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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell my parents about my boyfriend without sounding like a typical love sick teenager?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I'm turning 17 next month. I have a wonderful boyfriend who isn't one of those immature guys that go out with a girl just to satisfy himself or whatever. He's my long time best friend, we're both juniors in high school, and we really want this to work out, even after ... (247 words)

Awesome boyfriend but I wish there was more chemistry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really great boyfriend. He is supportive, totally into me, very intelligent, comes from a great family, is loving, responsible, good looking, and the list goes on and on. When I have all of these qualities about him on my mind, I can’t help but think of what a great ... (471 words)

Just broke up. Still have feelings for him. But now I'm crushing for another. Am I heading for heartbreak again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week my boyfriend and I broke up. It was sad.. Anyway I still have feelings for him :( And I think about him ALL the time.. So I'm not over him. And now I'm crushing on my best friend's older brother!!! I am freaking out, because I think he likes me too, but he's olde... (92 words)

I'm falling for my best friend's older brother. Should I wait, or make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi okay I'm having an issue. My best friends older brother is 2-3 years older than us, but I'm falling for him and have secretley liked him since i met him about 3 years ago. He always talks to me and talks about how hilarious I am and stuff. I liked him on and off. It never... (150 words)

I'm 17, pregnant and engaged...and all of a sudden my boyfriend's behavior has changed towards me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so...the details aren't important, but to narrow things down I have been with the love of my life and my fiance for a while now. Today I am 17 weeks and a day pregnant with our first child. He has told me many times that he wants this baby and that he's happy we're having ... (376 words)

Any stories of casual sex turning into something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone have any stories of casual things turning into something more? I've been seeing this guy casually and it's been great. Neither of us want relationships at the moment so we're both very happy with the way things are. Thing is, we talk every day, sometimes a two or t... (173 words)

Is this a relationship red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a red flag if a guy only seems interested in you when he is own his own i.e. when his guy friends arent there?... (26 words)

Is this guilt stopping me from having an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with orgasming. Before I started having sex, I used to be able to climax quite easily during masturbation and I thought I'd be able to do so during sex, but I just can't! I've been seeing a guy pretty casually for the last month and he's really nice and good in ... (210 words)

We've been friends with benefits for almost 5 years. How do I take this further?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok! Here it goes!!! I have known this guy for almost 5 years. We met at my old apartments and I guess you can say it was always a friends with benifits. For a few years I would try and get a relationship to only fail and it would end up in a fight and we wouldnt speak for ... (338 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like to hang out with my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I think this is a question that gets asked again and again, but I'll go for it anyway. I am in a very happy 4-month-old relationship, and we get along great and share lots of interests and a sense of humor etc etc. I hang out and go out with his friends a lot; they are mostly ... (214 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to get married and I thought I was fine with it, but seeing others around me get engaged or married, I want it too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend and I am have together for 3.5 yrs, when we first met he has always said he never wants to get married, he has seen almost every marriage in his life fail and it's not something he feels needs to be done. I was honestly fine with this, I ended up getting ... (467 words)

Is it possible for someone to move on so quickly without any thoughts about the previous long term relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend split up from her partner of 18 years. Within a few she was dating someone else. I strongly suspect she was cheating and left her partner for the new guy. It been less then three years and she has married the guy she was cheating with. Is it possible for someone to ... (76 words)

Ladies, what is the best way to ask you out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, A general question! If a guy wants to ask you out. When should this be done so the guy has more of a chance not to catch you at a bad time? How should this be done so it doesn't creep you/embarase you etc. What do you look for when a guy asks you out? What makes you ... (107 words)

I love him, but I feel like he had to learn how to love me in return.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) Im 20 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When we started going out we were both quite young for our ages and very niave. When I started going out with him he would always go on about his 'best friend' (who was a girl) an they'd known eachother for 10 y... (440 words)

I feel trapped within my marriage..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - when we were living together , he acted generous, he paid whenever we went out to eat, but now that we're married and have a baby, he's been bickering with me that I should be the one working while he stays at home and watch the baby; he said women have to step up now this is ... (256 words)

I don't want to see the two people that I love more than anything in this world fall apart like this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a difficult spot right now, and I don't know where to turn. My parents have been my everything my entire life. They've been my inspiration, my best friends, my counselors, my teachers, my source for strength and comfort, my providers... Everything. T... (1263 words)

Is it right to ignore him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I hope you can help with my problem. Three years ago I told this guy I had feelings for him and he was in a relationship. He told me he's always liked me. Anyway we left things on bad terms and I got hurt. He got in touch with me two years ago but I ignored him. I fou... (209 words)

Do we have different ideas about gift giving or is he just cheap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,im confused any suggestion will be appreciated.im in relationshi for ayear, we serious talking marriage now, bt sometimes i wonder whom im dealing with,.my b/f acts stngy.i buy him gifts on every occasion, cooks him meals,and treats him well because i like doing it for him, ... (249 words)

Can anyone give me some insight as to what happened with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated for 3.5 years. She went out with work and met someone. She started to treat me like garbage the next 3 weeks and then finally broke up with me. This was confirmed that it was the first time they had met. She stayed in contact with me for the next two months ... (204 words)

Should I go through his phone? Or is he even worth another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and it's been a little rocky. The first year or so, although he never cheated on me, he was always texting and calling women he had been with in the past and it always caused problems. He didn't see the wrong but knew it made me ... (393 words)

It seems like she's having sex only because she wants to get pregnant

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9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello , i am married and its now fourth year started . Yes i do masturbate a lot but if i fix to have a sex with my wife i dont masturbate for 3-4 days so that i ejaculate a lot in her inside, but still she is not getting pregnant. i am afraid now. i masturabate during her ... (180 words)

How can I be less jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've tried explaining to my boyfriend that there's just one girl he used to be with that i get really jelous over, and when it has to do with her i get jelous if he is even texting her. I don't wanna source.d over controling so i don't. Wanna talk to him about it. But what can ... (68 words)

I adore my man! But, will his having kids and a rather controlling ex threaten the relationship in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Hope you can give me some advice. I am in a real predicament. I have met a wonderful man. We have been together 5 months and we have such a wonderful relationship. He is kind, caring, respectful and the bond we have is truly amazing. I love him so much and ... (369 words)

What does an orgasm feel like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What does an orgasim feel like? My legs will shake and I'll feel like I'm about to pee but I'm not sure if that's what it is.... (27 words)

What is more appropriate/acceptable? Spending holidays with your family or your significant other?

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9 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I would love some inputs! What is more appropriate/acceptable, spending the holidays (Thanksgiving, Xmas, New Year) with your significant other or your family?? I'm a little torn. I want to spend this time of the year with my family but ALSO with my boyfriend. We cant merge our ... (116 words)

How do I get the confidence to be on top during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope my question goes up I really need help on this one. My boyfriend and I have started having sex and he is my FIRST! He's had a lot more experience and he's very pateint. The thing is I,m afraid to be on top because of my weight and also because i,ve never done it before ... (93 words)

My wife is stricken with grief and she pushes me away! I just want to help her through her grief and loss...Please help?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello people of the web. my wife lost her brother and dad last year and ever scenes she has been finding any reason to fight with me and she is being very hatefull towards me i was just wondreing if there is any thing i can do to help her i want my wife back we have only been ... (133 words)

He says he'll wait but does he really just want sex and then he'll dump me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone,im 17 and my bf is 22 we have been dating for six months now i really love him,we have talked about sex and i told him i wasn't ready,i believe in no sex before marriage and he said he will wait but everytime we are together he asks for sex.lm nt a virgin i was ... (86 words)

After 1 year we still haven't spoken of our feelings for each other

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9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well he really entices me and i love him so much, but its been one year and i haven't confessed to him and neither have he.I am afraid of being rejected, for many reasons, first ...we are from different countries, second, different religion and thrid, he is 12 years older than ... (126 words)

Late period (and very important date very soon)! Any ways to bring it on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always had really regular periods, and if they haven't come exactly on time, they've been a day or two early. Never late though. And yet, this month it's taking a while to arrive - I'm about three days past my expected date. I wouldn't worry about it ordinarily, but (as ... (118 words)

My son's father makes much more money than me so why is he always asking me for money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok My son,s father has a grown daughter, 23 hrs old, whom lives with him on/off (when she is not at her boyfriends) and now I find out that he has been paying her car note which is almost 400 dollars a month. Her and I have never gotten along as I always thought of her was ... (409 words)

Should I be concerned by the lack of sex/intimacy in our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 34 and my girlfriend is 31. We have been seeing each other for about 10 months and i've been living at her place for 4. We are both very serious about the relationship and talk about a future together, house/kids the only trouble is i find that our relationship severely ... (267 words)

I'm not in control when in a relationship, how can I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you cope in a relationship when you are really wanting something but your partner isn't ready? LIke you are at a stage of your life/relationship ready to move on but your partner isn't quite ready and you need to wait? I think i've always been in control of my ... (229 words)

He asked what turned me on, and is now avoiding sexual intercourse because of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Got a really strange question for you. My boyfriend has asked me over time what turns me on. He knows some things but recently he asked again and I finally told him one thing. Now he seems to be avoiding sex with me. I told him that I dont want a baby but the thought of m... (160 words)

I don't quite understand what's with this guy. Is he not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at work and initially he seemed really into me. We hung out after work one night and had a great time. He got my number, then text me saying we should hang out again soon and he called me gorgeous etc. 2 weeks passed and he didnt text me. I then saw him at work ... (240 words)

Do you think that, finally, he does find me attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, recently in my choir class I've been always seeing this one guy looking at me at times and when I do look at him he smiles at me. You know, I love that feeling of when a really cute guy looks at you and or smiles. I get that feeling everyday! But this is new. I just started ... (348 words)

Where is the trust?

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9 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. He lives about a half an hour away from me, and I have to use my mother's car so we end up seeing each other a few times a week. A couple nights before we made it official, I got drunk with a friend at a bar, and I ended... (439 words)

Monogamy: How do I get there with the guy I've been with for 2 months.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 2 months now and I want to know when is it appropriate to ask if he wants to be exclusive at some point. Or at 34 years old - is it just assumed at some point? We are now spending two days/nights a week together. It started off really slow; he ... (289 words)

I am unable to bear the pair of my co-worker's marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married but in love with colleague in office who now got married as per her parents wishes. I am not able to bear the pain of her marriage and its hurting a lot and unable to concentrate on work and my family. We continue to see and work with each other daily. I wou... (97 words)

I think he's stubborn and want to know if its a game or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea how to explain my problem. But here it goes: X has recently become my boyfriend. he's a very nice guy and he's hilarious. he's 20 years old and around the age 15 he used to flirt with alot of girls and basically kissed half the population of america!he's had sex ... (338 words)

What is the best way to get back your husband's sexual attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What is the best way to get back your husband's sexual attention? I feel my husband does not look at me with desire. And never really care to have sex with me. I'm not sure what is going on, but I would like to make some changes from my side, and see what happens. So what is ... (85 words)

What does he mean, 'not at this time'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - anyhow...We had a fight. I asked him if he even wants to know me in this life anymore? He said he's trying to get his private personal and business life in order so NOt at this time??? What the heck is that to mean? "not at this time?" Then the next time I saw hime after my ... (97 words)

Best friend and I like the same girl. She likes me. Do I ask her out and betray my friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I really like this girl and she told me she liked me but the problem is that my best friend likes this girl too and everyone knows that he does. Everyone also knows that this girl likes me but almost noone knows I like her. So here's the situation My best friend likes a g... (121 words)

Why is he looking at me after he ended the heat to a simmer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - HELLO; So after two years of heart ache and having to work with this guy I decided to end it within myself in even knowing him .He's always so bac and forth, talks to me, then is mean, I just can't take it anymore. He knows I care for him cuz that's how the feelings started, hw ... (203 words)

My gf cheated on me. Should I spoil things with her new guy or just let her go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

9 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - ok i'm in a dilema should I be a total git and ruin things for her or should I let it go tell her I dont want to hear from her again and explain how much she's hurt me. my gf and i split about a week ago. The relationship had been hard for about a year due to distance betw... (327 words)

He wants to marry me, but its always next year!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello , I was wondering if ou all could give your thoughts on m strange relationship? would appreciate. I have been with my 7 year older man for 5 years, had a realy swept off feet beginning (he proposed ealy with amazing ring) this was followed by year of living together... (328 words)