We haven't even dated and she came on kind of strong and clingy. Should I even bother?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Met this girl during orientation at work. All I know is I couldn't keep my eyes of of her, only problem is that she live an hour and a half away. I left my number on her car on the last day of orientation, because I knew I wouldn't see her again. To my surprise she texted me! I thought that she hated me, but she in fact was apparently feeling what I was feeling. We have texted back and fourth. She wanted to see me, I told her on payday I would treat her to dinner or a movie or just a night on the town. She accepted. All of the sudden she was like, "I'm calling the date off because I don't want to be played or cheated on?" and some other things like, "I don't want a guy who isn't going to put in as much effort in to a relationship as I am." Quite frankly, she wants me to be shoved up her rear end! I didn't plead with her, So I told her that if she stuck around, she would find out who I really am... I also told her that I am not going to sit here and beg for her to stay! So I left the ball in her court, and she called the date back on, and is really kinda crazy crazy about me. I have done decided that if she does this stupid thing of calling the date off again, that's it for me, and I am out. Which I really hope she don't, because even though I don't know her from Adam, I really feel a connection. I went crazy when I saw her! I need the help of the Dear Cupid Colony to help me decide on what to do? I mean I can understand that she doesn't know me, and that's all well. I would hope she lets me stick around and get to know each other. What do I do here guys? Keep on with this thing and see where it leads, or do I just cut ties and see where that takes me? I appreciate you all!

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