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*penmind
writes:So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and she works and we live an hour apart seeing each other about twice a week. She is 30, ten years older than myself and already says i love you. I know i really like her but i cant get in the mood to have sex most of the time and find that she really gets on my nerves alot of the time. I want to make things work but i dont know what to do or how to do it any advice??
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reader, openmind +, writes (3 November 2009):
openmind is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone for your advice i have found the solution to my problem and i am at peace with everything now. Thanks for your support!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, openmind +, writes (30 October 2009):
openmind is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIjust wonder am I bored now bc we moved so fast in the beginning, am I bored at all or is it something else and if I want to make it work can I? Thankyou to everyone who is listening to me ramble like a crazy person I'm just confused ab my own feelings. To all your advice is priceless to me thanks so much!
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reader, openmind +, writes (30 October 2009):
openmind is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGood lord she doesn't have hygene problems she showers on a regular basis trust me I know I just wondered if the fact she doesn't shave traps oder or something and she is sweet she randomly came to my house at 5am before I got up for work and said baby I wanted to be spontanious she hadn't been to bed drove an hour to get me she said even if you won't skip work it was worth driving all the way down here just to see you for a minute she does things like that alot takes me out to eat she holds me at night always asks about my day buys me random gifts I mean there is good and bad like with everything. But the bad times are rough I just wanted to know what's up with the vag and if perhaps there was something wrong with me for feeling the way I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Okay, so you really, really like someone who:
1. Is jealous
2. Mocks you
3. Gets on your nerves
4. Has a hygiene issue
5. Bores you
6. Does not turn you on sexually
7. Is controlling
8. Has not recovered from her last relationship
Other than saying she's "very sweet"--which contradicts everything else you said--you have not laid out one redeeming quality that would explain why you would even consider being in this relationship. It's only been four months not 4 years; there is no need to make this relationship work. Get out now before you find yourself trapped.
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reader, openmind +, writes (30 October 2009):
openmind is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i really do like her she is very sweet and extremly jealous because her gf of five years cheated on her but i have told her a thousand times i am not that girl. Im confused as to do i think im bored because she makes me mad with the mocking and jealousy shit, and i cant help but think i would want her more if i could figure out what is up with the oder could it have anything to do with not shaving? Sorry im being annoying i just really dont want to throw this away so quickly
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reader, openmind +, writes (30 October 2009):
openmind is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo get on my nerves she will go through my phone read messages ive sent and make fun of me for them. She will repeat what i said over and over again in a mocking tone again and again and again she does that with my laugh too she doesnt ever want to do anything but sleep all the time and yes i can talk to her thats not boring but i have a hard time getting turned on by her and there is another problem with that. She has a very strong oder down there that really turns me off and i dont know how to tell her about it i know its kinda gross but idk what to do
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