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*aliMoore
writes:I have been close friends with this guy for about 3/4 years now, and twice in the years i've known him hes came out and said that he likes me more than a friend; both times it went nowhere and we continued as friends, then recently about 2 weeks ago i asked him 'what have you got to tell me?' - in conversation joking around as usual and he eventually replied 'i love you' - me thinking he was just messing around, i laughed and joked it off like 'lol well i already knew that ;) serious, what have you got to tell me?' - and he replied'how do you know im not being serious :|' and thats when i questioned him about it, and he started coming out with how he loves me and always has, and how he wants to be with me, after being so close to him for so long i thought well why not try and see how things go seems he feels so strongly about it and i do like him, i just didnt want to ruin the friendship.So we deciding to take things slow so we dont ruin what we already have and start 'seeing eachother'.Now he doesn't even bother talking to me, he doesn't make an effort to see him or anything, its like we're worse than before, like we're not even friends anymore and when i did try saying hello on msn; he just ignored me?! i feel like i can't be bothered with him anymore if he's gonna continue being like that, he doesnt have any personal problems like at home or anything, he doesn't have 'fall outs' or arguements with anyone like his friends, so its not like theres more too it.ahhh what should i do? do i just leave him and not bother anymore, wait till he speaks to me?how can you go from 'love' to not even friends just like that?please help, thanks in advance x
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reader, yussuf +, writes (30 November 2009):
yea hold your grounds. i mean he came up to you and told you all that good-stuff right? if your answer is "YES" then all you have to do is back of a little and if he's serious about you then he'll man-up and do what he's supposed to be doing instead of acting like a bubble head.
goodluck and i hope thsi helps you out!
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reader, jossie  +, writes (29 November 2009):
I know just how you feel. I'm going through the same thing but what I've noticed in your story is that you never once say you like him as much as he likes you.Do you like him? You have to figure out the answer for this before you talk to him because he's insecure about your relationship with him. He would always seek you, right? Well, I guess its your time to seek him and tell him your REAL feelings. Tell him you like him if you like him, tell him you don't like him if u don't like him. Take a risk and find out. :)
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