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writes:How do I know if my girlfriend loves me? She as been giving me signals as if she don't want me...but I spoke with her and she said if I didn't like you I would tell you directly. Another thing is she has college n I work full time. To add to it she has a son who lives somewhere else and on weekends she spends time with him so basically there is no time for me also is it to do with me being a Leo male n she being a Libra? Reply to this Question
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reader, duce00  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 When you find yourself going from one woman to the next while still licking your wounds from the last one your doing something wrong. This is called "rebound". You are not really taking your time to build a relationship you are seeking to fill an emotional void.
I say slow down on dating. Yes, this will mean you will be alone more often. You should focus on yourself and being happy without anybody else to do it for you. This will pay off in spades because you will be a more self assured man and that turns women on as well improves the quality of your choices in life.
Stop looking outside for the answer my boy, you have had it all along!
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reader, Hearts +, writes (31 October 2009):
Hearts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for that...the only problem with trying to take her out is does not have time...but i now decided im going to move on a date another girl because 4 me this other girl is showin me more love...im insecure ur probably rite thatz bcoz of my previos relationship evting was going well until she decided she just wanted 2 be single that burnt me but thanks for ur advice
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reader, Hearts +, writes (31 October 2009):
Hearts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for that...the only problem with trying to take her out is does not have time...but i now decided im going to move on a date another girl because 4 me this other girl is showin me more love...im insecure ur probably rite thatz bcoz of my previos relationship evting was going well until she decided she just wanted 2 be single that burnt me but thanks for ur advice
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reader, duce00 +, writes (30 October 2009):
Your dating a mother and a college student, you have got to realize that she is not going to make you number one sometimes. I think another factor is you both have demanding lives and it is difficult to get on the same page sometimes.
All that aside, I think she might be getting a bit put off by your questions. Most women don't want they're man to be insecure and needy. I am not saying you are being a whiner but if she has a demanding life you might be really rubbing her the wrong way by implying that she is not behaving how you would like when all she does is jump hoop for others the rest of the time.
Try giving her a nice evening out and take control of the details. Keep it a surprise and don't place any of the drudgery on her. She would probably enjoy just getting to have a good time with you and take a breather from her regular demands.
Give it a try, it couldn't hurt!
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