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30-35,
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writes:I had met a girl at a club, she is rather crazy and wild and anyway, i started to talk to her heaps over the next weeks, and we were getting along real well. Eventually we decided to meet up in a club and it was good. She was rather smashed as she is most of the time, and had little recollection of it. We hooked up, but i pulled away because i actually wanted to get to know her. She said that she remembers me pulling away, and it broke her heart.Anyways, so we actually had a date in the city, spent an unexpected 5 hours together and at the end she texts me hours later saying she wished she kissed me.Anyway, over the next week we texted each other more. and i was talking to her good friend, and she too gave me the impression saying 'im good for her' and we would work well. and the general impression was, that she was really interested.Anyway when i next met up with her i took her for dinner and i gave her a lily. She kept calling me a gentleman and said i was rare, and kept mentioning how girls were looking at her.Anyway things were going well, even held hands and after dinner we walked round a bit more and when we kissed her attitude changed..First said i didnt feel that kiss. and then said it feels like we've been bonding more as mates.Couple days have passed, she hasnt said anything to me, either out of insensitivity or scared.And im not sure how to feel.I mean i did feel led on, but on secound thoughts, and reading other people's opinions, its a valid reason and not leading on because how else was she to find out if she liked me or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): You seem really sweet with the lilly and everything. It doesn't sound like she led you on, just seems like she wasnt into you like that. But shes missing out because you seem like a really cool guy. I would move on and find a girl who is more into romantic stuff and not just the partying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): i dont think she was leading you on, based on the information given. Thats the only way to know. Maybe she doesnt know how to interact when she's sober?
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