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*ammer69
writes:hello everyone. I have a question to ask. me and my GF are a very sexual couple and she has asked me to do something a few times. I come here to ask all of you. I'm not sure how to do it because well before he I was a virgin so i need some help.She asked me to have anal sex with her. and even though I kinda want to I don't really know how. I know you have to lube but there are few things I'm unsure about. so here is my question. When having anal sex should I wear a condom and if I don't is it ok if I come inside her. we have known each other for a long time and neither of us have any STDs so i have no worries there.
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reader, mammer69 +, writes (7 December 2011):
mammer69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone. this has been very helpful. Wish me luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): thank you everyone. this has been very helpful.
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reader, Purple Pillow Power  +, writes (7 December 2011):
 yes wear a condom. think, all kinds of nastys are up there. you dont wanna infect something that a man prizes. also if you want both, go for vaginaral sex first then swich to anal, otherways the nastys from her butt on you prize possetion with do some bad bad baaaad stuff up there.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 December 2011):
 Yes you should wear a condom ALWAYS for anal sex. you can get a nasty E. coli infection from fecal matter in your urethra.
Also having anal sex is a bit different than vaginal sex and much more time and patience must be taken. She should lie on her belly with a pillow under her hips.. she needs to be relaxed and well lubricated.
You need to press up against her but NOT enter her... she has to be the one in charge and she presses back into you…. And you just wait… and wait and wait… as she gets more comfortable she presses back more and eventually you will enter her… this can take an hour or more…
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): Using a condom is smarter -- you are exposing yourself to some nasty bacteria after all. That said, I've had anal a couple of dozen times over the past 10 years, always without a condom, and am not aware of any problems. If you do so, it's important that you pee as soon as possible afterward, as that helps flush out any bugs that might be thinking of migrating up to your bladder or worse, kidneys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): I would say yes wear a condom regardless, but I don't take any risks like that when it comes to sex. As for the STD's well I am sure you and your girlfriend are very much in love and you say you have been together a long time, what about if you broke up.... I hope you don't, but none of us can predict the future, so hypothetically speaking if you broke up met another girl did the same with her (no condom), after probably being with her along time aswell... do you see where I am going with this?! You are young, you are not married and you have your whole life ahead of you, so don't take risks.
Good luck.x
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