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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't like my husband's female friend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My husband has a female friend I really don't like. The fact that we were dating and then living together, got married and just had a baby and I am just meeting her after almost 4 years really annoys me and frankly quit ticks me off. The first time I met her was at m... (196 words)

It makes me uncomfortable that my boyfriend texts other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i'm not sure if i'm over reacting or what. but my boyfriend texts other girls. he texts 3 girls that he goes to school with. i know they are just friends but it kinda bugs me. yesterday he would tell me who he was texting. he let me read the texts. he also said any... (132 words)

We hit it off but he has a g/f, but I think he's missing out on things being with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I met this guy at work and we hit it off straight away, everytime I see him I know it's going to be a good day because we laugh and joke and just seem to really click. We have the same interests, both want the same things from life, you get the picture.. Only problem i... (251 words)

I can't allow myself to be happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been working myslf up into a.complete mess this week, I love my fiance with all my heart and wen he asked me to marry him i was over the moon. But iv had.such a bad.time.with men that the nasty little voice in the back of my mind wont.let me believe that its.real! I know ... (152 words)

It's complicated -- she likes him, he likes me, and I have a b/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and have been dating this guy for three months and I really like him. Last week, my best friend told me she liked one of our friends (he's more my friend than hers, they're more like aquaintinces) and she kept bugging me to ask him who he likes so I finally gave in and ... (197 words)

Why do women like men more if they have pretty girl friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - why do women like men more if they have pretty girl friends? when i go out as just myself, i go largely unnoticed; when i take a pretty girl friend with me the other women notice me and treat me differently (more nicely).... (43 words)

Why am I checking up on my ex when he cheated and hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I keep doing this to myself. how can I stop? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, lied to me and broke up with and said he didn't want a relationship. He wanted us to be friends but I told him we can't cos he doesn't deserve me or my friendship. He said I have a ... (136 words)

It’s complicated Are we friends or does he hate my guts?

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16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in June last year I met this guy (Boy A) and we went out on a date and it seemed like we would hit it off. He talked about a long term relationship and made me promise to be friends with him no matter what happens. I didn’t hear from him for a few days after that but we ... (772 words)

I'm lost in the middle of two guys and I feel I love both. Should I leave one or both guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was currently in a bad relationship earlier on this year and unfortuntely it ended badly and my ex soon found someone else. I have since been in a relationship with a guy since august and we are together even today, but i have been seeing another guy, who i met on a dating ... (236 words)

Boyfriend cheated with multiple girls

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Found out my boyfriend cheated on me with 5 girls from my area Including MY BEST FRIEND. His defence was " technically we're not in a relationship its more of a friends with benifets thing " He introduced me to his family as his girlfriend, birthday card with girlfriend and ... (85 words)

Let's just be friends....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello lovely people :) I am having a little rant here, because I truely do not understand the thinking behind this statement "Let's just be friends". Say you have been on a number of dates over a month or longer, you feel things are going along nicely, there has been som... (218 words)

My crushes always like my prettier friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a guy, who is a friend of mine. But, I think he likes one of my other friends. Neither of them knows I like him. I won't tell them. My friend is so much prettier than I am... she has great hair (I have thin, ugly hair), green eyes (I have brown eyes which are very common ... (229 words)

Do I tell my brother I'm dating a guy 5 years older than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone1 im 17 and dating a guy who is 22, he is my first bf and im crazy about him but here is the problem. i live with my brother and he dosen't know about it. He asked so many times if i was dating and i said no, i think if he finds out that the guy is 22 he will freak ... (87 words)

Husband and mother in law issues...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband since 2008. I moved in with him because him and his mom already had a house. She put the down payment and he pays the monthly morgage. His mom is 72 set in her ways and a perfectionist about the cleaniness of the house. She has complained ... (346 words)

Guys! What are the motivations, excuses, reasons, justification for men who are cheating?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to better understand motivations for men cheating. So all the men out there... IF your woman is very attractive, always sexually available and ready for you, gives you massages, regularly cooks meals, works and pays her own share, gets along with you well ... (81 words)

Pretty girl....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - HEY.... a problem.. this girl from India is THE most beautiful person you'll find in the world. Brown eyes, Silky straight brown hair, fair skin, perfect height, pinky cheeks and rosy red lips. HA the problem is 36 guys out of 41 in our class have fallen in love and crush with ... (56 words)

Am I ready to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old boy and i have loved or should i say liked so many girls in the past but it all ends up as a mess, some of them i did not even tell them, i just carry it along until i see the next one, but now i have seen the girl i love most and i know she kind of likes me ... (103 words)

I think something strange is going on with my husband and his former boss's wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age - My husband used to work for someone and he always had a questionable relatiolnship with the boss's wife. It was so bad that his co-workers used to kid him about inheriting the business and that the boss's kids were really his. He eventuallty changed jobs but maintained a ... (313 words)

Ex cheated on me saying it was a one night stand, I find out now it was a friend and he is dating her!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be long but advice and motivation from anyone would be really appreciated! So just a couple months ago my bf of three years confessed to me he cheated on me. He told me it was some random girl he hooked up with a party and I believed it. I broke up with him right th... (548 words)

Does he know the pain I go through when I know he's looking at porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and we have always had sex reguarly, its never been the same there was also something to spice it up everytime. But recently within the past few months maybe he would reject having sex with me and leave it for... (296 words)

Do her actions show that she might be receptive to dating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a guy who is reserved and stern.there is this girl whom i normally chat with.she too is reserved and naive not easy to be asked on a date as does said by other guys who had tried dating her but couldn't succeed.sometimes when we are chatting she does like holding my hands ... (144 words)

My friend has breasts like a lady! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age - Hi Can anybody help me? i know a guy whose got breasts like a lady's and he was asking me why is his left breast bigger than the right one and is it normal? I hope to hear soon. He's so worried. Can anybody help?... (48 words)

Just when I realize how great the guy is he says he's getting back with his ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really stupid, I met a perfect man, he is 32, funny, good career, sweet, good looking, from same background. We met 3 months ago in a club, I am 31 female And we got on great. Problem was in always felt a bit awkward in bed! He was good at certain stuff, amazi... (235 words)

Just curious or bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm having some trouble dealing with something that happened with a work friend. We went out with the rest of work for our Christmas do and I ended up kissing a boy from work called 'Ryan'. We were really drunk but when we were at the table talking, we were all chattin... (638 words)

Am I being controlling, or am I just being cautious and protecting my marriage from further destruction?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I need some advice and opinions. My wife and I have been married for 16 years and its been a pretty tough marriage from the beginning. We have both been faithful over the years, but not real happy. I just recently realized that I've been a very controlling husband ... (396 words)

Wife Cheated with my Cousin/Best Friend! Don't know what to do!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It's a little long. I apologize in advance. But there is so complicated. So confused and don't know what to do. I found out my wife cheated on me 1 year ago today. Needless to say, I was devastated and still am. Traumatized. For the first 10 days when I found out, ... (934 words)

I've become close to this guy, could it be something more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, for the past few weeks there's this guy that I've become real close with. We have one class together and in a short one we just have become he best of friends. Sometimes I think it's more friendship an I don't want to get myself thinking like that because I know in the end ... (147 words)

I keep falling for him and it's driving me crazy. What to do when I know he'll never love me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This year i took drama and when i walked into my class there sat the boy who I haven't been able to put my feelings straight for more than a week. He's cute and nice. We both share unique views on life but he is way more popular than me. He isn't a good kid either, he doesn... (213 words)

Is too much self pleasure harmful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - This is probably a really unusual question but...I think I'm addicted to porn/masturbating. I'm not sure, I don't watch it/do it every day but when I'm bored, I can watch it up to two times to get my "fix" of sexual buzz for the day. I guess this allll stemmed from me ... (139 words)

I'm insecure now because my boyfriend said I needed to "tone up" to go from being an 80 to 100!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

16 December 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I am obsessed with becoming thinner than I am. Although I know that the way I am made, it is impossible for me to be tall and thin, I want to be thinner. I am 130 pounds and 5'5 so my height places me at a disadvantage, but even though I'm very curvy, and should be PROUD of ... (254 words)

Holiday away and the ex will be there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - We'll be apart for our 1st Christmas. He's visiting on the west coast and I'm east coast. 10 days away and his LTR ex/friend who calls and texts him still lives there. She visited there last Christmas and I'm guessing she will this year. I'm going insane! How do I stay ... (96 words)

Too many issues and she thinks its all me, please help. I believe shes the one.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, ill try not to do a novel :) this will be a question that may need some agony aunt devotion . i will appreciate answers to my full extent, i promise. so.. my girlfriend of over 2 years now hates me, here are our issues: my gf says i changed the music she likes be... (596 words)

Does my husband need viagra?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So every time me and my husband have sex it only last like 4 or 5 min. And after that he can't seem to get it hard again, it sucks he can't go another round.. he's 31 so he's young , n I'm 23 and I never get pleased by him..what can I do to make it last longer or go another ... (86 words)

Loving your boyfriend but missing your ex too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is very very stupid question- I met this amazing boyfriend of mine about 9 months ago! (we are in a relationship for 7 months) I know every boyfriend in this world is amazing but he is super nice. He thinks i am the prettiest,nicest,funniest and coolest and it shows how... (451 words)

I think my body is numb! No matter what I can't feel anything

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

16 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Please don't laugh or anything, but I don't think my clitoris works. I have tried to reach orgasm through sex and masturbation but nothing works. I know where my clit is and what it is so I don't think im going wrong there. I can't orgasm through penetration either, anal or ... (91 words)