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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey dudes i need ur help!!i have this guy whos a really good friend but he keeps telling me that he has feelings for me, when he is really drunk he starts telling everyone that we wud make a really nice couple and people totally disagree and then he starts hugging me and i sort of freak out and move away because i look at this guy like a bro, i dont fancy him at all!!He's not the best of looking but he is a really sweet guy and he finds it hard to get girls to date him, he gets depressed about this sometimes and whenever he has a problem he always turns to me (sometimes he will stay on the phone untill like 4 oclock in the morning)like i said he is a really cool guy but just not my type and he tries to act like we're a couple in front of people, when we go out (with our other friends) i attract quite a few guys and he gets really jealous and starts saying things about them like their full of themselves, their dickheads, etc, etc.I dont want to be horrible to him and honest i never ever lead him on into thinking i like him as more than friends but i just cannot take this any longer!i dont want to tell him to back off because he gets really depressed and has tried commiting suicide once until i talked him out of it :(what do i do?xx
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (1 December 2009):
If he is really cool, you could give dating a try you know? But on the more realistic side, he has major issues which are obvious to everyone an that is the simple reason why he turns you off and no one wants to date him. Why not get one of your mutual guy friends to talk with him and see if he can improve on his behavior with ladies. He comes across as needy and that is major turn off for any mature woman.
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