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female
age
36-40,
*ori091
writes:Ive been seeing this guy who lives an hour and a half away from me. We really conected and Ive been seeing him for about 5 months at this point. He told me he had an ex that he has a 2 year old daughter with and they were no longer together. But one day I got a call from the ex who says they are very much together and lives together. When I asked him he fessed up and told me the truth but said there relationship was rocky and he wanted to leave her but the apt. they live in was in both of their names and he was waiting for the lease to be up. So I told him to call me once they no longer lived together. About 3 months later he called we hooked up I got pregnant and he moved in. He was still going back down there to see his daughter every now and then. So its only been like 2 months since he moved in and I do really have feelings for him now but I get another call from the babymother saying the last time he came down to visit his daughter they had sex and shes a month pregnant and is keeping the baby so now I feel really dumb and Im 5 mo. pregnant and she is 2 mo. I left him and he went back to her and he calls me everyday saying he wants to be with me and he will leave her alone for good if we get back together. And I know I souldnt believe him but I want to because this is my first child and I want his dad around when he comes so what sould I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): This is going to be hard to hear but he hasn't a very good track record has he. The woman is telling you what he is like and he hasn't chosen between you but wants it both ways.
In my opinion you would be better getting support from your family and friends than to continue with this man. I know it sounds harsh, but do you want your child to have a father who messes about like this?
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