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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I say to get talking properly again and keep her interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so i added this girl on facebook about a month ago... started talking and flirting... she is kinda a friend of friend of a friend we are muttualy connected by friends :P and im not the most confident guy in the world especially with ladies (shy and insecurities, that's another ... (387 words)

I broke off temporarily from my girlfriend because she won't let me see my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After a long time of her not being willing to spend time with my friends/family, I recentley suggested to my girlfriend we should take a break from eachother so she could decide if she's willing to change that. I felt quite lousy for suggesting it, as she couldn't really see a ... (324 words)

I think I made the wrong choice to go to New Zeland over wales. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. This isn't a relationship question but I'd like some other opinions because I'm getting way too wrapped up in my worries. I'm a geography student and this year I have the opportunity to go 'abroad' as part of my course. My choices are Wales or New Zealand. I put down New... (326 words)

Should I break up with him and start looking for a more mentally mature guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 10 months. But for the past month, I've been feeling really, really tired. We always go to the same places and discuss the same topics. Basically, we don't have any common interests - he's interested in...martial arts ... (297 words)

Do I continue to keep quiet or do I confess all so he doesn't ruin his life by committing to a horrible cheat??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years. We love each other and are buying a house together. The only problem is I cheated on him when we were younger and it is really playing on my mind and making me question whether I should walk away now before we ... (217 words)

My sister is treating me badly. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks! need really big help her so please do comment. in the last while me and my sister have not got along because she takes everything form me without asking and never any thanks. i do jobs and favours for her without anything in return. I wanted seperate rooms for ... (244 words)

B/f will not have sex if I initiate it. Is this a control issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of three years does not let me initiate sex. Our sex life used to be ok but in the past year he never will have sex with me if I initiate it. we still sometimes have sex but only if he is the one to start it. I have tried everything I can think of from sexy messages... (232 words)

Another guy likes my girlfriend, I love her and she loves me, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - soo Another guy likes my girlfriend, I love her and she loves me, what to do? the guy and my girl have a class together every single day, a dance/choir class where they dance with each other. then my girlfriend told me that one day he told her that he started getting feels for ... (109 words)

I want to stop feeling consumed by hatred for my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - how do I get past the hatered I feel for my ex now and is it even really hate? Basically we had been together for about two years and I really really loved her and she said she felt the same and to be fair to her she did alot for me. We ended up in a LDR where we could o... (251 words)

My best friend just broke my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend have known each other since we were little. I used to have a huge crush on him, but I got over it And we've been best friends ever since. We know each others secrets and I can tell him anything. But Christmas Day we hung out after all the family stuff and ... (269 words)

Should I tell him again that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really silly having to ask this kind of question, its not even really a question i just need advice. Also i apologise if its long. I'm 21 and met my guy friend 6 months ago, i've developed strong feelings for him. He's been brought up with traditional values, hes a ... (300 words)

How do I tell my locked up boyfriend that I am pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i really need some help..i'm pregnant, yes i kno 14 and pregnant..it's a huge deal please don't preach me about it..my family is just starting to accept the fact that i am and it's been 4 months since i've told them..but that's got nothing to do with what i need help wit... (141 words)

Can we get together or be FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - he came to our school and after a month we talked and kinda got together.. Its been three months and through that time he was so busy with two jobs and also said he has to get use to it because its gonna be that way when hes older.he told me he thinks we shouldn't see each ... (101 words)

Do guys hate skinny girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 22 years old and am very skinny i really wanna have a big ass and am losing my confidence and stoped getting out with guys tried eating alot but have no apetite please tell me u'r opinion do guys really hate skiny girls. Thanx in advance... (50 words)

He doesn't call me by my real name. Is he flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to think of this, but my name is Beth and this guy i know calls me " Bethy " . Do you think he likes me or do you think he's just being friendly ? It does seem like flirting but i dont know lol. ... (51 words)

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's female friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 2 years. Since the beginning i have always had trouble with his friends. I am not even talking about his male friends, but his female friends. Most of his friends have girlfriends, but none of these girls have ever made an effort to really be ... (175 words)

I made out with an older man and don't know what to think

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and there is this older guy who i sometimes talk to as a friend, he must be in his late 30s/early 40s. I do admit that i have had a crush on him in the past and he knows that. Yesterday I was talking to him and as I was about to go he kissed me on the cheek, as he ... (199 words)

Is it a good idea to live with a platonic female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 22 and recently moved back home after graduating from college until I got a job. Well, now that I'm finally working and receiving paychecks, I'm ready to be on my own again. I was recently talking with a great friend of mine and she is also looking for a place to l... (245 words)

My ex circulated racy photos of me on facebook and now he wants to be friends again?! I can't forgive him...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About the ex: I was 16 years old and he was 18 then. We met online and hit it off pretty well, though he was pretty cautious about our friendship at first. He doesn't trust people easily. Well, for some reason, he started asking me for relationship advice and soon, I ... (1109 words)

Would it bother you if she always said she was gonna call, and never kept her promise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I remember I got into a fight always over and over with this girl who I was supposedly close to. It was about this: she would be real sweet and say "I'll call you later" and she never did. It got me real mad because it happened over and over and it made me feel like her words ... (146 words)

Is it ok to marry this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me n brother have different fathers. And his father is married to my boyfriend mom. Is it ok to keep dating possibly marrying my boyfriend... (25 words)

Girlfriend can't explain why her phone was on and off. Suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I were engaged just before Christmas. Then she went to Florida for a a trip to see her friend, Alexandra, a woman. Last night she calls around 7 and says she'll be going out but will call later. I tell her I may go to sleep early. I decided to stay aw... (178 words)

Am I playing with fire and should just back off entirely and shut that door and keep looking even tho we are crazy compatible in some ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this girl online On ok Cupid ( im a lezzy) and after talking for quite a while we agreed to just be friends because she was still getting over her ex from a year ago and i didnt think we would be as compatible. We have met up three times since and hung out for hours ... (424 words)

Should I see this other man? I don't want to hurt my FWB!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone a bit of a complicated question here I am in a fwb sort of thing with a man I would like more with but he doesn't feel the same way being going on for 9 months now just recently I met one of my 5 brothers friends who keeps flirting with me I have found myself ... (99 words)

Why has he suddenly come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and this guy used to talk. We went out for coffee once and it was okay. After a couple of days we stopped speaking all together. Well I stopped speaking to him because it was just me instigating the whole conversations and I gave up at that point. This was in August. Now ... (188 words)

Is this a good idea or too soon to make a move for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to my friend who I met at college last year we have never been best friends but recently I have helped her through a break up with her boyfriend and now a month later she is back to her normal self. She says she's over him and she looks like she is we h... (146 words)

Is it too late to indicate that I am interested in her as more than a friend and could she suspect that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been getting along with a woman on a friendly basis that is an acquaintence who seems to have some attraction towards me (as I do towards her) but it turns out she thought that i was married. I am not sure why she thought that as I have never mentioned my marital status ... (236 words)

I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl but I want to give him another chance. Any advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance if it's long and thank you for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. We're very serious and talk about marriage. Back in October we took a break because of the way I was treating him. I treated him horribly when he was nothing but nice to me. We ... (204 words)

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt before. It became so deep that I c... (438 words)

Sex before a relationship? Yes or No?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - whats everyones thoughts on having sex before relationship? yes or ney? is it lust or love? does a girl who wants sex before relationship love that person? inputs?... (28 words)

How do I make this work? He claims to hate women!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 22 and currently dating a guy who is about to turn 29. I have know him for two years and he has been trying to get me to go out with him, but i had a boyfriend and when i became single, questioned going out with him because he seemed too serious and i am very outgoing ... (442 words)

It's been 2 years and I still miss my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been split with my ex wife for almost two years now. We were together for a long time (decades) and have a child together so we talk/see each other often. I did not want the divorce, but I have tried to move on. I stil think about her and the good years almost every ... (205 words)

He wants a BJ but I backed out of giving him one

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hey ok i promised my Boyfriend I'd give him a BJ for the first time but when I got to his house and he *whiped it out* i paniced and said "i don't want us to get caught" he said i broke his promise now he is consently saying "u gonna back out of another promise again?" What ... (61 words)

Trailer Park Woes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant and me and my boyfriend were planning on moving in together. I decided to stay home because my mom will be helping with baby-sitting and it would be easier to live at home. My boyfriend was going to move into these really nice apartments that were also really... (331 words)

5 years and he left me for someone else. I'm so lost in my emotions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all and thanks in advance for your feedback. This past September 25th i was told by my ex that he was leaving me for another female that he met at work and had just knew for a few weeks. Him and i were together over 5yrs. He told me the day before him and i were suppo... (445 words)

B/f wants to have video sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to have video sex but i'm nervous and don't know what all to do in video sex Can anyone describe the feeling of having video sex??? and What all can a girl do in video sex to please her man???? ... (55 words)

Girlfriend uninterested? Busy? Done with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girl for about 7 months. We worked together when we met and had so much fun. After I left she started to text me and invite me over to her place and to do things I did the same all worked well. We didn't have sex for about two months. I thought there was ... (474 words)

Very unpredictable period

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello- my questions is not a relationship question.. This question is for the women on here.. I get my period every 4 to 5 months..and when I do get it its really heavy.. And I never know when I'm going to get it again. Does anyone know why this happens? ... (51 words)

Was it right for my boyfriend to hide the fact that my friend was texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend were at my friends house. we were all hanging out and than all of a sudden when he got a text message he pulled me close and started making out with me. i pushed him away and laughed it off. my friends thought it was cute but i know my boyfriend and he ... (292 words)

I'm the bread winner in the relationship, couldn't my b/f at least be good at sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in high school, my boyfriend was the quintessential nerdy fat kid whereas I was the shy punk chick. Now a days, he is still a bigger fellow compared to my still smaller physique. He's 6'1" and 250 lbs whereas I'm 5'3" and 115 lbs. But he is the SWEETEST guy I've ever been ... (601 words)

I'm starting to believe that the S.O. could never be anyone's best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This isn't much of a question, but a remark on relationships. As time passes, with the accumulation of personal and anecdotal experiences of my good friends, there is a social expectation that has become more and more untrue. You often hear people say "my wife/gf is my be... (642 words)

My wife has decided all sense of affection between us is over as well as our sex life

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has decided all sense of affection between us is over as well as our sex life. 8 years ago, after the birth of our 3rd child, she convinced me to have a vasectomy so we would not have any more children. Immediately afterwards, my wife's interest in sex evaporated. I ... (394 words)

Please tell me if I should stay with my boyfriend or not. Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused whether to continue my 4.5 year relationship with my boyfriend. Here is our past info: we met at 17, had a crazy teenage passionate love, over the years we grew more different but only hung on to eachother because of what we had when we were 17/18. ... (435 words)

I don't know how to tell my cousin that I still have feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When i was a kid. My cousin and i would do things like kiss each other and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. This stopped 7 or 8 years ago and we havent spoke of it since. I still have feelings for her, and i still dont know how to tell her.(i wrote a question asking ... (145 words)

Should I wait for this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be kind of long, just a warning. I work with this guy and we've been decent friends for over a year. His ex girlfriend who is also the mother of his kids works at the same place as us but on a different shift. He would always talk to me about their relationship ... (253 words)

Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to say he misses chatting with you ? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused about this guy. He told me that he wants to be friends with benefits, but he also said that he is happy being just friends ( without the benefits ) if that's what i want, and he said he didn't mind either way which one i wanted, as he has missed having a chat with ... (171 words)

What is it about men and blondes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is a question for the men really but women feel free to answer to I was just wondering what is it men love about blonde hair on a woman why do men love it so much every man I know if I ask them what there favourite hair colour on a woman is they always say ... (65 words)

Why can't she accept that I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend who is a female as i am admitted that she liked me well i never liked her like that and we stopped talkin well, she contacted me after a year of anger and biterness and not speaking she wanted to date me and i decline well she calls and says hey lets catch up and i ... (362 words)

Has this happened to you before? (Wrong number texts)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So today, I got a text message from a number I didn't recognize. Now, I dont memorize numbers anymore, so I asked who this was and explained all my contacts had been deleted upon switching cell phones. They responded hurt that I would forget their number "baby". This was... (166 words)

Was the whole explosion of feelings just a mind game?...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me. But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated). And I told him that I have cared about him for awhile now a... (101 words)