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writes:i liked this guy and he liked me back but neither of us knew so we didnt make a move. he apparently went off me and i still like him, i'm not sure if he likes me still or not because he is being a bit weird at the moment. he puts his arm around me and hugs me for like ages, and texts me every day and leans on me and stuff but he has made out with two girls (one of them twice) and he doesnt like either of them and isnt planning on dating them. he can't admit to my face he made out with one of them and has kept it a secret from me but i know it is true. he is still leading me on. what should i do? please help. what the hell is he playing at?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Typical young male behaviour. He doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship. Perhaps one day he will give you what you want from him, but it may not be soon. I know you probably don't want to, but try to focus on just being friends with him for now.
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reader, Annemarie782783  +, writes (30 October 2009):
Ok - so firstly how do you actually feel about him? If the answer is you like him then take the bull by the horns and ask him if he likes you back! Say to yourself - im going to be forward and get to the end of these silly games! You can have playful banter/flirting without games - games are when people get hurt. For all you know he might think your not keen on him. If it turns out he does like you back then you've paid off - if he is just playing games and doesnt see you in that light at least you know before you waste anymore of your precious time on him and say to yourself there are plenty more fish in the sea - the fun part is finding the one you wnt to catch :0)
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reader, LyonHart +, writes (30 October 2009):
 For what it's worth, you should dump him. Because if he's cheating on you, (yes, I'd consider making out with another girl cheating) and can't even tell you to your face and apologize and do everything to make it up to you, then he isn't worth the time and eventual pain. Hope it helps. ;)
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