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Am I addicted to sex? What's wrong with me?

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Question - (30 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel like I need to have sex or i'm going to go crazy.

with each passing day i get more urges (especially at school with the hot teachers, etc.) and it's very distracting. i'll be trying to do calculus work and suddenly envision a man's arm, which isn't exactly ideal. i'm still doing well in school, but i feel like i could do better if they just went away.

i tried masturbating but it just doesn't work for me; i get no satisfaction.

i have no boyfriend either, and therefore have very little physical contact with men (i'm not sure if this is relevant or not), the only contact coming from practicing patient assessments in EMT class.

what can i do? i have enough going on with applying to college, and i really don't need this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009):

i don't believe you r addicted to sex but if you don't have a boyfiend and you can please yourself try getting a sex toy. or maybe meet someone online and have cyber sex its safe just don't give your real name no phone number NO ADDRESS. I also don't think web cams are a good idea. good luck i hope i helped.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (31 October 2009):

Illithid agony auntI'm in much the same boat (and posted a similar question just yesterday) even as a 25 year old male. It's just the joy of youth: an insatiable hunger for sex. At least that means you're healthy.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (31 October 2009):

DoubleM agony auntNatural hormones are at work, and at your age, masturbation is the wisest solution to at least ease your urges. Consider studying more of the female masturbation techniques online and in this Web site's archives. Please just consider it a little extra study and much safer for you than succumbing to riskier behavior. Best wishes to you in college.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009):

It sounds perfectly natural to me. You don't sound like you're addicted to sex. Maybe all you need is an outlet to let off some steam. If you're too busy in life for a boyfriend and masturbation gives you no satisfaction maybe you could meet someone online and have cyber sex. You get the contact with another person that may be what's missing when you masturbate, and it's safe (as long as you're not stupid) and when you're finished you can just close down the program, forget about it and do your calculus homework.

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