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writes:Thank you so much for reading/helping me, to start off!In 9th grade, I transfered to a new schol, and I made a bunch of friends. Over the past few years (I'm now in 11th grade), these friends have started to not talk to me, barely talk to me, or be straight out rude to me. At this point, the people who were my closest friends at this point last year barely talk to me at all, and I have no idea why. I haven't been mean to anyone, and I've been an amazing friend, always supportive, etc. I've never felt this sad and lonely before in my life. The people who used to invite me to parties and who I used to hang out with no longer talk to me. It's hard, because I feel extremely anti-social, and when I make an effort to talk to my old friends, I find i have nothing interesting to talk about, or they don't want to talk to me.What should I do? I tried confronting one of my friends about it, but she denied it - she's one of those people who denies anything like that to avoid confrontation. I don't feel close enough to approach my other old friends anymore because we rarely talk. I make the effort to talk to them but I feel they are just being mean to me to be mean.. Any advice will be very much appreciated!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): Well that is very sad and low of people to be so mean!!
I think you need to confront them and ask them waht thier problems are. Make new friends with other people who maybe will treat you better and have some humanity in them!!
Hope You solve this problem :)!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 If they are being mean to you, then pull them up there and then and ask them what it is that you have done wrong on them, there must be something wrong when they are all acting like this, and only you can get to the bottom of it. Talk to them, ask them would they like to hang out with you, see how they respond.
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