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writes:Please Help!!! Ok so i really like this girl like alot i think i love her. I have told her that i really like her. She had also told me that she really likes me,but the other day out of nowhere she changed her mind and told me that she only sees us as friends. I dont know what to do should i keep being her friend or should i just forget about her. If i keep being her fiend its going to hurt me even more because i know that i cant be with her cause she only wants to be friends. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (30 October 2009):
 I agree with you moving on. Once someone sees you as just a friend, it is rarely the case that it would change. Move on for your sake, it won't do you any good to be this girl's friend and watch her date other guys and then talk to you about her dates.
It's best if you enjoy your life and date other girls and find someone who wants to be with you. Who wants to endure self administered torture? Friendship with this girl would be exactly that.
I hope this helps and I'm sure someday in the near future, you will be able to find someone who likes you just as much as you like them.
-Angellica Waters
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): If she changed he mind all of a sudden about being friends I guess either she found someone else, or one of her girlfriends think she can get better.
f I was you Id cut the contact with her down to a minimum, and send her a few random offline messages on msn every now and then just to stay in touch. You know, in case she realizes what she missed out on. Until then, you can try to get over her, and when you are over her completely you can try to hangout just as friends.
Second approach: considering you are both teenagers, go to a party where she is and kiss her. After tasting how great it can be she might come around, plus we girls get very gigglish over such things.
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reader, hillbillyash  +, writes (30 October 2009):
Hi there,they only thing i can say to this is move on.you cant be friends with someone you really like or love or you wouldent be friends because you dont fancey your friends right.i'd stop trying to get with her as a girlfriend and i'd move on and hang with other people..someone will come along soon who likes you in the same way as you like them because i dont think she feels the same way about you hun. :0)
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