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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Nice? Or interested? I can't tell!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy 6 months ago we hit it off really well. He hugged me first day we met we hang out together he talked with me more than his friends. I catch him starring and he hugged me again this time held me closer his hands around my waist. Now we are living different states... (124 words)

How do I set people up with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so have 2 friends that have asked me to set them up, cause there the only single ppl left in there friend circal. They go to different schools and I think they would be good together! How do I set them up? ... (43 words)

Does anyone have any input as to what I could get engraved on the cover of the photo album that I would like to gift my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum always goes on about how when she's old she'll look back and other than us kids, she'll have nothing to show for her life. But really she has a hell of a lot! So for christmas I thought I would get her a photo album and then fill it with photos of all of us (my brothers ... (203 words)

How do I get up enough courage to ask this girl out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - How do i get up the courage to ask out a girl Ive never spoken to in real life? Ask her online and just ask her out so we can talk face to face :S please help :/... (39 words)

How do I help my wife find her next husband?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have decided my wife deserves a new husband. I cannot give what she feels will make her happy. She and I have discussed this subject at length and I am simply not the man for the "job". She does not know I have reached this conclusion but I believe she is or, at the least, ... (144 words)

So I was wondering, when do I say "I love you" to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so I was wondering, when do you say I love you? Me and my bf have been together for almost 5 months. I know it's not like super long but it's like since day 1 we have spent everysingle day together, like literally everyday all day. I practically live at his house. I feel like I ... (193 words)

His ex is pregnant but he's still planning to go on with our wedding plans!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I having been dating this guy for 3monts and we are planning to get married early next year. Everything has been going well until myboyfriend's ex come saying she is 3months pregnant and if my boyfriend doesnt want to marry her then she can have an abortion but my boyfriend is ... (105 words)

Should I have stayed with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and a guy were seeing each other for a few months and we proposed going slow. I found out just recently that he has 2 children. I found this out from a close friend of his, he didn't tell me. He is a heavy drinker, drinks every night and sometimes in the day. He h... (446 words)

Is he insensitive or am I too sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance says I'm sensitive, but I think he's just mean. I won't get into a whole lot of background. We've been together for 7.5 years now and I just get upset with him too much I feel. He just does things that get under my skin and it really sucks because I'm working on a ... (247 words)

I would like some information on 'the Pill' from women who use it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, of whom we are totally faithful of each other. I have had the coil for a long time, but it isn't for me because I don't trust it without condoms, whereas we don't want to use condoms any-more, so I am thinking of changing... (95 words)

We're unofficially dating and he's flirting with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm dating this guy nothing is official yet but I recently found out he has been talking to another girl using the same pick up lines on her as he used on me and been flirty and offering to meet up. Am I making a big deal of this ? Also should I confront him about it or just ... (71 words)

Should I proceed with the wedding after having been lied to and cheated on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In 10months time i will be getting married to my 3years boyfriend. Our first year of relationship didnt started out well (it'll be too long for me to tell the reason as theres loads of it) and maybe probably because of his work as well as it requires him to go just about ... (675 words)

Which woman should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently had a response from match.com. And shes been interested in me for 2 weeks before we started talking. This is before i got back together with my girlfriend of 5 months. Before her mom was diagnosed with cancer. She has no kids and never been married. it seems ... (195 words)

We separated due to his telling another woman he was only sticking around till he could afford a divorce, now when we were trying to reconcile he's messaging women again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 5 months. This is going to be a long story everyone I am apologizing now. I guess to start we both changed after we got married. We moved into a camper trailer right after we got married. It is located on his grandparents property so I ... (505 words)

I think she's cute and our friendship isn't the best, so how do I ask her out on a friend-type date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl last year at college we are only friends. i had a crush on her around this time last year. were not talk all the time go out all the time friends in fact i've only seen her outside college twice at two of her parties. we talk every few days on facebook... (226 words)

Should I wait until he texts me first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I always texts my boyfriend first. I love him alot but I some how feel like i'm the one who misses him. He dosen't really text me first. Should I just wait till he textes me first. ... (38 words)

I ran away, now I'm pregnant and don't know how to tell my Mom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help please! my mom and i got in a huge fight about a year and a half ago about her and her boyfriend getting married i couldn't and i still can't stand him..time being she hated my boyfriend to, he probably wasn't and probably still isn't the best person for me to be ... (237 words)

Can I believe my boyfriend when he says he is not gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf looked at transvestites online in the past.I asked him openly if he was bi and he said no.I said that i don't care what he did before me, and that if he tried something i would understand him 100%.That we all have the right to have fantasies, ciriosities or whatever it ... (444 words)

Should I risk losing face by telling him how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I briefly dated over the summer. We fell really hard for each other and he told me he loved me very quickly. He had to move out of the state after a few weeks but told me he still wanted a relationship because he loved me. At first, the long distance thing worked ... (258 words)

Someone help me figure this boy out, my brain hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ongoing dumb boyfriend issue. Hi, my ex has been my ex for about a year now. And for that year he's been with another girl. But during that year he would call and tell me that he loved me, or that he missed me, he did it 3 times while he was with her. When i confront him abou... (340 words)

I'm tired of not being guys' number 1 choice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I'm always second best to my friends or sister, and I'm so tired of that! Well during high school the story of my life was that boys always liked my friends instead of me. Then by the end of high school I met the guy who was my first and only boyfriend. He asked me out and we ... (616 words)

How do I politely ask him to go to the bar instead of the cinema?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy wants to go on a date to the cinema tomorrow but i dont want to go as it would be a very dark,intimate place and i'm worried that he'll try to make a move on me. I dont feel ready for that yet. We have only met a couple of times so far and that was in a bar. How can i ... (109 words)

How to show her I'm not cheating? She won't listen to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with my girlfriend I am in a desperate situation and I know many of you will just say to break up with her but I'm not looking for that I am looking for advice on how to fix our relationship Recently while I was on the phone with her she thought she over heard m... (472 words)

I am due to fly out to see my bf but he has just dumped me! I am distraught!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok so its less than a week before Xmas. I am due to fly out to be with my boyfriend tomorrow (6 year relationship) and he has just told me, out the blue, that he doesn't feel the same way about me any more... and he told me by email. I am totally distraught. I don't know ... (183 words)

I feel distant towards my boyfriend! Its getting worse, Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Lately, as in the last year I have felt distant from him, and it gets worse everyday. When I try to sit down and talk to him he either gets mad and says he hears it all the time or he'll laugh and say he's tired and doesn't feel like ... (361 words)

My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions that I need answered. First, ... (436 words)

My Gf has asked me for £50, I said No, was I wrong?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, been with my gf for 3 years she has never worked (she is 19) and neither has her mum I have worked since I left school. I spend quite alot on her having to buy food lending her bus money etc etc sometimes it annoys me sometimes it doesn't. She has now just asked me for ... (191 words)

I have a gut feeling my girlfriend cheated on me last night, and possibly has been for a while. Am I just jealous or am I right to think so?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. Last night she invited her old friend who used to be her drug dealer over to my home to watch a football game. Basically the three of us were just drinking and having a good time down in the basement. She smokes weed ... (579 words)

Confused about what happened with my ex and wondering what it means about us....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My ex-girlfriend and I dated for nearly 18 months. After this time however, we found that we were fighting a lot (probably too much) and she had trouble opening up to me (telling me anything important actually). We ended up breaking up. She said that she needed her space. After ... (203 words)

My ex has a new guy....is he just a rebound? Should I wait for her, or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So its been about 6 months that me and my ex broke up from our 3 and half year relationship. We started talking and hanging out about 2 months ago.. I found out she started going out with this guy about a month or 2 after our break, what hurts is I don't know if this guy is a ... (316 words)

Does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this boy that I really like, but I'm receiving mixed signals from him, I'd appreciate your opinion on if it seems like he likes me too! I have been friends with this guy for a few years, we have always been reasonably close (because of a mutual activity we attend) ... (482 words)

If things don't work out with his girlfriend would I have a chance? Is it wrong to remain friends with him when I like him so much?

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20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everybody, im a 16 years old girl..and ive developed feelings for this guy who is 21 years old, with me in volunteer working..ive always had something for him but always neglected it, because this would be just stupid..but my feeling are getting stronger, i know stuff about ... (293 words)

My birthday call from my ex. What's his reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well... yeah it's my birthday today. Hmmm won't mention my age coz I feel so old... :/ Anyway, about quarter to midnight my ex just called me. Just so everyone knows, me and my ex are good friends and we try to stay in contact even after we broke up. Before he called... (265 words)

What were his intentions? And why did my friend betray me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm 18. My best friends boyfriend is mutual friends with a 26 year old. Apparently he saw a picture of me from my friend and he thought I was attractive so wanted to get to know me. He began by adding me on Facebook and we arranged to meet up for a drink, mys... (1322 words)

I don't know how much longer I can continue before I give up on this relationship....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for 3 years. Our first year was great but since then things have seemed to turn bad. He has problems with his finances and ex and maintenance, he had to move away to another job to be able toe earn enough, we have been living apart for a ye... (157 words)

I read my wife's journal and now I am tormented by it

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 6. I was a virgin when we met. She told me she had been with three men. Considering her great beauty and how many men were after her I didn't think that was so bad, especially because she is three years older than I am. ... (1261 words)

How do I put this behind me? Is there a reason why this still bothers me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age - ive been with my husband 21 yrs... He has said some inproper things too other woman.(example) a ex friend(female) ask my husband too loan her 20 bucks,my husband says "dont tell dawn(me) i dont want her to accuse me of flirting with you" etc. My husband told me 2 days later! I ... (168 words)

I want to get back with my ex, how do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I am 21 and my now ex boyfriend is 24. He has graduated and I have another 6 months. My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me over the weekend. It wasn't too much of a shock, as it was something I had considered myself. His reasoning was that he couldn't ... (291 words)

He is off work for the holidays and starts drinking at 11am! Should I accept this or confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been living together for 6 months. He is on holiday at the moment but I am still working. He starts drinking at 11 am since on holiday, keeps going till 9 pm. When he's working he will only have a glass or 2 of wine in the evening. He has now run out of ... (138 words)

What does this dream mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok last night I dreamt a girl I used to like was acting like she liked me. By this I mean she kissed me on the cheek and she was really flirty we've never spoken but we both know who each other are. Could anyone tell me what this means or could mean? I just haven't been ... (72 words)

Revenge cheating...will it help ?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i found out that my wife slept with someone while we were engaged a few weeks after we got married. It has been 5months since then and i have not been able to forget or fully forgive . Im heart broken . Ive become very cold and mean to her, ive become so insecure that i ... (231 words)

How do I spot a player? I think I may be dating one. Please Help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for the players and former players out there: Why did you do it? And would you tell a girl that you wanted something serious to continue to string her along? And what about when you were caught? Did you fess up and walk away ? Or deny and try to keep a good thin... (105 words)

Am I in the wrong for being mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - To start off, one night my two good friends and I were hanging out. I have a really good friend who i haven't seen in a while that came over and she brought her friend, we'll call him Wes. We all started hanging out every weekend for a long time and it was crazy and fun. B... (332 words)

Is this the way that guys joke around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of two years often talks about how cute his coworkers are and how could he like to spend time with them. Whenver i call, he says if he knows that i am gonna call then he would hv switched off his mobile. If i ask why he is doing this, he says stop being a baby and... (96 words)

B/f has hot body I want him to go shirtless!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a hot body and he rarely takes his shirt off. I want him to go shirtless more often. How do I get him to go shirtless more often?... (31 words)

If this man likes me why won't he pursue me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If this man likes me, why won't he persue me ?. I am 27, and he is 60. Now, i know that is a huge age gap, but he seems like a really nice man, and i do like him. He has said that he would go after me if he was my age, and ke kept asking if this guy i was out with once recently ... (172 words)

Finding that special someone at 17 but I can't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey what's up you awesome guys, and ladies. I hope you people are having a good break from the holidays. Anyway, let's get into the topic. PLEASE NOTE: ONLY Matured People / Experience People answer this. Boy Or Girl. Also, I'm 17, my birthday was like 2 weeks ago :P Alri... (304 words)

Why can't I get wet with my new boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to start by saying that I've never had issues getting wet with my previous boyfriends and I also have no problem getting wet when I occasionally watch porn and masturbate. But for some reason, with my current bf, I can't get wet and we've had to use lube everytime ... (185 words)

Would my husband's behavior indicate guilt? or that he's just tired of the same conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had been joining internet dating sites and chatting with other women and cheating on me behind my back for years before I discovered it and when I did he abused me and called me names and wouldnt tell me anything about what he had been doing unless we went to ... (316 words)

Ladies--If you have sex without orgasm, does it satisfy you anyways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) age 41-50 - This question is for the women: If you're in the mood, and you have sex but don't have an orgasm, does it satisfy the urge anyway? In other words, if you're in the mood and you have sex, are you more likely to want to have sex again soon if the sex was good and you had one or ... (180 words)