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30-35,
*hatshername
writes:so... im 15. My boyfriend and I love each other a lot. but my problem is he had a huge crush on this girl before me - for about a year he was obsessed with her - she liked him too, but wasnt ready to date. so, my boyfriend claims hes over her, and they are now just friends BUT:- He texts her all the time (in front of me)- He talks to her on the phone (sometimes in front of me)- He has some of her old texts saved- He has videos of her- He talks about her all the time..etcand.. id understand if it was once or twice.. but I asked him not to mention her in front of me or bring her up (because it hurts to be reminded of her and he knows why) - yet he still does it!! why? what should i do?
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reader, LyonHart  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 Listen sweetheart, he's obviously either A) still crushing on this girl hard or B) in love with her. Now, I don't know you or anything but I'm sure you deserve every single iota of attention he has to offer, and from the looks of things you're not getting it. For what it's worth, you should break up with him and tell him he can have the girl he's been lusting after so vigourosly. I lost count a while ago how many different girls I told this to but I might as well stand on a street corner preaching it: He does not deserve you. And guess what, it never stops being true. Hope I helped, good luck in all your endeavors.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): tell him how you feel and say that you dont mind them being friends but you feel like you are second choice x
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