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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it over for good? Or do I just give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. Lately in the last month, it was extremely rocky. We've been getting into a lot of arguments I admit a lot of it has to do with me picking at little things. He wanted to break up in the beginning of the month and then after a ... (353 words)

Can an online relationship with a pen-pal guy in prison and me a virgin in UK work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a prison pen pal, and have been writing for a few months. There is definite connection but last night he asked if we can be in a relationship. I'm in the UK and he is in the US. I am kind of a 'loser' out here in real life. I am 34, still a virgin, no prospect... (102 words)

Should I meet some one I don't want to meet just to please my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really know how do put this but here goes. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we have a pretty solid relaionship we get on so well and we always have a laugh and joke. but recently (as in the last week) I have been finidng things hard, he reall... (291 words)

I am in a complicated situation with this guy, is he flirty or is he just hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in an extremely complicated and overly dramatized situation. I will try my best to sum it up and hit the main points. I met this guy, he seemed nice and we hit it off. He was obviously into me. He told me he would go out of his way to do certain things for me. I have b... (765 words)

Do I continue to try with the 19 year old reluctant girl? Or try with this amazing girl I just met?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl, we dated for a month and it was all going so slow it annoyed me. She didn't let me kiss her until after a couple of dates and it was not even a kiss it was a peck. When I tried giving her a real kiss she got so tense I stopped. And so I just stopped call... (211 words)

My Mum doesn't want to see me Christmas day.Does anyone else thinks she is being cruel?. Should I phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really hurt. I was supposed to be going to my mum's house tomorrow and stay until Christmas Day. I rang her tonight and she told me that she doesn't want to be bothered seeing me at all for Christmas now as she is tired and she just wants to sleep a lot. She doesn't like ... (192 words)

I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys. That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him, perhaps I was stupid/ I went... (213 words)

Can I keep my Gf and still do this? I'm pretending to not be attracted to other women to keep my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in my first serious relationship for 3 years now. I love my girlfriend. She is beautiful and we get along. We are having our first child soon. I want to marry her. But sometimes I feel like I'm hiding part of myself from her. I think that if she knew how sexual I really am s... (135 words)

At what point will I I tell them I’m less experienced? I want to start dating and I'm a virgin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some advice about dating. I’m in my late 20’s and I want to start dating guys. My problem is I’m worried guys will judge me as I’ve never been in a committed relationship and I’m a virgin. In the past, I had a bad experience with a guy. He turned out to be a nas... (170 words)

My family aren't supporting me during my pregnancy -- should I take up the offer from my b/f's family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 almost 15 and i'm 26 weeks pregnant with twins..i am super happy and so is my boyfriend and his family..my family on the other hand..i'm thinkin..not so much..i can see why they are upset/disappointed but right now all i need is support..i stayed and lived with my ... (257 words)

I have a huge crush on her and want to marry her. How can I encourage our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met her in one of my classes, she was very introverted. Hardly talked to anyone, but luckily she often talked to me and i have often dropped her off, near her house many times. This was the point at which i start liking her. Prior to our last class, i bought a pen for her,... (308 words)

Does this disgust girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ... (43 words)

Should I wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There this guy i like we talk and lught together all the time he tell me that he enjoy time we spent together and always smile we am in a bad mood he always try to make me smile do you think his intereted and should i ask him out or wait for him to ask me out ... (58 words)

10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experience, trauma, pain etc. I ... (123 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about problems because it reminds him of his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, I was talking to my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years about a problem I was having with my Dad. He said he didn't want to talk about it, and it took me a while to work out why. First I thought it was something I had done, but I managed to find out it was because it r... (173 words)

Why snog me if he likes a different girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Right its quite complicated but here goes. :L I have a friend whos a boy called ant and we have been friends for a while now and get on really well. Hes in the same class as me so we are always together and recently i have started to like him more than a friend. We ... (412 words)

Pet names to call your boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey girls....what are some good cute pet names that you call your boyfriend? And also..what's a good birthday gift for a guy? ... (26 words)

I suspect she's dating someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people! Recently I started talking a lot with this girl I met through one of my friends. We have been together a lot and we hung out 2-3 times a week. I told her that I was interested in dating her because I liked her and would like to find out more about her so she... (210 words)

I've decided to break up with my Bf. Should I wait until a week or so into the new year and just have a peaceful x-mas?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have decided to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because I no longer feel right in the relationship. I made this decision finally yesterday after lots of thought over the past few weeks, so it's not a spur of the moment thing and I am not seeing anyone else or cheating ... (120 words)

I don't think my b/f is attracted to me or anyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, we moved in with each other about 6 months ago. The problem is I just don't think he's attracted to me. I don't think he's attracted to anyone! He doesn't seem to take any interest in anything like that. We do have sex, but ... (210 words)

My b/f's ex calls every month to remind his to pay his support and its stressing us out!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend pays his child maintenance on the first of every month and he has never defaulted, pays the full amount plus extras, but the ex phones him first thing in the morning every single first day of the month, every month without fail to tell him to pay the maintenance - ... (261 words)

Do I still have feelings for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I stopped talking to my ex around August of this year. We had broken up months before that though. I fell hard for that boy, I still find myself thinking of him once in a while. I cried too many nights after I finally cut him out of my life. I don't think I love him, but I did ... (270 words)

My family calls me wicked and selfish even though I work all day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi.. I'm 15, i've got no social life, no friends, my only friend is myself, i talk to myself for long hours and i don't get tired. No one seems to understand me, especially my parents. I cook, clean and organize the home, and all my dad does when he returns from work is to ye... (142 words)

Now that I'm pregnant I'm worried my b/f doesn't find me attractive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 5 years he is 39 and I am 26 I love him so much. I am 13 weeks pregnant and I am kind of scared that I am less attractive he keeps "holding" my large stomach and it makes me feel...yuk. Also his ex wife is not letting us have his son for ... (102 words)

My husband said he doesn't love me. Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - have trouble in communicating with my husband..he told me he doesn't love me..but there are some ways that i feel he's just not telling me what he really feels..there are some point that i still thinks that he has another woman..but he insisted in front of my dad that he ... (91 words)

Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pineapple and stuff like that ma... (102 words)

My friends are not encouraging. Is she playing me? Do I have a chance with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this chick through a friend back in late oct. we were fairly smashed and things were pretty good with us.. flirty and laughing.. we've been msging each other for about a week.. then we organised to meet up for our first date which was average, nothing special.. just ... (335 words)

How do I give my experienced boyfriend a blowjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (?) age 36-40 - ok i really want to impress my boyfriend my giving him a bj but i don't know how because i've never done it. His Ex girlfriend gave him a bj but he stoped her because he said it didn't feel right and her teeth hurt. so please help guys, i din't wanna remind him of his Ex ... (57 words)

He's reserved. Though he really does love me. But, how I can get him to open up to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with this guy for 9 months now. I got into the relationship knowing that he was very reserved and to himself. But I felt that if he spent more time with me and started feeling more comfortable, that he would open up. Well, it hasn't happened yet. I... (145 words)

Evolution V.S. Religion & a Close-Minded Chistian Boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - As someone who was raised as a catholic Chistian, I never thought too much about what my faith meant to me. I Began dating a very Chistian boy (a mix of Baptist and conservative) I whent to catholic school so I knew and understood quite a bit of the bible but never really took ... (271 words)

He wasn't like this before. What's behind him being less helpful and more domincating and egotistical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay...hello everyone! my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and though things have not been all that normal, we have had very rough patches i have somehow survived till now. i feel he is a little dominating and egotistical. so we are still college students and... (168 words)

Is it over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space of these two weeks I've even ... (377 words)

My younger brother has NO concept of money!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts and uncles, I really need your help. I'm here because I'm completely out of ideas regarding my younger brother and his spending habits. His last text to me ("I spent $200 on dinner last night") was the final straw. He is 21 and still in college, and has never had any ... (419 words)

I have a texting relationship with a guy and his mom passed away. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, there is this guy that I used to text like 24/7. He would text me occasionaly over the next couple of months afterwards but not so much recently. Well anyway, his mom passed away a couple days ago and I need help as to what I should say to him. How should I go about letting ... (74 words)

I'm not over him and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ughh, I feel like I'm asking questions all the time now! Sorry. Anyway. A couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up ya know, and well, I kind of miss him. People keep saying no commitment, just have fun and date, which is all fine and dandy I enjoy it, but I really miss the... (135 words)

Should I trust him or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need some advice fast. Where to start. A boy who's family and my family are very close to moved away a few years ago i saw the boy when i was 7 and so was he, then recently they moved back to our town he moved to our school i was the only person he knew. Then after... (530 words)

Confident and Carefree People, How do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - By all of the people I know I am considered to be a really funny guy and really talkative person who is very confident. Which around people I know I am but when meeting new people despite usually trying to be talkative I let nerves get the better of me. My conversation tur... (188 words)