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Archived questions from: 24 December, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does race really matter to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hi guys. I hope you all are enjoying your holiday vacations and I hope you all have a merry christmas Um, I suppose I'm having some trouble coping with the things that are being revealed to me as I grow up. So, I guess you could say that I have a massive issue with prejudice p... (447 words)

Why do guys say what they think you want to hear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why do lads whether its your best friend or your boyfriend, always tell you what they think you want to hear, like the phrase "i love you" "ive missed you". Me and my best friend have not spoken for the past five/six month. i work in a bar and he came in, cuddles, used the age ... (145 words)

How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i do. ... (50 words)

What do I do about baby daddy drama!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend/babies daddy ( of twins) and I are separating because he makes comments of me cheating when all I do is work come home take care of the family plus his other kids.I want to make things work out if we can but he wants nothing to do with me cus I crushed his man ... (325 words)

I cant understand why this man chose to comment on my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I was at the book store and I ran into a man who's in my class. We've only exchanged pleasantries, nothing more. Yet he seemed it he was very rude to me, making a very inappropriate comment about me. We had been talking and he said he had assumed I already had kids... (157 words)

I'm really at a loss right now! If I'm too possessive, it angers my Bf. If I tone it down, he thinks I'm treating him like a stranger!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles. I've been with my bf for about 7 months now but for the last 3 months or so things haven't been going well for us. We often argue over trivial stuff but we make up fast too. He also thinks I'm too possessive. I admit I was and I've tried my best to be ... (207 words)

I'm terrified that he's lost interest in me again. Is that possible? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. So I need some help. There's this boy I like... We're pretty good friends. But... He's sending me some serious mixed signals. Here's how it all started: (sorry if it's lengthy, but it all has a point.) Well, he and I met at the end of the summer, we had o... (480 words)

How do I get through possibly the worst Christmas ever? Just broke up and he will not return my calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start..i just spent the last two months with the most wonderful boy. We broke up on thursday. When i first met him he had a girlfriend but split with her. They have a child together. I knew he was very down the last week and i was gettin worried dthat at h... (246 words)

How do I get over the depression that sleeping with my ex has caused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know how I can get over my ex and get out of the depression that he has put me in. We dated for over five years and broke up for good a year ago. We've slept once since then, and then again last night. He has really messed a lot of things up for me for various ... (285 words)

He's on a 'am I hot or not' site and it's really hurt me..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have asked and been given some really good advice from this site before so I am hoping again you can help me. I have been with my partner over 2 years, this year we have had a bit of a rough patch, but things have been great recently,or so I thought. Today I saw him on his ... (180 words)

I'm terrified that I'm going to like him too much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need a little advice about this guy I just met. It's important to know that I have just been broken up with by the guy I deeply loved (first love) and we had been together for four years (since being 17) and he decided to end it six weeks ago. Through work I've met a ... (487 words)

Ladies: did you gain weight using the contraceptive pill? what contraception method results in no weight gain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya :) i've got a question about contraception and I was hoping you could help me out! Basically i'm 19, and since starting uni I went on the pill. I was on it once before, but stopped taking it after I broke up with my long term boyfriend, for obvious reasons! My mum is tota... (333 words)

What to do? I’m so confused, what is happening between my closest friend and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

24 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I met her almost 3 years ago online, and we became best and closest friends. She is with her boyfriend of 5 years. For the first 2 years we were just friends but she would always complain to me about her boyfriend and asked to if it was ok to move in with me (jokingly, I ... (609 words)

Guys: if you like a girl, do you respond to her emails the same day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I've met some guy recently in French classes, and we get along well (I think). He's asked me for a drink two times after classes and he also said we could go to the movies together sometime. I sent him an email about 3 days ago asking if he would like to go next friday. ... (135 words)

Is it normal for puberty to be slow to start? How long before before changes will occur to make me look more like a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't think my penis looks right. It looks the same size and shape (like a shrimp and its embarasing) as it did when I was 9. It hasn't taken any teenage penis shape or size yet. What does this mean? Is it unusual?... (44 words)

I lied to my Bf, who I love, about WHO I was meeting. How do I resolve my guilt at not telling my Bf it was my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him vey much and couldn't ask for anyone better. However, I deceived him the other day, and I really don't know what to do about it. I told my boyfriend I was going to meet up with my friend in town, ... (626 words)

Afraid to start a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old. My close friend he likes me for about 3 years now. For that 3 years i rejected him. Suddenly i think back and he is actually really sweet so i though i might give him a chance. Well, basically i had never been in any relationship before as those who like me ... (140 words)

What did he mean by this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy said this to me: "I get worried when we both start flirting because I don't know if were both still joking or being serious". I'm not really sure what he meant. What did he mean by this??... (47 words)

Does she work too hard, or is she just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my gf for nearly a year now and from the start I've wondered if she's really into me. Now I know a lot of this is maybe down to my insecurities but hear me out. She is a manager of 20 + people in her day to day and has a lot of responsibility and ... (242 words)

Should I confront her about the pregnancy? Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I been with my bf/baby daddy (father of twins) for 7 years ! He cheated on me with cousin and she claiming she pregnant with my bf baby but she slept with 3 other guys too. But they're denying the baby. But I dont believe she really pregnant because me and my bf ask fo... (160 words)

Tips for time management?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Lets get all the issues out there. I have a huge problem with time management and my lovely wife has decided the way to try and punish me is to be passive agressive. I want to fix the lateness issue. Example tonight was xmas eve. She got dressed up in sexy lingerie. I took... (115 words)

How do I forget about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so how do i forget about this girl? shes four years younger than me but i cant help my fealings. she even said if i was younger shed of asked me out. and she wants to meet me (as friends) her words were 'dont suppose we could meet up somtime?' this was after she pourd her heart ... (383 words)

Why does she want to get in touch with me after calling it off? Does she regret what she has done and does she still love me deep down?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi There, I need some advice as I'm not sure what to do, I have used this site in the past and it has helped me a lot so I have come back for some more help :) I was engaged to get married and 3 weeks ago my partner told me out of the blue she doesn't love me anymore has not ... (321 words)

How can I figure out if he wants a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi On Wednesday I was out clubbing with my friends, I ended up kissing this guy - He asked for my number which I gave him. I didn't expect him to text me but he did today. However I don't know if I want a relationship atm as I have so many other things going on in my life. ... (67 words)

My girlfriend of 4 years started being a prostitute.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i found out my girlfriend started hooking she says she only been doing it for a month.she is a heroin addict that recently was taken off methadone. she says she is only giving blowjobs i know different.she said she started doing this because i am out of work and unable to ... (127 words)

How are some women out there able to cope with these sort of self-centered, self-serving and extremely selfish men?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I want to believe I'm an emotional person and like lots of love and attention. I have been married 5 years and its like my husband has stopped kissing me altogether. The last time was about 8 months back, when I initiated it and before that must have been like 2 ... (152 words)

Slept with a close friend...How do I get him to talk to me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I were practically the only ones still at college, due to our exam schedule. Our exam finished at 10:30am and we both planned to fly home the next morning. We spent the whole day together; we were practically the only ones around. We've been friends since we... (344 words)

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. not sure how to overcome the feel... (79 words)

Should I try to break her up with her boyfriend so that we can be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Please tell me what i should do. Me and this girl met last year and have been really close until September which was when she got a boyfriend. Anyway we could talk about anything and everything and openly flirted. We were well past the point where nothing was awkw... (345 words)

Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someone better. And My mom usual... (172 words)

Am I right to be confused and cautions about dating a friend who enjoys lewd jokes about naked women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have a friend I made through a social networking site. We have known each other for quite long and have phone chats. Now we are thinking of dating but he has a habit of cracking jokes including jokes about porn and sex and naked woman. I know few of his frien... (91 words)

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outside the country... we are in t... (331 words)

I've only met him 3 times. Is accepting his invitation to a party potentially dangerous?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been invited to a house party on New Year's Eve, and i'm not sure whether to go or not. I recently met this guy. We have met up in public three times so far ( including the night we first met each other ). And now he wants me to go to the party. His room mates and all ... (84 words)

I am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as I am hers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

24 December 2011 (M)

age - i am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as i am hers, i find her adorable straight speaking. a excellent mother of two.very sexy,to me anyway.we live in separate homes she with her kids, me on my own. we started off txting each other qu... (149 words)

I flipped out on my boyfriend...He's separated, has 3 kids, and not enough time for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - so ive been involved with my boyfriend for 9 months (hes 40 and i am 29)....i care about him so much but sometimes things are so hard.. he is separated and has three young children who always come first as i know they should. a big part of the struggle that i have with this rela... (609 words)

Shall I try online dating again? Why do I never seen to get anyhwere with men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm worried something is wrong with me. Maybe I'm projecting negativity that repels men. Please help. I'm In my late 20s but everyone upon meeting me thinks I'm 19 to about 22. I'm a little over 5 feet, quite thin but curvy, long thick wavy hair, great job with high pay, well... (247 words)

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twins you can but if you dont wan... (168 words)

Seems the kiss meant nothing to him. Forgive or Ignore him? Please help decipher my feelings and find some kind of peace

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24 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy who I thought had a little crush on me for almost a year. I ignored it because in the beginning I didn't feel that way. But he did little things that eventually caused me to fall for him. Anyway he was distant for a while which I thought was due to the fact... (362 words)