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writes:So I got to go on a date with a new girl a few nights ago. We got together through a dating site and I was skeptical about the whole thing to begin with. When we met up and had dinner, the whole time our conversation flowed really well, we hung out and talked quite a bit even after dinner and walked around for a while. I walked her to her car and she stood outside and talked to me even longer and before I got the opporutunity she asked me for a second date. We even kissed several times. What I'm wondering though is, should I think she may not be interested if she doesn't respond that often to my text messages? Sometimes if I like a girl, I can tend to push them away by giving too much attention. We were both very physically attracted to each other and our personalities and sense of humor is pretty much right on track so I really enjoyed the whole evening. I just want to know how to show her that I'm really interested in her and not just trying to sleep with her without pushing her away. What should I do? Should I just play it cool and let her text/call me? I hate this part about dating!
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reader, duce00 +, writes (30 October 2009):
 I think you are over-analyzing my man. You don't need to worry about letting her know you are interested in her. I think you have established that. I don't think she will perceive you as a player if you don't do some of those stupid moves that players do. Most women in they're 30's can spot a player a mile away.
You might be best off by allowing the flow of communication and interaction to be equal. By all means initiate, but if you text and she doesn't text back just hold your horses till she does. She may have a demanding life and its not personal if she doesn't reciprocate your every advance.
Good luck with her!
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