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writes:well she's my ex now but before we started dating she told me that she had been hurt by alot of guys and all she wanted was for me to give her a chance which I had no problem doing because I truly liked her. She seemed different than alot of girls I had been with. Anyways one day I told her that I loved her and she said ''I cant tell you I love you, even if I feel it takes a while for me to be able to say it'' i didn't think that made any sense but I told her that was completely fine and she could tell me when she was ready. I also told her one day that I thought alot of her and cared about her. She told me that it scared her how much I liked her. I was like WTF?! All I did was care about the girl. I was the one who ended up gettin hurt cause she cheated on me. Can anybody tell me what would cause her to say those things? Was she scared I would turn out like the other guys she'd dated and didn't want or wasn't ready for a commitment?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Ok now I get what you're sayin Gerta. I confused myself lol :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): I was asking what would cause her to say 'it scares me how much you like me' and why she had a hard time saying I love you. Sorry for the confusion
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Dude I think she sabatoged the relationship so she wouldn't have to invest her heart into you. She may not be ready for a real relationship for a while, no matter how great of a guy you are or how good looking you are to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Sounds like it. You'd be surprised how often people sabotage themselves, especially when things realy start going right. (Seinfeld producer Larry david tried to resign 8 times!!)She has alot of baggage and personal issues to deal with and probably needs some single time to deal with it all. If you still speak to her then recomend she see a counciler.As for you im afraid theres nothing you can do. Just chalk it up to "shit happenes" and move on. Remember life is way too short to waiste.best of luck
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