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writes:I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do you think it is advisable that I tell him about my dreams? or should I just leave every thing the way it is... I know he loves me but he cannot just forgive me for cheating on him and what if we meet up face to face and sort out our differences don't you think it might work at least to make up for the third time... I mean we broke up once in the past and made up. I think we were just meant to be. I love him and losing him forever will really kill me... I do not think I will ever feel the same way with any other guy apart from him.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Funny enough, I started dreaming about my ex after the breakup. I never dreamed about her before, but virtually EVERY dream seems to be about her now. But I don't love her anymore, or want her anymore. (She dumped me, but I've moved on.) But since it's only been two months since the end of a three year relationship, she's still on my mind from time to time and it's affecting my dreams.
I don't love her, but the mind tends to obsess.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 freudians believe that dreams mean an awful lot, but most don't believe this.
your dreaming about him because he is on your mind.
What you did wasn't right but you know this, wait a little while and try to talk to him or talk to a mutual friend.
You said you broke up with him before so this might be a doomed relationship.
You can try to get with him again but if he doesn't take you back then you'll have to accept it and move on, you WILL love someone just as much again. It obviously sucks now but it will get better.
xx
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