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writes:Ok so I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have been dating over a year. We have sex often, but lately it feels rough going in. I thought I was lubricated enough without any lubricant or anything but it feels like something is scratching me and when he pulls out and try to go for round two it start to burn a little. We have both been checked an we are clean. So I don't know what it could be. I'm also concerned if I'm doing something wrong I usually take a bath before and wash real good with feminine wash so I won't get irritated down there, but sometimes it still hurts a little. What should I do?
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reader, Purple Pillow Power  +, writes (7 December 2011):
 i think everyones on the same lines here. you probably just over done something like when you lift up one to my boxes and you do your back in. depending on how much sex you have just give it time but if it still hurts after a few weeks tell the doctor about, they'll sort you out
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2011):
 have you tried adding a good lube? that may help...
using a feminine wash can actually be detrimental as the vagina is self cleaning and no soap should be going up there at all...
just water ( I use the shower massage to rinse the soap off the outer areas and whatever water gets IN me is washed back out... I never insert anything soapy into my vagina...
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 pop to the doctors.
If your sex life is active, and you indulge in rough (wrong word... perhaps vigorous)sex then you may have a teensy tiny perineal or vaginal tear.
However, it could also be from an infection or (very very unlikely) something more serious.
Either way get yourself to the doctor who will be able to sort you out. If it is a tear then you will probably have to stop penetrative sex for a few weeks (3-6) as these take longer than an average cut on your finger to heal properly.
Hope that helps xx
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