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Is there anything I can say to get us back together without sounding desperate?

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Question - (5 December 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *otandSpicyRedhead writes:

Ok, so I am a teenager. About a month ago I got my very first boyfriend. It was wonderful; I really like him. He's a teenager too, he's just a few years older than I am. He is very kind and very sweet.

About a week ago, he broke up with me. He said that he was very depressed and that hw wanted to be friends for awhile. I told him that understand and that was true. I knew that he was having problems at home.

He still walks me to school in the morning and we talk every day. I ask him how he is doing and he'll say things like good or great. I'm really glad that he's happy.

Now, I really want him back. I'm not the kind of girl that will just ask to go out with a guy. I want it to be his decision.

Just today, he texted me and he said, "Hello beautiful". Later in the conversation I asked why he called me beautiful and he said, "Because you are".

Do you think he still likes me? Is there anything that I can say that will suggest that I want to get back together without looking desperate?

I appreciate all answers. Thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011):

He seems interested in you. Guys are very hard to understand, they make you feel as if you are the only thing they want then the next they are all mean. Just keep true to yourself and if he continues to send things like that then ask him if he really does want a relationship again!!

xx :) hope I helped :)

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A female reader, synchrohobbit United States +, writes (6 December 2011):

synchrohobbit agony auntIt sounds like he is still interested and just needed to uncomplicate his life. If you are still spending time together I think you need to let him go at his own pace. I think it might not be appropriate that he is sending you texts like that when you are currently broken up, so explain to him that you really appreciate it but that is something a boyfriend says to his girlfriend, not a friend. Sounds like you are doing well.

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