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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 19 years old, and my parents won't let me do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Thanks for having a great community like this. I hope you can help me with my problem. I'm 19, I go to college and still live at home with my parents. My parents are really strict. They treat me like I'm 5 when I'm clearly an adult. They won't allow me to go out with f... (337 words)

Ways to get over the crush who rejected you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Best and most effective ways to get over the crush who rejected you? It feels like I've tried everything but it still doesn't seem to help. I did what most people would say; "Cut ALL contact". And now a friend of mine told me that this girl has started dating another d... (99 words)

Do you think she and I will ever be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) age 36-40 - Hello aunts! Even if I'll try to sum up my story in the best way possible, I think this will be long. Thanks in advance for reading. I met this girl like a year and a half ago in a one-week summer activity we both signed up for. She is from Japan, studied at a liberal arts c... (879 words)

My husband has been impotent for 5 years. Should I stay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age - What would you do, if your husband 20 years, suddenly goes impotent , without any any medical cause? He is 50 now, but he was 43, when one day to the next he just lost his erection, and ever since, he is unable to get a normal erection. He also lost his sexual desire. He says ... (145 words)

Is my long distance romance over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online in august. Things built up gradually, we were a great match and had lots in common. I loved spending time talking with him each day and getting to know this guy who I found to be lovely. We had similar, goals, aspirations and mindsets. He lives in the U.S... (608 words)

Would it be harsh of me to tell my b/f he can't move in with me till he finds a job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all heres the thing i wrote recently asking advice about telling my bf im moving in alone as hes unemployed but i have recently found out im pregnant i work 40 hours n he dont. Now im stuck my parents kicked me out which is fine ive gt money saved to moved out orginally now ... (98 words)

Should I let my b/f know I've never had an orgasm through regular sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I was wondering if anybody else has had this problem and how they fixed it. I've never told my fiance about it before and I don't know if I should. I think he might get upset. The sex we have is really good while its happening ... (82 words)

Was it wrong for him to change my password?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, well to start with my boyfriend knows my facebook password and i know his, today an old friend of mine was talking to me and he was saying some pretty inaproprate things to me, my boyfriend saw them and got mad i begged him not to say anything to him as he is a good fri... (173 words)

How do I work through this rage I feel towards my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I could do with some advice regarding my situation with my now ex boyfriend. We broke up because he just couldn't stop lying to me and in the end it became out of control and I ended it. Today we got into a row as I once again found out yet another lie he'd told reg... (304 words)

After 2 years of being LDR we finally meet and it ended so badly. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send pic which made things feel a ... (1030 words)

A horrible work performance review ruined my holidays!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, recently out of grad school and I've got my first job. I perform every work task I get quickly and efficiently and I though I was doing great. I actually thought I was exceeding my boss' expectations! So when he said he was very unhappy with my performance, of course I ... (222 words)

My boyfriend treats his dog better than he treats me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesn't treat me good. He treats his dog better than me. When we fight he calls me names, (ones i'd NEVER repeat). He doesn't sleep with me, he loses his temper and it's always my fault. He gets mad at some1 else he takes it out on me.He was addicted to stuff, and ... (209 words)

Has my girlfriend deceived me or does the sex with her ex-boyfriend not count?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not sure where to start but I do want to document how I feel and explain what has been happening in my relationship. Without going in to too much background detail I want to start with the facts. At the end of March this year my partner walked out without saying where she ... (1600 words)

Unexpected gifts at Christmas have left us feeling badly. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've got a bit of a post christmas problem. Basically I spent christmas at my partners brothers house. We had a lovely time but we feel a bit awkward because her brothers partner signed her name on the presents from him, aswell as his name. So basically everyt... (223 words)

Not only is my husband not sympathetic when I am ill, but he's mean!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age - My husband has no sympathy for me when I'm ill. Let me take that one step further, not only is he less than sympathetic, he is a little bit mean. He doesn't yell or anything but makes it very clear that he thinks I'm a hypochondriac and that there is nothing wrong with me. I... (427 words)

First just friendship and after a few years it is suddenly love?

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30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I have 2 friends to who this happened: a guy fell in love with a girl but the girl just wants friendship about 2 years later the girl also wanted a relationship. it lasted about 8 months and guess who ended it? the girl! now nearly the same happens again with another ... (260 words)

Our almost non existent sex life....are all these factors adding to that problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I hope you had a good Christmas and are prepared for the coming year. I need some relationship advice. I am 27 and my girlfriend is 28, we are dating for 1.5 years now and moved together about 5 months ago. We are both in grad school for our doctorates. One ... (698 words)

I don't want anyone liking me in a romantic way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, thanks for viewing this question:D. Anyways, on the problem. I think this year is an extremely strange year, maybe its because of the fact that everyone in my level will be graduating from our school. But this year, I received 17 confessions to be exact. 2 right before m... (207 words)

B/f broke up with me saying it was best to move on, now he's cold. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi please help my boyfriend decided to end our relationship of 5 years just before Christmas. He has got annoyed because I have tried calling him, speaking to him and texting him. I know this is making things worse but I cannot cope, though I know I need to try. I am hardly ... (304 words)

My best friend said he'd go out with me and kiss me if I lost weight. Is it worth the effort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy I like, and we have been friends for about 2 years. He's my best friend, and I love him. Well a couple weeks ago I told him that I liked him. Which he thought was a little weird,thankfully it wasn't really awkard. Anyways a couple of days ago he told me that ... (191 words)

B/f lied to me about the circumstances of him receiving oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) my question is quite complex so I'm just going to ask it. I have been with my boyfriend for Eleven months, he told me that he had received oral sex once before and said it was on holiday. However last night he told me that he lied and it was not on holiday but with a girl ... (108 words)

Is this an awkward relationship?

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30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf once lived in an old man's house for a month (as a lodger) and ever since then the man continually texts my bf asking for a catch up over a drink and meals etc. When he sees my bf he kisses him on the cheek and is really funny acting and awkward with me. Is this just ... (88 words)

How do I stop this guy's invasive presence?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, maybe this is a stupid question, especially at my age, but here it is: I met this guy exactly three times, once when we met at a party, once we had coffee and once we went together at a workshop with a lot of other people, and now he is writing on my facebook wall three ... (198 words)

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays child support plus has his son... (442 words)

Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone ! My question is : Is it possible to change the taste of my "downstairs" to a little more sweeter? Dont get me wrong , I dont have a horrible smell or taste , It's just that it is slightly more salty than Sweet. ... (61 words)

I have a problem of falling in love with the wrong women!

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30 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem of falling in love with wrong women (who don't really love me), I don't know why, if they don't put me in friend zone they get along with me for their own benefits. I don't know why I just can't attract women naturally in a way she can fall for me and not ... (101 words)

Is it fair to trick someone into doing something that you know they won't like

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age - I am an anti social person and always have been all my life. I am happy this way and enjoy reading, my animals, gardening and generally have a quiet lifestyle. My husband of two years and I do not live together as we have jobs in other parts of the UK and my son is settled at a ... (450 words)

He has a girlfriend. Should I ask him to hang out anyways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a conversation with this guy 2 days ago on facebook. We're friends but I think I kind of like him too. Is it too soon to start another conversation? I also want to ask him to hang out but just as friends because I know he has a girlfriend but I don't want him to thin... (80 words)

I love her and I think she loves me. What next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Scenario: Me, a jovial, good looking 30 year old bachelor who is living abroad on the other side of the world for a year, until May. Her, my best friend. Me, I think about her every day, morning and night, and I've now been away 7 months. I'm quite a spiritual person... (560 words)

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with several married men when they ... (131 words)

How can I stop this suspicion???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age - Hi all, I was lucky enough to gain some help from you a while back and it was so helpful - I am grateful for that. There’s no short version of this so for those who take the time to read I am really grateful! Having got out of the relationship I was in over a year ago no... (1084 words)

Is it odd that a strong personality like this guy I had a fling with, wanted the woman to take charge romantically/sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a fling with a guy (all we wanted from each other) which was around a month long. It was something out of character for me, but I really liked him, so what the heck. Only live once. What was odd was that his bedroom personality and real world personality differed so much.... (289 words)

I had feelings for her. How do I forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i forget about a girl i had some fealings for? we had been talking for about 2 months flirting and all of that... at one point she asked my brother when i was home from work cos she wanted to talk... she had personal heart to hearts with me seeking advice (now this... (322 words)

Is there any point in trying to remain friends with these people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Simple question. I've come back from university and none of my college friends made the effort to see how university life was or how I was doing, except for one. I guess it does work both ways, as neither did I. But I contacted the few I was closest with before I went an... (377 words)

Partner doesn't support my change of eating habits!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've decided to change my eating habits for health reasons and my partner is not helping because he does a lot of the cooking and won't prepare the healthier meals I want, and when I say I'll do my own food he gets offended. We also used to drink wine with meals and I've ... (146 words)

I honestly don't know how to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok the thing is that this whole dating thing is all new to me. I was with my ex since I was 19,broke up when I was 25 I'm 27 now and I've been single for 2 years and I've been pretty much scared to date.. I tried going out with this guy like months after me and my bf broke up ... (368 words)

Do all women taste the same?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone :) Im abit confused...me and my boyfriend got on the subject last night about givin each other oral. He said that a i tasted amazing :) which is good for both of us because we do enjoy it alot. But my question is... Do all woman taste the same when giving oral ??... (72 words)

Mixed signals from him. Do I ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy. i have known him since 7th grade and i liked him then, but i never had the guts to tell him. then he went out with my best friend. then i moved in 8th grade. then i saw him again at the church my sister goes to in 10th grade. now im in 11th grade. i didnt ... (191 words)

Husband (also doctor) addicted to teen porn...just told me he hates me for asking him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has admitted to being addicted to porn years ago but it was never a real issue because he hid it. I recently borrowed his laptop and he had over 89 bookmarks of 'teen' porn and he used the name like 'morgage payments' to hid the sites. On several days in a week, over ... (115 words)

B/f can't have children, when I asked him if I changed my mind about wanting them, he said "go find someone else"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy who had a vasectomy and I didn't want kids either so we were dating for 2 years but I've asked him recently what if I change my mind and he says go find someone else. Should I go now or wait and see if my feelings change? I felt kind of angry that he was happy to ... (113 words)

After 2 years I don't know if I can believe anything that my boyfriend says!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Whwn my boyfriend and I started dating 2 years ago it was wonderful and we got along so well, but as time has passed it seems that he has either deliberately misled me or he's doing it without realising how it could be interpreted as misleading. He tells me things as if they ... (223 words)

I feel like a closet girlfriend. Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm shy slightly overweight and I've been seeing my bf of 17 months regularly. He comes over between 1 and 3 times a week, lives just 4 miles away and we love each other. I love him because he's attentive in many ways, has a lively personality and we get on very well. He ge... (779 words)

Should I continue to keep my cousin's secret from her family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hie! I am 22yrs and i have a cousin sister who is 24yrs who had been living wth HIV/AIDS 4 a year now but we are keeping it a secret me and her that even her own mother doesnt now. A year ago wen she told me that she was HIV positive after she went 4 a test, i promised not 2 ... (297 words)

Swore I wouldn't fall for someone since I'm leaving for the military, but it happened anyway! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi - I am leaving for the military in just under 4 months. I am older (mid 20's) and have been working for this for years and am dead set on going. About eight months ago, I made the decision then and there not to date. I wasn't in a relationship, and I didn't think it would be ... (158 words)

What does it mean? My girlfriend wants sex without a condom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - gf wants sex without a condom, what does this mean? in all relationships i been in never had a girl ask to have sex without a condom, this is first time, bit wierd, does this mean she loves me or wants kids? ... (46 words)

Is there any way I can politely ask for some foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend always asks me to go down on him, he doesn't go down on me. Sometimes we have foreplay, I would like to have a little more foreplay to happen. Our sex is amazing, I just wish some more foreplay would happen and once in awhile him go down on me. Is there anyway I ... (94 words)

Why do I have such trouble getting boyfriend to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have ai have such trouble when it comes to boyfriends not talking to me (like not answering my texts and such) I tell myself they are busy or they aren't at their phone. Or something has come up. But then I check their online social network page and I see they have been ... (156 words)

Neither my parents nor the father of my baby know that I'm pregnant. How do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met this guy on some dating app ending of November this year. He seemed like a sweet guy and lived in my area, so we met up at a local Starbucks. We seemed to click and clearly were interested in each other so we continued to see more of each other. W... (306 words)

What happened? Was it is miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I want to know if I had a miscarige or what? Well heres what happend I had sex with my bf on april 1st and we only had half way in sex he only put his penus half way in which he camed inside me and alot! And so my period didnt come for 2 months after that it started ... (181 words)

Can anyone think of a way we can talk my Indian girlfriend's parents into letting us date?

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30 December 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so I am 15 and I have a girlfriend who is also 15. We've been going out for 7 months and I really want her parents to let her date but they say she can't. She is Indian and her parents don't believe in dating. I am american and my parents let me date.I really think our ... (128 words)

Could we ever go back to being bestfriends after I admitted my feelings for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So a while ago my best friend asked me if I had feelings for her, I said I did. She had her suspicions because she thought I cared too much and came out and asked, and I answered truthfully. Before hand I knew she didn't like me that way because when someone thought we were a ... (261 words)

Is it normal to suddenly feel insecure in a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old woman with a not-so-great track record with relationships. I have not been in a normal relationship for several years. I have been dating a wonderful, kind man for almost six months now. I took things very slowly in the beginning, and about a month ago we ... (265 words)

He met this girl and became friends, can I still trust my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I desperately need your help!! I've been with this guy (lets call him Joey) for a year now; on and off again. We've had a lot of problems because of girls and guys that are trying to break us up. A few girls are after him because he's an athlete and I have a few guys after me ... (467 words)

My Gf still checks her ex's facebook account, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What should I think about my girlfriend checking her xboyfriends facebook page even though she unfriended him and can't see anything but his profile pic which isn't even a picture of him? He was a bit of trouble in our relationship in the beginning but she has since turned into... (186 words)

My BF's teenage child is coming to live with us - But I don't think I'm ready for that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I am 28 yrs old and have been dating a guy who is 43 for nearly 4 yrs now. He was married before and has one kid who is 16 now, he is divorced about 13yrs. My problem is the ex took his kid out of state over a yr ago and just a couple of weeks ago moved out of the house because ... (172 words)

I started gagging when I tried oral sex on my Bf, my eyes got watery, I felt like I was gonna throw up. Now my Bf's very upset with my reaction, and doesn't want to try ever again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are both in our first serious relationship, and also inexperienced. I am more shy while hes a bit more adventurous and doesn't mind trying new things regarding physical intimacy. We haven't gone all the way, because I dont want to. But he really wants to try oral. ... (274 words)

If I end things now will she think I just wanted sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now, i am kinda starting to loose interest in the relationship cause we all busy and i wanna focus on school too. Anyway we kinda split up like two weeks ago not really a break up, just like a break then this week after ... (157 words)

Am I his Booty Call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So how do you know or ask a guy if this relationship is going somewhere and that I am not just a botty call? He says he worries about me and when we fight that he misses me a lot, and gets worried if anything happened to me. I want to know if this relationship is going to have ... (70 words)

Why has my mate suddenly changed?

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30 December 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my mate 'darren' are like brothers. we have known each other for like 12 years. neither of us are virgins any more, but we've both always thought that sex was for someone you truely care for. now he's started havin sex with girls he doesn't even know and that's ... (286 words)

I think he's 'the one' - But am I ready for that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really believe in the idea of soulmates or "the one" in the sense that its my destiny or fate, but I do believe that certain people click together more so than others. And I'm pretty sure I've found that. The problem is that neither of us are ready for/want a ... (514 words)

He only likes Oral sex! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm in my late thirties and been with my husband for 16 years but he wants oral sex most of the time (or anal which he says he doesn't like but he tries because I like it, I've told him I don't). He gets oral a lot but I would like a change. He thinks because I get the ... (122 words)

Partying causing my relationship going down hill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 December 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so heres the thing, ive been dating this girl for a while and im certain that i love her but i have some problems (problems which she knew about prior to the relationship starting because i dated her sister before her) and the problems are that i drink and smoke and last ... (225 words)

Does Male Pride get in the way of having a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think a mans pride (being mr tough and never showing his emotions, always being mr. tough guy) can stand in the way of him having a relationship? Does that affect the way he feels or lets himself feel about a woman?? ... (44 words)

I don't want my ex back - but he's still in my head. Is this normal?

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30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm seeking a bit of advice on dealing with an ex. Me and him were together 5 months, he was my first love and the guy I lost my V to and we were very much in love the time we were together. However, after a very messy break up I did come to realise he was right in endin... (166 words)

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had just gotten out of a very bad ... (475 words)

I’m just wondering if I should wish my ex a Happy New Year

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Me and my ex were together for a year (my first boyfriend and the one I lost my virginity to) and we broke up the at the beginning of October this year~ it was mutual between us and he called me up to say it~ we had both gone off to different towns far away for uni and ... (302 words)

I miss him so much! And he's dating someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 December 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, any advice would be really appreciated. My ex and I broke up about 8 weeks ago. We were friemds/flatmates before deciding to give things a go. We are very different, but we just seemed to click in some way, especially in bed. He is a quiet person, and quite hard to read. ... (381 words)