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anonymous
writes:I am 16 in two months - I have never been asked out or kissed by a guy. Does this mean that I am turn off to guys ? Reply to this Question
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 no, it doesn't. I used to think that about my self, although my first kiss was when i was 12, my second wasn't until i was almost 17. it just means you haven't found love.
BELVIVE me when i say that you'll love your first kiss i it's with someone you love and it's much better than getting off with too many guys.
If you can't find a guy you hit it off with, ask a friend to set you up, there is absolutly no shame in it.
=) good luck!
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 God no" absulutetly not. when you reach 16 or 17 or 18 or more it doesnt mean that guys got turn off to you, No'
its just that guys really adore you and respect you and they need a lot of preparation to get nearer to you. You are special you have to believe that because that is the fact. Wait until there is a guy who is brave enough to climb up and reach you. Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): not at all. things happen to everyone at different stages in their lives, you'll find there are actually LOTS of people who havent been kissed at the age of 15/16. have a great birthday and dont spend your time worry about that :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): No, it doesn't mean that at all! :) It just means you haven't found the right someone to ask you out or to kiss. That's all. I'm sure guys like you, but think of it this way, your first kiss and first date and everything can be really special because it'll be with someone important sometime and not something you rushed into and regret.
There's nothing wrong with not having been kissed yet or asked out, it just takes time to find the right person who wants you for the right reasons. It'll happen. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): No worries. I wasn't seriously kissed by a guy until I was 18. I was a late bloomer, plus I had a weight problem. I started to jog instead of eating and the pounds melted off. I got in shape and felt better about myself and that self confidence let me be more friendly and outgoing, which became apparent to others. Guys started to notice my outgoing nature and that made me interesting to them.
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