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writes:There was a girl at work that worked in another department. When I first saw her when she started at the company like a year ago I thought that maybe she fancied me and I fancy her and I caught her looking at me a lot at lunch. Time has gone on and the most I have ever said to her was the occassional hello and work related stuff but the opportunity to chat any more has never been there or I have wasted as I am very shy myself but I still think she's attracted to me. I have now found out she has left last week and on the last couple of days in the canteen it was like she was trying to get my attention, delibaretly walking close.Now she has left I regret not doing anything about it.I know she is a friend of friends from work on facebook as she comes up in the suggestions, do you think it would be a good idea to send her a message on facebook or would that be too weird?
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reader, lionelhutz  +, writes (31 October 2009):
Definitely go for it. What the worse that can happen, she doesn't answer you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Hell yes you should. Or even better if you can get her phone number from the mutual friends giver her a ring. There's no need to be nervous because she likes you, right? She'll be thrilled to hear from you.
You wasted all that time when you worked together, and believe me I've done that many times. You tell yourself you just need an opportunity and you'll do something but an opportunity, when it comes may pass in the blink of an eye and if you're not 100 percent ready for it you miss it. So you you tell yourself you'll just wait for the next one but it never comes. At any time at work you could have just gone over to her and asked how she was or asked her to join you for lunch or anything like that.
If there's ANY chance you can get in touch with her in ANY way take it!
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reader, kte321 +, writes (30 October 2009):
why not add her as a friend and ask how things are going? what have you got to loose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Of course. If you feel that way then you should always go for it. It's a shame that she left as you now will probably find it alot more difficult to get together, but hey if you both like eachother then it's worth any hardships.
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