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writes:Me and my ex went out for 2 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and in that 2 years i hurt her bad but i told her it would never happen again and it didnt she hurt me also. about a month and a half ago she got another boyfriend i wanna get back with her but she wont get back with me. she says shes happy with the other guy and really likes him. some of her friends like him but most dont her mother even doesnt. everyone says he doesnt care about her and hes gunna fuck her over cause he has done that in the past to alot of other girls but she doesnt believe it and says he does care about her. I know in my heart that we belong together but she said we cant be friends cause we fight cause of her boyfriend i told her i dont wanna fight cause i love her to death but she still said we cant. what should i do? should i just sit back and wait for him to fuck her over? how would i get her to come back to me?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 You may never inspire her to come back to you. You sort of goofed up your chance, didn't you? It is entirely possible that whatever you did to hurt her has cut so deeply she can't forgive you.
I wasn’t there and don't know what you did or what she did, so I don't know.
She has plainly said she doesn't want to be with you and she is happy, so you have to leave her alone. When and if she ends up being hurt by this current boyfriend, she may come back for some comfort.
I would advise that you tell her you love her and will honour her request for space. You hope she is happy with her boyfriend, and would like to be friends when she is ready.
This way, the door is left open for her to come to you when she is ready.
Good luck.
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