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writes: I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her.One thing is this weekend we decided to tell our friends.My best friend is bisexual and has had a girlfriend for over 3 years but im TERRIFIED of telling her, i have no idea why... I dunno what to say to her like heyy...erm yeah i have a girlfriend haha!" i really dunno how to say it to her.help?thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): She's your best friend, tell her. Otherwise she'll be miffed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): I think your friend may be more supportive than you would expect. She could have been through the same thing that you are going through right now, which is the first stage. She may even give you advice and share other things with you, now that you two are having a similar type of experience. I would recommend you explain to her from top to bottom, how you were before, how you felt, what kinds of trouble you have gone through relating to your sexual orientation, and about your current gf too. Explain in order so you friend won't be shock or lost. I know she will be happy for you, now that you're accepting who you are. To be honest, i was in your situation 2 years ago. My situation was worst because my best friends are all straight. Though it was hard for them to accept, they supported me knowing that I'm happy. So good luck to you, and trust that your best friends will do the same for you
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reader, SugarBear  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 You might not have to come out and say anything if you guys all hang out together one day or night she might be able to tell for herself,if you two are holding hands or something then she can ask you questions about it later or then.
But dont be afraid theres nothing wrong with it and shes your friend so dont let people judge you. She may wonder why you did not mentin it to her before but you can explain that so Your fine.. Have a great weekend.. make it fun..
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