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anonymous
writes:i was a teachers assistant my whole senior year for this art teacher and he was young looking i always tought he was cute since my sophmore year so i became his t.a because he insisted me to be his t.a. so we would spend allot of time together talking about more than school my life his life he would tell me im so beautifull and that if he was in high school and my age he would totally ask me out the whole class we would talk really close flirting he even asked me if i ever wanted to come over his place after i graduated to look at his art i could you know to hang or something but there was somethin underneath what he meant,and well i coulding do anything because i was already in a relationship but i always kinda felt something for him more than student to teacher it's b'n a 1yr since i graduated and my ocasionlly talk on line im still with my boyfriend but i feel the need to get this out of my system i want to go see him and maybe kiss him and only kiss him to get it out of my system i love my boyfriend but i dont know what to do.Did these actions demonstrate mutual feeling towards me? or no? what should i do go through with it or just keep him as a friend and nothing more?
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (30 October 2009):
 I second the first response. You need to make a decision as to what you really want here.
Attraction doesn't sustain a relationship, it helps certainly, but compatibility, dedication (this means loyalty and determination and flirting with someone else is no part of this), love and respect sustain a relationship.
All people have attractions outside of their relationships, those that have failed relationships act upon them. If you want relationship success, you don't.
If you just can't help it, do the right thing and let your boyfriend go. Then he can find someone who is right for him and you can do the same for you. You both deserve to find happiness whether together or apart.
I hope this helps, it's not an easy situation, but in order to respect yourself, you have to do things right so that your not harming anyone else or being dishonest. It can't feel very good flirting with someone else and keeping it from your boyfriend.
-Angellica Waters
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