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writes:My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me.For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all.I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell me that he wanted his space, but it's so difficult not to talk to him.I've told myself that I should just chill out and he'll probably come round in a couple of days and text me telling me he feels better, but I'm not sure if it means he's having second thoughts about us, as we've never gone a single day without talking.I'm worried.What do I do?x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 November 2009):
He's sick.
If you really want texts saying that he's on the loo emptying his guts out of his bum then great.
But he's probably too much of a gentleman and is instead staying ASLEEP!
Leave the poor guy alone and stop over thinking everything.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, domybest +, writes (29 November 2009):
Just chill like you said, if you panic and badger him then you are sure to push him away and I can tell you love him and don't wanna do that.Maybe he just needs a bit of space and that's ok, you can use it for space for yourself too, spend some time with your friends and family.You wil appreciate the time away, absence makes the heart grow stronger.You'll be fine. Good luck and enjoy the time to yourself xxx
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reader, Marky.T +, writes (29 November 2009):
ok what your doing is panicing and that is natural trust me i do it alot as well but chill i can tell that your mind is telling you instinctivly that somethingis wrong its probaly not if hes been stuck in his room for a few days maby hes outa credit and cant txt back if your realy worryed about it try ringing him but dont say about him not txting back but talk about how hes feeling how your week has been but dont get paranoid. im exsperiance theres no reason to fear or worry dont do what i did and rushin there being all paranoid it will only hurt you more
i hoped that help :)
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