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writes:What does it mean when you went out with a girl for 2 years and broke up for 3 months and she has a new boyfriend and you try and talk to her but she acts like she doesnt wanna have anything to do with you and tells everyone that she doesnt care about you but she told your friend that she wants to get back together but she doesnt wanna get hurt? and how can i show her that i wont hurt her again?
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reader, lizzie35467  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 i personaly think that you should do something really lovely like maybe sing her a song or something and see if you can start from square one again and just progress from there.
good luck :-)
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 I think I already responded to your other post.
To further that statement, you have to give her space. Stop trying to control what she does and accept that you may have no chance to win her back. Accept responsibility for the hurt you caused.
You may have cut her too deeply to be forgiven.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): well, im a woman and i am in an abusive relation ship, only everyonce in a while but i cant leave because i love him, 5 years we have been together, everytime he does verbally, or phisycally abuse me i do believe he wont do it again, but you will you will hurt her again you need to get help, so does my boyfriend, he has already been in jail for doing that to me he has been going to meetings and it is helping, and if you are a drinker stop drinking, this triggers your anger/resement toward anything and she will be the one responsible for everything there for you attack her, and later on realizing it wasent her it was you then you feel bad and lalalala so go get counceling therapy anything and let her know you are getting help and you feel really bad about everything, but chances are if she is smart she will stay away, sorry, but find someone else and show them how kind, sweet, all off the above you are and dont make the same mistake again.
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