A
female
age
30-35,
*odaii
writes:Hey there, last week i asked my best friend out (we're both girls and bi). She's known how i feel about her for about 6 months now, and she said she loved me back, but when i asked her out, she said no. this sort of crushed me and the last week ive been trying hard not to feel depressed but its just getting to me. i really love her and she said she loved me, and i thought that i may as well ask her out because it is worth a chance, something good might have come from it and if not then it wouldnt be arkward cos she already knew how i felt bout her, but now i havnt heard from her since and shes changed her facebook picture from one of both of us to just her. however, we've both been away on holiday, i got back today and shes back on sunday (which is my birthday yay) but anyway do you think i might have upset or offended her? shes one of my best friends and i love her so much, i dont want to lose her, what can i do? do you think i have offended her?
View related questions:
best friend, crush, depressed, facebook, on holiday Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, jodaii +, writes (1 November 2009):
jodaii is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice but she text me this morning saying happy birthday so all is well, we've been back to normal since, thanks forthe advice though :D
A
female
reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (30 October 2009):
You two are very young and to say that you're bi at such a young age might just be some confusion on her part. You may fully be aware that you are, but she may not be sure. She maybe be confused about her sexuality and since you asked her out, she may be questioning whether or not she actually does like girls. I don't think that you offended her, but her feelings that she thought that she may have had are not what she actually feels. Give her some time and respect her choice. If she wants to continue being friends with you, just leave it at that with no pressure.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Well I think the reason she doesn't wanna go out with you is because she doesn't wanna mess up the friendship that you two have.if you two was too become a couple and go threw a really bad break up or something you two probly wouldn't want anything too do with each other any more.she probly doesn't wanna lose you.
...............................
|
