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writes:Hey aunts.. Sum advice pls. My man of 6 months works away, I am going near to where he is on sum business so I'm staying the night in a hotel and he's coming to stay the night. We've only slept together a handful of times.. And it's been quite boring if I'm honest lol I am so self conscious about my body. How do i relax and get over this? I'm worried to do oral incase he thinks I'm rubbish at it and omg what if I am!!!? He's such a sweetie telling me how lovely I am and how "sexy" I am. Well I want to live up to that lol I want to give him a night to remember since it will be another few weeks until he is home. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 Blind-fold him. Then he wont see you so you do not have to worry about how you look, and he will get a very enjoyable and unique experience. When he is blind-folded tell him what he needs to do or if he needs to lay still, and you get to do whatever YOU want to do with his body. That means if you want to lick him down there, or give oral, or just nibble at his skin, play with your hair along his chest, or give him an intimate and erotic massage (chest, thighs and inner tights and then slowly and carefully moving up to handle his family jewels), you take your pick. He will enjoy everything you do as long as you are not doing anything extreme (like surprise anal sex on him or pinching his nipples suddenly, or squeezing his balls).
You can also get into some sexy underwear while the blindfold is on and let him feel your body and guess what you are wearing, then when the blindfold comes off (if you every end up taking it off) he will get to finally see what you are wearing before he tears it off you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 To be honest if you where to give him oral sex it being rubbish would be the last thing on his mind. Off course there is always room for improvement on these things, so just ask him to guide you through it and tell you what feels nice and what doesn't. Am sure you would be just great at it. Just make sure you guard your teeth and make sure it is very wet.
If you are feeling a bit self concious about your body well then maybe you could buy some sexy underwear and keep it on while you both get intimate. At least you might feel a bit sexier and every time he calls you sexy believe him. Go shopping and see if there is anything that you think is nice and that you would be comfortable in. Just remember to relax. The most sexiest thing in the bedroom is confidence so even if you don't feel that confident try and pretend that you are. Believe that you are sexy and it will come naturally to you and you will soon start to believe it.
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