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I go to a Roman Catholic school and In Religious Education we were discussing sex before marriage. everyone in my class was saying that they can't wait to have sex and are not waiting for marriage, but for some reason, I want to wait. I am not a goody two shoes, I'm your ... (228 words)

I'm Falling In Love With A Really Close Family Friend. What Should I Do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I'm in love with my mums friends son. They live over in Ireland and we go over once a year but this year was... different! He kept teasing me about how I've not properly snogged anyone yet and was really protective. He even bailed on a day out with some of his mates to ... (201 words)

Do I live him or give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need advice...i am with this guy that i am head over heels in love with but something in my gut keeps telling me not to trust him and i can't....well i would be lying if i said i can't but i can pin point what makes me nervous and makes me not trust him...he tends to flirt ... (246 words)

The possibilities of sex with a bigger person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I never had a boyfriend who is quite larger than me , I'm 1261bs and 5'3 I have some fat on me but my boyfriend is 280ibs and 6'0 feet we have been dating for month and half to two months and i want to have sex with him but I'm nervous ! I never had sex with a larger person ... (73 words)

How should I move on from a 2 year relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this will be long but please take time to read. I badly need an advice right now :( -------------------------------------- last week, I broke up with this guy whom i dated for exactly 2 years. we broke up because he doesn't make an effort anymore (or is it just me who doesn'... (504 words)

He said that being physically intimate hurts him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about a year ago, because I may have to move to another country for some years and he cannot go with me. We still hangout sometimes and are very attracted to each other. We kissed and got physically intimate quite often, but after that, he always ... (161 words)

What should I do? We still fight after 10 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man off and on for 10 yrs. We have a 5 yr old son. we were recently apart for a yr and a half and met new people, dated others, i grew to travel and play poker, and he has stayed the same. Hanging out with bad people, drinking etc. He got a new g/f and i we... (206 words)

Does this guy really love me or is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Confused, he broke up wth me due to distance and fear of commitment, recently when he return for the holiday. He started texting me on his whereabouts and so forth,he ask me to visit, we get physical on three occasions, he asked if I can bear him a child and if not he will loo... (171 words)

My grandfathers party is on the same day as my girlfriends! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need a question answered. My girlfriend goes to church and I go with her most of the time. and they invited me to their Christmas party because of my GF. I promised my GF that I would go with her. But today I found out that my Grandfather's party is on the same day. And i do... (213 words)

I'm skinny and eat unhealthily. What should I do? And guys, do you naturally prefer more well-rounded girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I saw a similar question earlier and it got me thinking. I'm gonna be really blunt, I'm veery skinny. I weight around 100 lbs, I'm 5'9" and I'm 14. I eat rather unhealthily, I get my twiggyness from my mother. Also, I have many MANY other friends who are more shall I say ... (106 words)

Do you think I should text him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I and my crush were texting each other before, just having normal conversation. But one day i texted him and he said "who is this" and i was like "its cailyn i thought you saved my number" and he didn't text me back. We didn't talk in class the next day and we've not been tal... (165 words)

Does it mean he doesn't miss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF of a year has been gone for a week, he saw his LTR ex at a Christmas party (he told me she called him and if it was ok with me to go - although it totally killed me I said "it's ok"). We talk every night for a short sweet catch up. He hasn't said he misses me. I texted ... (101 words)

Why is my g/f online asking for advice and won't tell me why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend is asking advice at web sites like this one. I asked her what kinda questions she is asking and she wont tell me! i;m not a woman i dont know how they think. what does this mean. is she trying to hid something. please help.... (52 words)

Wife cries and gets upset from a song, Wont tell me why .

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - if been married to my wife for 6months , and dated for 2years. My question is....do i have a right to know why a particular song sets her off ? ....why she cant bare to hear it because it brings her back to a bad time which i Dont kno very much about . She told me that she was ... (152 words)

I'm worried about my friend dating this creep!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A good friend of mine just told me she has a boyfriend. The more she told me, the worse my gut feeling got. He's been pressuring her for sex, and she's turned him down each time so far. She also says the way he talks is "too smooth" at times, like he's said those lines ... (222 words)

Feeling sick and depressed lately...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know but I always want to be alone, like all my friends ask me to hang out with them, but I always make all these excuses why I can't like I will lie, and say I am not allowed, or I am busy, and etc.. And every night I cry my self to sleep.. and I oo not know why. Also... (141 words)

I used to date my sister in law...and I think we still want each other

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i'm a married man with kids and don't see all my family until we all have a family get together at he weekends at my parents house, which is where i bump into my sister inlaw who was my ex girlfriend briefly at college but now shes married to my brother, and no one but us ... (162 words)

I didn't want to send him a photo of myself so now he's talking to other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been speaking to a boy the last few days and we both liked eachother, we was texting and talking on facebook etc. anyway, i didnt want to send a picture of myself to him so he got annoyed with me and we had an arguement, we settled it and then he told me to 'forget ... (106 words)

How do I ask if she has a partner without being obvious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met an amazing girl a few weeks back. We have been exchanging a few emails. I might ask her out, but I don't know if she has a partner already. How can I ask her without being obvious?... (46 words)

Two dates and he wants me to meet his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on two dates with this guy, but now he wants me to go to his sister's house and visit her and his niece. Does anyone think it's too soon for me to be meeting members of his family ?. I haven't met any members of his family before , and haven't spoken to them. Thanks.... (57 words)

How do I get over being obsessed with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, me and my best friend have known each other about a year now. She moved away 3 months after i met her, to Cali. We always keot in touch. Just recently, we told each other we have have feeling for one another. Way more then just friends. Everything was going great, until ... (140 words)

I'm worried that my b/f will send photos to other women..I found a photo of his penis on his phone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Need help! Okay so I've been a worrier. And I worry not that my boyfriend will cheat but that he'll do something like send pics to other women. Especially since he's not that open with his phone He says he's always been honest and never sent pics or anything that would... (202 words)

I've fallen in love with my sister's life-long mate

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28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a hindu girl (17) and i am in a relationship with my sister's best and life long mate hes 20 and white we have fallen in love but the trouble is my sister (also 20) hates the idea of mixed race relationships. we have been going out for a year we have kept it on the do... (189 words)

Do men that aren't with their children think of them at christmas?

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28 December 2011 (F) age 30-35 - hi there i have a 9th month old daughter her father left us for anothr woman before the baby was born and the last time he saw his child was when she was three months old haven't heard from him since my question is do men think about there children esp around xmas time or is it ... (68 words)

Should I speak up & still walk away w/ my dignity?

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28 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Met him about 5mos ago thru my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later and its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better and he gave me his busy schedule excuse about 2mos into it. We continued to talk ... (241 words)

I am afraid that I will never love or find someone else :(

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28 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years and 7 months ago I was with my first love and I still love him although he done a few mean things. one and a half years ago I started a new relationship (the first guy and I stayed good friends) I thought he was extremely cute but to be honest I didn`t love him like... (273 words)